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    Still having a hard time after 4 months of break up.

    Still pretty ****ed up guys. I have a great life but I have just not been happy at all. She used to live with me and I think the lonelyness stage is starting to kick in. I just go to work, lift, and sleep. Rejection is hurting a lot with new females, and I have not had any action since the break up. Not sleeping and not getting morning wood, no libido, and no desire. HALP BEFORE I JUMP OFF A BRIDGE.
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    It's on for life. U Mad? lordsess24's Avatar
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    read stickys and use the search button bro.

    It takes time bro, lots of time. Holidays are coming up and will remind you of her. Just try to enjoy it with friends and family.


    Also we tend to look at the past with rose colored glasses and don't remember the bad times, only the good ones.

    Go out and get a second job, go out with friends, get MOAR friends, hit the gym with a vengeance, take classes at the gym(Theres ususally cute girls there too, so chat it up!) stay BUSY BUSY BUSY.
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    Originally Posted by lordsess24 View Post
    read stickys and use the search button bro.

    It takes time bro, lots of time. Holidays are coming up and will remind you of her. Just try to enjoy it with friends and family.


    Also we tend to look at the past with rose colored glasses and don't remember the bad times, only the good ones.

    Go out and get a second job, go out with friends, get MOAR friends, hit the gym with a vengeance, take classes at the gym(Theres ususally cute girls there too, so chat it up!) stay BUSY BUSY BUSY.
    Thanks, I know all this and am very well off and work hard. 50 plus hours a week, make about 75k a year. Im really worried about my physical health though. Lifts have sucked, and the morning wood is scaring me along with no desire and libido to even chase girls. WTF
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    Originally Posted by 212Ryan View Post
    Thanks, I know all this and am very well off and work hard. 50 plus hours a week, make about 75k a year. Im really worried about my physical health though. Lifts have sucked, and the morning wood is scaring me along with no desire and libido to even chase girls. WTF
    I spent a year in depression while my marriage was falling apart, and another probably 9 months after that. It takes time to heal. Life is gonna suck for a while and you just gotta push through it knowing that it WILL get better.

    Originally Posted by lordsess24 View Post
    stay BUSY BUSY BUSY.
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    just think of the bad, if you think hard enough, you will see there was more bad then good, thats what lead to the breakup.

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    Bro we all go through similar things. Try to keep yourself busy and accept that it's gonna be bad sometimes. I'm going through something similar (not the same but same feelings) and I don't know WTF to do with myself. Try to avoid being in a situation where you find yourself one when everyone else is in bed.. Don't know what else to say, in for advice I suppose
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    Thanks guys, she lived with me and im sure im just lonely and depressed. Hard after 2 years of your life with the girl and moves out, and then dates a guy 2 weeks after you split. Thats what hurts the most.

    I know its depression, stress, anxiety.... I got kinda chunky with the GF and I am not happy with my looks. I know i packed on about 15lbs with her. Confidence shot, libido gone, no desire, no morning wood. Life is just a bitch right now!
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    It is what it is, move on.

    Live by that OP.
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    bro I got out of a 2 year about 3 months ago, I really have not gotten back to my pre break up level libido, I used to jack off all the time now not so much, I just don't think about it, I got with a girl a few times after my break up and it was just bad news and not worth the sex, now im making my way back into the game... just takes time, time heals all wounds, I just work as much as I can and try not let my mind wonder but it is hard.
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