f***in' girls...what does this mean?

[icedtoaster]

Alright so theres this girl ive been talking to for like a month now. We have hung out like 3 times and shes told me that she really likes me and what not (its pretty obvious). She likes to go to these "high school parties" and I think ever since i gave up on that scene (for bodybuilding woo!) she is more interested in probably just having fun and being able to do whatever she wants without being tied down in a relationship. I went over to her friends house when they had been drinkin and they say a drunk mind speaks of a sober heart or something like that, and she told me how much she liked me and wanted to get to know me more then we madeout a couple times before i left. That was a week ago and she has been kind of distant and not dependable when we are supposed to hangout. then this morning instead of getting a text to hangout like she said the night before i get this!

"I think its better we are just friends. I'm not ready for a relationship. I want to be something with you icedtoaster* but right now just isnt a good time. I'm sorry "

she claims that her last boyfriend ****ed her over too bad and shes scared to be in another relationship. and that she didnt lose interest she just doesnt want the extra stress of a relationship.

need some opinions on this. thanks for takin the time to read it!

[lawman18]

Alright so theres this girl ive been talking to for like a month now. We have hung out like 3 times and shes told me that she really likes me and what not (its pretty obvious). She likes to go to these "high school parties" and I think ever since i gave up on that scene (for bodybuilding woo!) she is more interested in probably just having fun and being able to do whatever she wants without being tied down in a relationship. I went over to her friends house when they had been drinkin and they say a drunk mind speaks of a sober heart or something like that, and she told me how much she liked me and wanted to get to know me more then we madeout a couple times before i left. That was a week ago and she has been kind of distant and not dependable when we are supposed to hangout. then this morning instead of getting a text to hangout like she said the night before i get this!

"I think its better we are just friends. I'm not ready for a relationship. I want to be something with you icedtoaster* but right now just isnt a good time. I'm sorry "

she claims that her last boyfriend ****ed her over too bad and shes scared to be in another relationship. and that she didnt lose interest she just doesnt want the extra stress of a relationship.

need some opinions on this. thanks for takin the time to read it!

Sounds like what she said, she's not ready for a "relationship" right now. Whether the reason she told you is true or not... I do not know. It's best to go about your business the way you did prior to meeting her. If she truly wishes to be with you she'll make the next move, it's up to you if you want to wait that long or not.

[heartswild]

whats your workout look like bro?

[CreamPieMane]

[__Iceman__]

Girls like this turn guys into the black knights that screw around with girls in the first place. So become the black knight she is making you to be and forget about her and go play some other chicks.

[deathpoint]

Alright so theres this girl ive been talking to for like a month now. We have hung out like 3 times and shes told me that she really likes me and what not (its pretty obvious). She likes to go to these "high school parties" and I think ever since i gave up on that scene (for bodybuilding woo!) she is more interested in probably just having fun and being able to do whatever she wants without being tied down in a relationship. I went over to her friends house when they had been drinkin and they say a drunk mind speaks of a sober heart or something like that, and she told me how much she liked me and wanted to get to know me more then we madeout a couple times before i left. That was a week ago and she has been kind of distant and not dependable when we are supposed to hangout. then this morning instead of getting a text to hangout like she said the night before i get this!

"I think its better we are just friends. I'm not ready for a relationship. I want to be something with you icedtoaster* but right now just isnt a good time. I'm sorry "

she claims that her last boyfriend ****ed her over too bad and shes scared to be in another relationship. and that she didnt lose interest she just doesnt want the extra stress of a relationship.

need some opinions on this. thanks for takin the time to read it!

So she was drunk when you two made out, but you were sober. Correct? If so, not a very smart move my friend.

Aside from that, I've been in an extremely similar situation, so I know exactly what you are going through. Although she has expressed that she really likes you, she's obviously scared of commitment. She wants to have fun, do whatever she wants, fool around with whoever she wants, and not be committed. I assume you two are in high school, and while you are there, maybe you should do the same. Have fun and don't tie yourself down while you are young.

One thing you should always remember are the words of Nietzsche: "Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent." The world is a harsh place for us young guys.

[icedtoaster]

Sounds like what she said, she's not ready for a "relationship" right now. Whether the reason she told you is true or not... I do not know. It's best to go about your business the way you did prior to meeting her. If she truly wishes to be with you she'll make the next move, it's up to you if you want to wait that long or not.

yea thats what im thinkin too. i guess i just dont see why all the sudden she decides to make this decision. oh well i guess like you said she'll make the next move if she wants anything.
you think i should still talk to her if she texts me or something?

[majortak]

girls will be girls.

[icedtoaster]

Girls like this turn guys into the black knights that screw around with girls in the first place. So become the black knight she is making you to be and forget about her and go play some other chicks.

haha ok dually noted.

So she was drunk when you two made out, but you were sober. Correct? If so, not a very smart move my friend.

Aside from that, I've been in an extremely similar situation, so I know exactly what you are going through. Although she has expressed that she really likes you, she's obviously scared of commitment. She wants to have fun, do whatever she wants, fool around with whoever she wants, and not be committed. I assume you two are in high school, and while you are there, maybe you should do the same. Have fun and don't tie yourself down while you are young.

One thing you should always remember are the words of Nietzsche: "Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent." The world is a harsh place for us young guys.

edit: i graduated highschool last year. she is a junior lol.....yes she was drunk. but it wasnt the first time. we were both sober the first time we did. the first night i went over to her house she was like all cuddly on her bed when we were watching rattatouie so idk

[icedtoaster]

whats your workout look like bro?

my workout routine?

