please bare with me....
my face isn't too bad looking (nothing totally awful) and i have a better body than 80% of the guys on the dance floor at least, but no girl ever even seems to acknowledge my existence. it has started to frustrate me tremendously, the guys getting all the girls are not good looking at all. Average or chubby but they got all the girls and talk with them all night. My inability to even be acknowledge by girls has really started to piss myself off. I am a perfectionist and i can stand being pushed away like that. I even got into a fight with a guy on the dance floor tonight, because he grabbed away the girl i tried to dance with. I nudged him slightly in the back after he did that and he pushed me back hard and got in my face. I pushed him away and then punched him straight in the face hard(I felt threatened kinda). He dropped an then his friend then came up running from behind and head locked me from the back, but i wrestled myself out of it, pushed him off on the floor (was a manlet) and left the club quickly. Before things got any worse. I feel bad about what happened, but it is what it is....
I am a relatively smart guy; a total over achiever, graduated high school at 16, straight to college and alway worked my ass off too become good in anything that interested me. And I have become good in anything that interests me except girls(and maybe grammar)....Right now girls interest me and in day to day life I am okay with trying to become friends and attracting them (kinda). I used to be a total nerd that couldn't talk to girls a year ago, but since my 19th birthday (November 2009) I have been off and on with about four girls in total over that time, lost my virginity and got laid on the regular etc(feels good man). That kinda dried up because of me being busy and other things. Clubs on the other hand i get zero nopes no attention at all. Girls wont look at me and when i approach them they will turn their head away or on the dance floor turn the other way and dance with some other random looking guy. I dont get it what is wrong with me?
what i did notice one night I went clubbing with 2 big friends and the dj was an okay friend of mine, girls where generally more receptive. (they even smiled at me, I dont get this **** srs)....
please help me out lol
thanks for reading!