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11-18-2010, 04:05 PM #61
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11-18-2010, 05:39 PM #62◄FILMM∆KERS CR€W►/Disregard everything, acquire profits!
Albums listening to now:ASIWYFA - Gangs, Beach House - Teen Dream, The Antlers - Burst apart, Thursday - no devolucion, beastie boys - hot sauce committee part 2, Wild beast - Smother, Mogwai - HWNDBYW, Republic of wolves, Everything that is Max Ritcher,The Ocean, kno - death is silent, Wu tang clan - Enter the wu tang(this album will never die).
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11-18-2010, 08:43 PM #63
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11-18-2010, 09:48 PM #64
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11-18-2010, 11:03 PM #65
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I only ever asked once. I was 17 and it was with my ex that I stayed with for 3 years. Beta as PHUCK! Honestly, don't EVER ask for a kiss. It will ONLY work if the girl likes you a lot.
Girls want a man that can lead, not ask their phucken permission for a KISS. It's a kiss. You're the man. Go get it. Gauge her reaction during the date.
Something I do that never fails is touch her throughout the cate. Nothing creepy. Hand touches, and little by little prolong it. If a bish lets you touch her and looks like she's enjoying it, it's a pretty safe bet she's ready to be kissed. If you wana be 100% sure, play with her hair. I think it was D.D that said before you go in for the kiss, touch her hair and say something like "Man, your hair's pretty soft." If she doesn't look weirded out and lets you touch it, do it again, this time for a good 8-10 seconds. If she lets you do it again, go for it.
What's the worst that could happen? She turns you down?
One time I went for a kiss at the wrong time and the bish turned me down, she said something like "What are you doing? It's only the first date!" and I replied with "Don't flatter yourself, I didn't ask you to blow me". (srs)
Go for it brahs. You just gota take the dive in life...I do because I can;
I can because I want to;
I want to because you said I couldn't.
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11-18-2010, 11:09 PM #66
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11-18-2010, 11:14 PM #67
I had one of those, we were cuddling in her bed. start playing with her back with my mouth, like blowing it making fart noises haha then I turned her around then went in for the kiss, it went good but then she felt her vagina getting fingered so, she gave me the "Oh no you didn't" look and said "what are you doing?" I didnt say anthing, just went back to sleep and took her blanket.
What do you guys do when she turns you down like say "what are you doing?" do you try again?
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11-19-2010, 12:02 AM #68
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11-19-2010, 02:01 AM #69
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11-19-2010, 12:56 PM #70
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11-19-2010, 02:58 PM #71
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11-19-2010, 03:22 PM #72
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11-19-2010, 03:27 PM #73
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11-19-2010, 08:10 PM #74
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11-19-2010, 09:29 PM #75
I've done that over 30 times this school year. Its getting easier and easier to make that first move. I havent been slapped once and have made out with the girl for at least 3 seconds. Two smiled and said they had boyfriends so I wouldnt say that was a rejection. These were all at parties where 'm talking to a girl and the convos usually 5 or so minutes in and going well so I go for it. So ya, most of these women were random that I did it too, no date.
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11-19-2010, 10:03 PM #76
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Since when do people ask to kiss a girl? Just fukin go for it.... Most girls have decided within 10min of hanging out with you whether or not they will hook up.
I don't ever ask before I kiss a girl, you just have to make it fairly obvious before you go in, like throwing your arm around her etc. This is what I do and it rarely, rarely fails. You gotta read body language as well, scoot closer to her and see how she reacts. Put your arm around her or playful touching to see the reaction.
All it comes down to is balls. That's it. You gotta have balls to succeed.
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11-21-2010, 11:04 PM #77
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11-22-2010, 07:12 AM #78
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11-22-2010, 07:51 AM #79
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Well I did it. The whole date went very well...but I contacted her yesterday afternoon and no reply as of yet. She had to work a 30 hour hospital shift and she told me she usually naps and eats when she gets home and wakes up for a little bit to try and keep her sleep on track, so I shot her a quick text asking if she was awake. IF she had responded, I would have called, but she didn't...
