i never post in the RH section, but i saw this thread and felt like posting
My current gf was my hs crush, the one girl in hs i always dreamed of ****ing but never could...one of the popular party girls. sophmore year she ****ed 9 guys. yes, lost her virginity at the beginning, and by the end of summer had been with 9 guys....I think most would agree thats whore status, especially at the age of 14-15.
Well, she became horribly ill...she was diagnosed with CFS, as well as many other medical issues at the very beginning of junior year. She took a nosedive and became so ill, constantly in pain, always had to be drugged up with muscle relaxers and other various painkillers like tylenol/codeine....Her illness drove her to the point where she didnt want to live anymore, and she attempted suicide 3 times, but wasnt successful.
She had finally overcome the illness around early 2009, and she is a completely different person. She is not the person she was in highschool, now being 21 years old. Its really incredible to see how far shes come, and how her illness opened up her eyes to what really matters in life and what doesnt, her priorities are so much different than they were. She tried dating in 2008 when she was still fairly sick, had a boyfriend for like 3/4 of a year but they were constantly fighting and breaking up. Im the 11th guy she has been with, and she is definitely gf material....not even gf material, she is wife material. Its been rough getting over her past history with guys cuz it was pretty ridiculous, but i am just blessed to be the one she has ended up with and im so happy shes alive and happier with me then she ever has been in her entire life.
long read but worth it imo.
cliffs:
answer to OP's question: yes
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10-13-2010, 01:36 PM #331
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10-13-2010, 01:52 PM #338
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The same amount of time in which she slept with the 10 guys. And I thought you said sluts don't have standards?
Wow being a parent after you get knocked up is quite a bit to ask of someone. She most likely didn't get pregnant on purpose
Biggest bunch of bs yet. How is taking a bunch of strange dick finding yourself?
Well I've slept with 3 random guys so far and I just have no idea who I am. Now it's 8 and gosh darn it I just can't figure myself out. Now it's 12 and I get it, I'm a whore.
So they are abusing their power?
They do have every right to enjoy as does anyone but they know exactly what they are doing and what it will make them look like. Girls know what the term slut is used for before they are 16
Are you saying when you went through that stage you didn't know what you were doing?
How exactly did you find yourself?
Now I no longer have low self-esteem and don't need to find acceptance (and haven't needed to since 1991), there's no need to continue with that behaviour. I have a bf now, but before we got together I had a fuk buddy or two, which had nothing to do with self-esteem or validation, and everything to do with wanting sex on the regular but not wanting the hassle of a relationship. Of course that makes me a slut in your eyes, but the opinion of some random guy on the internet doesn't matter to me.**** Atheist Alliance ****
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10-13-2010, 01:54 PM #339
[QUOTE=wtfbbq;561231261][QUOTE=Burzmali;561218251] Wow, I'm done in this thread.
You think that a household that constantly fights or is divorced is a better environment to raise children then two happily married people that discreetly sleep with other people.
Just, wow.
I mean I understand the biological reason why you're so insecure and jealous: you don't want to waste resources on offspring that might not be yours. But damn.
Fact: what you want doesn't work.
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10-13-2010, 01:59 PM #340
[QUOTE=Burzmali;561247891][QUOTE=wtfbbq;561231261] i think that's one of the most retarded things i've read on RH. and that says a lot.
but what did i expect, this whole thread is so stupid it hurts.
and about slutty stage being about learning: it's more about looking for something that can't be found that way. and it is about learning that it really can't be found that way.
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10-13-2010, 02:00 PM #341
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10-13-2010, 02:09 PM #343
FIRST OFF DON"T SAY SH*T ABOUT MY MAN CAUSE I WILL FIND YOU AND KILL YOU AND RAPE YOUR ASS (not necessarily in that order) AND I MEAN THAT YOU STUPID MOTHER*****R.
and second, if people are happy they don't cheat. so "happily married people who cheat" IS absurd.
and don't you dare tell me what i will do. i'm in a realtionship of 5 years and i fukking know better then you do. and i'm fukking happy so FUKK OFF.
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10-13-2010, 02:11 PM #344
Didn't read thread
but I had a gf like this
I dumped her, and she went and ****ed a guy who told everyone he ****er her and trash talked her (I didn't know about the guy the whole time) the night when I dumped her.
Now she's all up on my dik and her parents want us to reunite, she wants us to reunite, because she know's she won't meet an alpha guy like me any time soon, or ever.
No. Never again. NEVER FORGET.benis in ur angus
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10-13-2010, 02:25 PM #345
i disagree with that idiot as well, but im not sure what you mean the whole thread is stupid. If you've been reading since page 1 do you think my ideas are absurd and im dreaming, do you think what im saying has no merit?
I want to hear your thoughts. This thread is probably the only one in which i posted the most replies, and only 3 people agreed with me.
completely agreed with the bolded part.
and dont get so upset you wont have to kill that guy, he'll do it to himself eventually once he realizes what a fuked up lifestyle he has.