[petebaak]

1. **** her
2. dont talk to her for a week
3. ????????
4. profit

[WizSpeer]

k? so just hook up with her repeatedly.

[tyqb4]

just say "okay bye" and don't text her at all.

[icedtoaster]

haha thanks for the input guys..makes me feel better about the situation.
now ima go do a brutal chest n back routine!

[deathpoint]

So what to do now:

1) Act like you don't care, like you don't need her
2) Be *extra* friendly with other girls in front of her, especially her friends
3) Jokingly insult her, and bring her back up with a compliment. But then put the bitch back in her place. You are the man here.
4) She will want what she can't have, so keep playing it up
5) Do this and you'll get some good dome.

[charles211]

So what to do now:

1) Act like you don't care, like you don't need her
2) Be *extra* friendly with other girls in front of her, especially her friends
3) Jokingly insult her, and bring her back up with a compliment. But then put the bitch back in her place. You are the man here.
4) She will want what she can't have, so keep playing it up
5) Do this and you'll get some good dome.

Do this!!! it seriously works. Act like it doesn't phase you that she wants to be friends

[xfreakx]

Girls like this turn guys into the black knights that screw around with girls in the first place. So become the black knight she is making you to be and forget about her and go play some other chicks.

This.
Don't waste your time with the heartache.
Bitches will always be bitches.

[Teagreen]

did you brush your teeth on the day you made out

[Shredded-Wolf]

Sounds like what she said, she's not ready for a "relationship" right now. Whether the reason she told you is true or not... I do not know. It's best to go about your business the way you did prior to meeting her. If she truly wishes to be with you she'll make the next move, it's up to you if you want to wait that long or not.

^^^^^^
smart man

[SavageAnimal]

I scrolled down to see if there were pics or at least cliffs








so then it happened......

[startingtotrain]

girls at age 17 are stupid and impulsive, selfish, etc. it doesnt matter if she just had a crappy relationship or not. if she was really into u and u were into her, ud be together. sorry bro but shes not into u.

[WannagethugeBra]

Girls like this turn guys into the black knights that screw around with girls in the first place. So become the black knight she is making you to be and forget about her and go play some other chicks.

This. I talked to a girl for a month we went out for a day and broke up. She gave me the same bs that this girl gave you but used family problems as an excuse. I am now a badass who plays girls for fun

[IRockNikes]

girls at age 17 are stupid and impulsive, selfish, etc. it doesnt matter if she just had a crappy relationship or not. if she was really into u and u were into her, ud be together. sorry bro but shes not into u.

this. OP you're too nice to her.

[heartswild]

my workout routine?

yes

[mertearkan]

So what to do now:

1) Act like you don't care, like you don't need her
2) Be *extra* friendly with other girls in front of her, especially her friends
3) Jokingly insult her, and bring her back up with a compliment. But then put the bitch back in her place. You are the man here.
4) She will want what she can't have, so keep playing it up
5) Do this and you'll get some good dome.

This.

Don't listen to what a girl says, just increase attraction until the excuses stop.

[WinterWoIf]

She's ****ing another guy.

99% chance, not even kidding.

Most people in this section aren't experienced enough to realize this...but every single girl that is 6/10 or over, is either talking to five guys or ****ing one, and if she stops talking to you it's because out of the other four guys, one of them ****ed her before you. I've had this confirmed by tons of girls, but most of them will try to feed you some complete bull**** excuse about their ex boyfriend, or school problems, **** like that.

You guys are repeating what you've heard and think is relevant to this situation, but any decent looking chick that likes to do "high school parties" is getting ****ed on the regular.

[startingtotrain]

She's ****ing another guy.

99% chance, not even kidding.

Most people in this section aren't experienced enough to realize this...but every single girl that is 6/10 or over, is either talking to five guys or ****ing one, and if she stops talking to you it's because out of the other four guys, one of them ****ed her before you. I've had this confirmed by tons of girls, but most of them will try to feed you some complete bull**** excuse about their ex boyfriend, or school problems, **** like that.

You guys are repeating what you've heard and think is relevant to this situation, but any decent looking chick that likes to do "high school parties" is getting ****ed on the regular.

yeah this. she may like u...a little.... but she likes someone else more/ wants to pursue that.

[wside420]

Yeah stay away man. Shes got issues and you don't want to get Dragged along with her.

[WinterWoIf]

She doesn't have issues. She has no problems with her ex-boyfriend.

All those party girls, are talking to multiple guys and getting banged.

If you aren't on the scene, you have to **** em fast, and you sure as **** don't date them. And if it seems like they're the innocent type who parties but separates them from that...that's exactly what they want you to think, because no girl wants to be seen as a slut. It's the worst social stigma out there. But all of them are actually sluts. And they'll lie to you to make you like them and think they're special.

true story. Not some jaded exaggeration.

[mertearkan]

She's ****ing another guy.

99% chance, not even kidding.

Most people in this section aren't experienced enough to realize this...but every single girl that is 6/10 or over, is either talking to five guys or ****ing one, and if she stops talking to you it's because out of the other four guys, one of them ****ed her before you. I've had this confirmed by tons of girls, but most of them will try to feed you some complete bull**** excuse about their ex boyfriend, or school problems, **** like that.

You guys are repeating what you've heard and think is relevant to this situation, but any decent looking chick that likes to do "high school parties" is getting ****ed on the regular.

Hmm...