As for the date, I thought I was ON POINT. I made her laugh, there was a great connection from the start. She was 10 min. late so I busted her chops for that but then I said "but you look amazing so I'll let it slide". I reached over and touched her ear/earring and said "I like these". She didn't flinch or pull back so from there I escalated.
We played pool at the first bar and an hour or so in we were cuddling up, I had my arm around her, plenty of eye contact and convo flowed. I told her we'd play for a kiss on the cheek. I won 2/3 games, and she came over to kiss me but I said "no, not yet...you're too eager!"...lol.
So we left that bar and went to another where, waiting in line I just put my arms around her and kissed her. She responded well and we kinda just lingered there. She took my hands into hers to keep them warm. At this bar we cuddled up on a couch and just talked. She had her hand on my leg.
She said she was getting hungry so I suggested another place. She ended up paying for dinner...lol..spent like $50. I gave her another kiss and said "thank you, i'll treat next time". At this point it was already 3am so I told her I had to take her home cuz I had a long day on Saturday.
I dropped her off, walked her back, and we made out a bit and then I told her I had to go but I'd call her soon. She said she had a good time. In my arms she kind of lingered there. I told her she still owed me my kiss on the cheek...lol. So she did, we embraced some more until I let go and walked away...
She had to work from 4pm Saturday until 10pm sunday night???? I think that's 30 hours...lol. But I mean, can't she respond back to a text quickly?
Ah well, I'm just being needy and insecure. As far as I'm concerned the date went well and if she doesn't like me after all of that, she's weird.
But this is where my mind is my own worst enemy. I'm thinking that she doesn't like me, or maybe I did something wrong. Maybe I shouldn't have kissed her? But she liked it...I mean, we kissed like 4 separate times throughout the night. And she put her hands on my leg, held my hands in hers. Or, then I think maybe I was TOO cocky with her and now she's making me sweat...to kinda play hardball back at me after all the **** I gave her on our date...lol. Or maybe I should have paid for dinner? She wanted to pay and when I saw her card on the check I said "oh, you're getting the whole thing?". She asked, "do you want to get it?". I said "nah, you get this one and I'll take you out next time" and I kissed her and said "thanks babe". After that we cuddled on the couch some more with her head on my shoulder and hand on my leg.
I keep replaying it, and I can't find a single thing I did wrong. I think I was pretty smooth so I'm worried as to why no response.Last edited by jackedrabbit; 11-22-2010 at 08:28 AM.
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11-22-2010, 08:59 AM #80
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11-22-2010, 09:02 AM #81
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11-22-2010, 09:34 AM #82
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11-22-2010, 10:26 AM #83
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Your fine bro. You are overthinking the **** outta it like me. Dont put shi.t in a girl not texting back, I was texting a girl last night and she flat didnt text back in the middle of a decent convo and then blew me up today. I guarantee you that was a test to see if i would be a needy little bitch and see if I would double text.
Even texting girls the day after a date in questionable, if you dont text them then you are making them sweat which is what you want.
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11-22-2010, 10:36 AM #84
Have done it loads, never been pushed away although to be fair I always done it with girls who I knew I would get away with it. In work atm sitting next to some hot blonde, hitting it off well but shes like natrually ****ing stunning. She came in with mega hangover and messy hair yesterday and she still looked amazing.
Only catch is shes my mate (who is a few years older than me) little sister, same age as me though. Made loads of eye contact, good body lanuage and if I see her out next weekend I shall go in for the kill.
wish me luck
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11-22-2010, 11:04 AM #85
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I'm the king of self-doubt. On the outside I appear to be confident to most people who meet me but inside I'm a tangled ball of insecurity...lol.
In any case, IF she doesn't get back to me by say, tonight...when would it be OK to give her a call? I'm not gonna text her again. Only reason why I texted her in the first place was because I didn't want to wake her up by ringing her since I had a feeling she'd be asleep after working.
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11-22-2010, 11:09 AM #86
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