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10-13-2010, 02:28 PM #346
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10-13-2010, 02:41 PM #348
Yeah except that their past is always there.
Getting your vagina stuffed does not translate into learning, it provides whore training, self respect is never present.
you dont wield by engaging in it. Guys dont resist shyt, they go after what they can get, when they can get, and all they can get.
I understood, and i dont have to think about what a twat i was. People only understand the thigns they choose to
Yeah and im sure you got lots of love and acceptance during the process of "finding yourself". Love in its truest form.
Your bf is a male stripper, do you really think a lot of young people would prefer to heed your relationship advice?
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10-13-2010, 02:44 PM #349
Most of the real slutty ones don't have standards. But that is different than having morals. No slut has those
No, she didn't. But now she's got a child, she's changed her outlook, ie. people can change.
It's not just "taking dick", it's learning about men, about relationships, about sex, about what you like and dislike, about boundaries, about self-respect, about everything.
Yes. It's a new power and they're learning how to wield it. Meanwhile, guys are learning how to resist it.
I was looking for something. Acceptance, love. I did have low self-esteem and knowing a guy was hot for me made me feel good. Women of all ages enjoy attention, even women older than me. I still enjoy that feeling now ... but now I know how to deal with things. I would say "control things" but you would get the wrong idea and I cba to go into detail. It's a woman thing.
Now I no longer have low self-esteem and don't need to find acceptance (and haven't needed to since 1991), there's no need to continue with that behaviour. I have a bf now, but before we got together I had a fuk buddy or two, which had nothing to do with self-esteem or validation, and everything to do with wanting sex on the regular but not wanting the hassle of a relationship. Of course that makes me a slut in your eyes, but the opinion of some random guy on the internet doesn't matter to me.
I personally have friends guys and girls that have been what I would consider sluts or former sluts. Do I think of them less as people? Nope
I wouldn't hold anyone I wanted to be in a relationship with to any higher standards than I do myself.
EDIT: lol at wrath saying the same ****^^
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10-13-2010, 02:49 PM #350
Yeah these are the kinds of people i argue with everytime i enter these threads, so it only serves me right being flamed and have my advice disregarded.
You know something else, being involved in this thread has convinced me to leave my account on this site, SRS, i thought it happened in kinetic's thread, but i wasnt fully convinced, after this thread i think im fully convinced to leave for good.
The only valuable posts here came from demetria, you, myself, and few others who have contributed with their few posts.
Ill hear what majszownik says and then i gtfo of here.
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10-13-2010, 02:50 PM #351
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10-13-2010, 02:53 PM #352
I'm not going to lie. Although I've never done the sex/soul searching thing--I do, however, enjoy the notion of a well-seasoned man. And the reason I love it is because it takes work for heterosexual men to get laid, so it's a triumph IMO.
If some gay dude goes around bragging that he's had lots of sex, I just roll my eyes. What's the big deal in that? Feels like he's abusing his power by sexual rampaging, same with women.
But straight dudes? I like them DIRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRTY!!!!!!! Or to at least pretend they're dirty.“Any idiot can face a crisis, it is this day-to-day living that wears you out.” Anton Chekhov
"10% of life, is what happens to you--90% is how you respond to it."
"I know that I know nothing"--Socrates
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10-13-2010, 02:59 PM #353
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10-13-2010, 03:01 PM #354
I knew you would be hitting on me sooner or later
Really though, I've stated before I want to get more experience and want to be good at it. I'm not sure I want to do that by hooking up with numerous bar flys though. If I were getting into a relationship with someone and they judged me solely on that, I'm not sure what I would think. It's definitley a huge aspect of a relationship but if the girl was less experienced than me and not very good, we could always work to make her better and vise versa
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10-13-2010, 03:03 PM #355
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10-13-2010, 03:10 PM #358
I dont really consider this right or wrong, i think that for most women it's natural to think this way. Just as with all things girls love the thought of their man being desired by other women, even their friends. The fact that her man had his pick at others and then picked and stayed with her makes her feel special out of the whole bunch.
With guys it's completely opposite, we hate the fact that others may consider out gf hot because we know it greatly increases her chances to be lured into something we dont want her doing. Guys may boast about the fact that they like to show off their 'trophy/prize gf/wife' but deep down inside every guy feels annoyed when his gf gets constant male attention every time she goes out. I know some guys who turned those kind of girls down because they dont want to deal with all the bullshyt that comes with having a hot girlfriend SRS.
just a thought.
that's fine, ill wait.
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10-13-2010, 03:18 PM #359
the experience factor does not apply to every woman, everyone is different, there are girls out there who would prefer you to be just as inexperienced as they are and they may turn out to be better than those who think otherwise.
As i said before i dont think for any quality girl your experience should be the deciding factor, things you value, stand by, your morals and principles as well as strong personality trump all those things.
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10-13-2010, 03:21 PM #360
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