say a girl went through a year period where she slept around with a lot of guys then she settled down...can she be made gf material or is it once a whore always a whore...or is it better that she got that part of her life out of the way..
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10-09-2010, 11:56 AM #1nexus 7 brah
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Can a girl who had a "slutty stage" in her life be made gf material?
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10-09-2010, 12:05 PM #2Banned
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at 20, i doubt shes really gotten it out of her. hell shes not even old enough to go clubbing.Originally Posted by bodybuilder89
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10-09-2010, 12:30 PM #3Sup?
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This. If she's into stuff like that, the novelty usually wears thin by 22.Originally Posted by DocHol1day
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10-09-2010, 12:32 PM #4Registered User
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Short answer: No.
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10-09-2010, 12:35 PM #5Registered User
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Age: 19Originally Posted by KingYing
Of course a girl can. Guys go through the same stage. Becoming relationship material is called "growing up."
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10-09-2010, 12:40 PM #6nexus 7 brah
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location: canada thoughOriginally Posted by DocHol1day
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10-09-2010, 12:42 PM #7Jersey Troll
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doesn't matter she still has a lot of growing up to do at 20Originally Posted by bodybuilder89
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10-09-2010, 12:50 PM #8Banned
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disagree. all women have a slut phase.Originally Posted by KingYing
op, just evaluate her carefully and dont be afraid to cut ties over seemingly small issues even if your a long way in.
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10-09-2010, 01:08 PM #9Registered User
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No way. Every girl is a slut, but the one you can take home is the one that can be a slut without many people knowing it. There is no right or wrong, its all about image and a girl that is known as a slut has ****ed that **** up, just as she will **** up a loth more ****.
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10-09-2010, 01:52 PM #10Registered User
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just accept the fact that every girl has to go through a slut phase (some more slutty than others), and her having had one shouldn't be the deciding factor on being with her. if you think you're gonna get over by snatching up and locking down a virgin or a chick with only a couple partners, her slut phase will occur with a ring on her finger. there is no getting over.
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10-09-2010, 01:53 PM #11Registered User
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Did you ever go through a slut phase? It would appear that since your looking for a relationship you are out of your "slut" phase, so chances are she could be too.
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10-09-2010, 02:04 PM #12Registered User
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everyone has slut stages.
think about, you like sex. girls like sex. girls have sex. therefore they are sluts.
if you enjoy sex go have it and quit wining about whores.
if you slut around you're the champ, if a chick does she's a slut?
get a reality check and stop following double standards.
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10-09-2010, 02:25 PM #13Registered User
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fat people get harassed because they can't control themselves from overindulging in something (food) that is readily available in abundance and isn't going anywhere. same rule applies to sluts, only we're talkin dick instead of food.Originally Posted by TryStoppinMe
if acquiring dick for the average female wasn't as easy as acquiring running water, there wouldn't be any double standards.
but that's a different conversation for a different day.
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10-09-2010, 02:25 PM #14Registered User
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well, probably not all but many. some go through it when they're younger and it's restricted to kissing a bunch of guys, other go further. it can also be triggered by various stimuli - i know a girl who has been with one guy for a few years and when he broke up with her she went into "slut mode" and then settled down once again.Originally Posted by DocHol1day
and like somebody said, it's called growing up.
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10-09-2010, 02:27 PM #15Sup?
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Not everygirl goes through a "slut" phase, but I believe the vast majority do. And yes a lot of these women go through it, but I believe most that do, come out of it.
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10-09-2010, 02:28 PM #16Banned
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says the 23 year old who is already curious about what its like to be with other men....Originally Posted by majszownik
but agree that its far more likely for a girl to go into slut mode right after a relationship ends.
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10-09-2010, 02:29 PM #17Sup?
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Girls are only sluts when I wanna fucck em, and they're fuccking someone else.Originally Posted by TryStoppinMe
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10-09-2010, 02:30 PM #18I agree.Originally Posted by TryStoppinMe
Don't hold people to standards that you don't hold yourself to.
And don't hold people to a certain standard just because you're limited either.
I feel like some people are just jealous they can't get laid as easily as certain females.
But if they could the definitely would take advantage of the situation.
So rather than admit that, they just call everybody else names and take moral "high grounds" because they are limited in their lives.
