So many people say i'm monotone. I am shy around people I don't know, but pretty outgoing with people I am comfortable with. People hate hanging out w. me because they say I'm boring and show no emotion.
"and thats why im not fond neither is pem...no offence its kinda boring to be around you..like not trying to be a bitch!! i dont mean it that way"
"hahaa hates a strong word..just arent fond..you arent very outgoing like lynds idk just kinda dont show any emotion"
I'm actually a person with a lot of emotion. I get happy, sad, angry, romantic, excited, worried, and so on just like everyone else. But I can't express any of these emotions in my voice, I always sound bored when I'm talking, even though I'm not. My voice never changes pitch or tone ever, and this is quite frustrating because I'm trying to force myself to express emotion and I can't.
How can I fix this? Does anyone know? It really hurts my feelings when people say that. I know they aren't trying to be mean, but the thought of not liking myself is painful. I want to change... does anyone know how?
09-26-2010, 05:23 PM #1
People say I'm monotone and have no personality
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09-26-2010, 05:35 PM #6
I'm actually a person with a lot of emotion. I get happy, sad, angry, romantic, excited, worried, and so on just like everyone else. But I can't express any of these emotions in my voice, I always sound bored when I'm talking, even though I'm not. My voice never changes pitch or tone ever, and this is quite frustrating because I'm trying to force myself to express emotion and I can't.405 bench
09-26-2010, 05:39 PM #7
09-26-2010, 05:41 PM #8
You have to learn to not care about what people think of you. That will allow you to act stupid and have fun. People wont remember the dumb things you say or do they will remember the night as a whole and be like wow that guy was crazy and fun, cant wait to chill with him again.
It helps to have hobbies and make friends that you can actually relate to. The more experience you have in different things the more interesting you will be.
Edit: Also get a job, you will make some friends at work and you will have money to go out, buy nice things, or buy dildos if you decide to continue being a ***got.
09-26-2010, 05:46 PM #9
09-26-2010, 05:57 PM #10
I used to be the same way at 15 and thats pretty much how I did it.
By 18 I was a cool guy, always had a new gf, had a car, nice clothes. I was a skinny little ***got though but it didnt matter (free 6 pack son). Anyways, I joined the military got to a normal size, continued to be cool, lots of friends, always invited to parties, have a serious gf now but if we break up it will be by my doing and ill have a new girl within the week.
So stop caring about what people think and have some fun for once in your life.
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09-26-2010, 06:52 PM #14
i really have a social nervousness with people ... i hate to do things in public alone , im weird i know ... but it works for me sometimes , hah ill be ur friend man , my parents are monotone ... i like it and it works for me .... haha my friend didnt know my mom was "YELLING" and was totally creeped out about it lol
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