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    Is there such thing as a perfect relationship?

    I know a couple girls who leave relationships the second theres any kind of trouble or if it's not going the way they planned it. When I ask them why they wont work on it instead of just breaking up with their bf's, they all reply that "you shouldn't have to work to make a relationship last" and that it should just be perfect all the time because thats the way its suppose to be.

    Are these girls just delusional and have seen one too many disney movies? I dont know anyone thats not married or in a relationship that hasnt had problems but they work through it.
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    Delusional. I'm young, but every married couple I have ever observed have had too work their asses of and stay devoted too one another. A quality that is very scarce apparently nowadays.
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    Originally Posted by Peagle85 View Post
    I know a couple girls who leave relationships the second theres any kind of trouble or if it's not going the way they planned it. When I ask them why they wont work on it instead of just breaking up with their bf's, they all reply that "you shouldn't have to work to make a relationship last" and that it should just be perfect all the time because thats the way its suppose to be.

    Are these girls just delusional and have seen one too many disney movies? I dont know anyone thats not married or in a relationship that hasnt had problems but they work through it.
    is there such a thing as perfect.. anything?

    relationships take work, if someone thinks otherwise, theyre delusional or immature.
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    I don't think there is such a thing as a "perfect relationship" since we're imperfect people, but there IS such a thing as a happy relationship and an unhappy relationship. I'm surprised as to how many people are in unhappy relationships.

    I think way too many people get into relationships with incompatible people.
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    Always ups and downs.... Nothing is perfect. Relationships are hard work. Both partners are gonna have to put up with some BS... The question is, is it worth it? Do you see light at the end of the tunnel? If you see a future of head aches with this person then.....
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    delusional for sure. and damn stupid.
    and if i was in a relationship where there weren't ANY fights/differences of opinions that we had to work through i wouldn't call it a prefect relationship. you can't be sure that the relationship is going well and is going to last if you're not sure that you'll be able to work through issues together. and at some point they are bound to appear. in any relationship between two people there comes time when people don't agree/have to put effort into making it work. it just works that way, whether it's in the family, between friends or lovers.
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    Is there such a thing as a perfect world? No. In fact, fights/wars/disagreements are what make the world go round, and same with relationships. If you never fought and agreed on everything, your relationship would fail quicker than if you did, as backwards as that sounds.
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    and this is what happens when dumb bishes get white knighted.

    "oh but i want him to be perfect and i want him to look like a model and i want him to be such a gentleman who loves kids and loves me so much and the only thing he loves more than me is his golden lab who he walks with and hang out with every day~~!!!!!

    if he ever got upset or frustrtaed i'djust dump him right there, because you shouldn't have to work on true love ~ it should be almost like a fairy tale"

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    There is a big difference b/w working together in a good relationship and working together to FORCE a mediocre/bad relationship to work.
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    I don't think it should be hard work. The normal ups and downs and disagreements between a couple can be dealt with by compromise and mutual respect. But if you have to battle to sort things out, it's a sign of incompatibility.
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    Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore View Post
    I don't think it should be hard work. The normal ups and downs and disagreements between a couple can be dealt with by compromise and mutual respect. But if you have to battle to sort things out, it's a sign of incompatibility.
    This^^^^^^^. If you really work hard to find the right/compatible person to begin with that is 9/10 of the problem solved.

    In 20 years I can only think of 2 maybe 3 arguments my wife and I had where we really got upset with each other...and we got over those in a day or so. And those arguments were probably mild compared to what some couples go through.
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