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10-09-2010, 02:34 PM #19
I saw a graph on female married rates vs number of premarital sex partners and it went something like this...
partners : staying married percentage
0-1 : 80% so a virgin bride or only had sex with fiance before marriage
2 : 50%
3 : 40%
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... : leveling out in the mid 20-ieth percent
... : leveling out in the mid 20-ieth percent
20+ : 22%
Once a woman has sex with more men than her one husband her chance of staying married to her husband goes down exponentially. It sets the mindset that you never commit to one person and can literally give everything you have and then turn around and give it to another.
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This same type of phenomenon occurs with people who live together before marriage. Those who do have much higher divorce rates. This is because when you choose to live together you act married but are not fully committed and more willing to divorce later. Also, it creates some psychological imprinting where you are technically living together but without marriage your brain is set to maintain this spirit of independence and without commitment.
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10-09-2010, 02:39 PM #20Banned
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these statistics are a little misleading IMO because as its become socially acceptable for women to sleep around before marriage, laws have also changed that have turned divorce into a profit making endevour for american women. i would say that no fault divorce laws have made atleast as much of an impact in the rise of divorce rates as more sex partners has.Originally Posted by onebigc
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10-09-2010, 02:39 PM #21I LOVE MY KITCHEN!
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And what does that imply, tons of ONS, with lots of guys? Sorry, never did that.Originally Posted by DocHol1day
A woman should have a slut phase IMO, and that's with her husband! That's the appropriate time to unleash the slut.“Any idiot can face a crisis, it is this day-to-day living that wears you out.” Anton Chekhov
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10-09-2010, 02:42 PM #22Banned
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its easier to say all than it is to look for fairly rare exceptions. i know so few women these days that have never had a one night stand. believe me when i tell you that, although i know alot of party girls, i also hang out with alot of good girls.Originally Posted by DemetriaF
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10-09-2010, 02:46 PM #23Registered User
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not men, just you.Originally Posted by DocHol1day
seriously though - not curious at all, the idea of sleeping with somebody else doesn't turn me on, but rather terrifies me for various reasons. plus i've had my slut stage already, i'm past that.
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10-09-2010, 02:47 PM #24500 Internal Server Error
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A chick gets loosers as she ****s lots of dudes therefore her value is degraded. A dude only acquires experience, therefore his value goes up. Dumbass moron.Originally Posted by TryStoppinMe
A dude always has to work to get a chick but for every fat ugly rhinoceroses, there's 50 virgins bowing down to them.
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10-09-2010, 02:49 PM #25Registered User
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strong anatomy knowledge.Originally Posted by Future-Swole
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10-09-2010, 02:49 PM #26So what you're saying is it's a jealousy thing?Originally Posted by Future-Swole
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10-09-2010, 02:54 PM #27Banned
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ya know they say a lot of truth is said in jestOriginally Posted by majszownik
i remember how petrified i was the first time i had sex after me and my ex wife split up. it was only like a week after she left so there was the whole "is this wrong, am i cheating thing". then there was the thrill of being successful with a new woman. then just the fact that i had this incredibly beautiful woman naked beneath me, well, lets just say it didnt last that long......
and why am i talking about this i have no idea
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10-09-2010, 03:00 PM #28Registered User
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nah, my concerns wouldn't be about cheating. but i'm not sharing them, not in public at leastOriginally Posted by DocHol1day
ya know they say a lot of truth is said in jest
i remember how petrified i was the first time i had sex after me and my ex wife split up. it was only like a week after she left so there was the whole "is this wrong, am i cheating thing". then there was the thrill of being successful with a new woman. then just the fact that i had this incredibly beautiful woman naked beneath me, well, lets just say it didnt last that long......
and why am i talking about this i have no idea and i seem to have that effect on you - you tend to say A LOT of things you didn't mean to say when i'm around.
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10-09-2010, 03:03 PM #29Banned
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continue via pm?Originally Posted by majszownik
nah, my concerns wouldn't be about cheating. but i'm not sharing them, not in public at least and i seem to have that effect on you - you tend to say A LOT of things you didn't mean to say when i'm around.
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10-09-2010, 03:04 PM #30Retired Wizard
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Once a slut always a slut.
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