How to make her chase me?

[Mxer_129]

I'm currently chasing her. So, how do I make her chase me.

She chased me for the first 2 months, now I've been chasing her for the past 2 months.

Feels bad man. How do I change this back to how it was, her chasing me?

I'm afraid if I cease contact she won't care and just move on...

[Phantom1104]

I'm currently chasing her. So, how do I make her chase me.

She chased me for the first 2 months, now I've been chasing her for the past 2 months.

Feels bad man. How do I change this back to how it was, her chasing me?

I'm afraid if I cease contact she won't care and just move on...

If she's anything like the girls I am attracted to. Treat them like yesterday's dump and they'll be all over you. Treat them with respect and they take a dump on you.

[Glebe]

srs dude same stuff here. I've been chasin this girl..didn't text her, then she texted me...good stuff man.

[Wife Beater]

you stop chasing her

[BreakYouDown]

Stop chasing her.

Don't give her any attention and she'll start getting worried.

And then it begins.

[.aeterna]

I'm afraid if I cease contact she won't care and just move on...

theres the problem. you are caring if SHE cares.

remember, a mentality of having an abundance of hot girls is what will get her to chase you.

oh and , if she "moves on" then obviously she wasnt worth your time, your worries, and THOUGHTS right??

[Mxer_129]

Well I know she likes me because she tells me.

I'm just tired of initiating everything. Texting, calling, asking to hangout. I want it to be 50/50.

So should I stop texting/calling and wait for her?

When we first met she'd always text "morning, goodnight, how are you" etc. everyday. Now I'm the one doing it because i'm clingy and starting to fall for her.

[pondus_levo]

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[.aeterna]

well u guys have been dating for 4 months, but are you in an official relationship?


4 months is a long time...and girls generally expect you to take initiative.

personally it wasnt until the "official" label was slapped when the girl started taking initiating..alot lol

[Mxer_129]

No official relationship yet. So Idk what to do tbh.

Based on the info I've given so far... Do you think she'll start texting/calling more if I cease contact?

[Dallas17]

yeah agree act like u dnt give a sht....if she aint bout u then NEXT her

[maikuljay]

No official relationship yet. So Idk what to do tbh.

Based on the info I've given so far... Do you think she'll start texting/calling more if I cease contact?

Yep.. like already mentioned.. your thinkin to far into it.. she'll either or she wont.. you gotta do it man..

if you keep doing what your doing you'll become her little whipping boy.. do you want that?

if she's interested she'll contact you.. the bit you are struggling with is.. can you deal with the thought that maybe she's found someone else or has lost interest.. that is a possibility.. once you come to terms with it and are 'ok' with it.. the control is back to you.

[Mxer_129]

Yep.. like already mentioned.. your thinkin to far into it.. she'll either or she wont.. you gotta do it man..

if you keep doing what your doing you'll become her little whipping boy.. do you want that?

if she's interested she'll contact you.. the bit you are struggling with is.. can you deal with the thought that maybe she's found someone else or has lost interest.. that is a possibility.. once you come to terms with it and are 'ok' with it.. the control is back to you.

This is my biggest problem.

I've tried deleting her number but I still know it, so that doesn't do much.

[maikuljay]

This is my biggest problem.

I've tried deleting her number but I still know it, so that doesn't do much.

it's tough man, but this is real life.. harden up a bit.

[Mxer_129]

I'll respond when she texts me but I'll be vague.

If she asks, "what are you doing?", do I also ask what she's doing? or... "How are you?", do I ask how she's doing? Or should I just be selfish...

[Mxer_129]

Stop chasing her.

Don't give her any attention and she'll start getting worried.

And then it begins.

Also, how long does this take, to take effect?

[EpicMN]

Bro this is the true test to see if a woman is worthy. If she likes you she will chase you, but you have to keep her chasing you by being interesting and making yourself unavailable. When she texts you tell her your busy with friends / have other plans, then actually go out and do something fun / interesting she will see whats she is missing and want to be part of it.

4 months is too long not to have some sort of title, clarify with her what your really after but dont WK her, woman love unpredictable cocky bastards.

DC

[Exane]

I'll respond when she texts me but I'll be vague.

If she asks, "what are you doing?", do I also ask what she's doing? or... "How are you?", do I ask how she's doing? Or should I just be selfish...

Be selfish. dont ask what shes doing (because you dont care what she is doing), dont ask how she is (because you dont care how she is). This is how you need to come across and tbh, the only way to achieve it is to truly not care. You guys arent together yet, so what. Chill out, take a deep breath, and take a look at all the other **** around you.

[Mxer_129]

I haven't heard from her in 24 hours. Now I get depressed. Feels bad man.

I don't expect to hear from her until Thursday when she wants attention.

The temptation to text her is strong right now.

[killerobotninja]

I haven't heard from her in 24 hours. Now I get depressed. Feels bad man.

I don't expect to hear from her until Thursday when she wants attention.

The temptation to text her is strong right now.

Put the phone down and just walk away.

Trust me.

24 hours is nothing. If she's interested she will text you this week.

[S0LID]

dump her

[comrie]

imo, the person who cares the least holds the most power

[Mxer_129]

imo, the person who cares the least holds the most power

Exactly! If I've learned one thing from this, it's this. It blows but it's the truth.

[VENOMsK8r]

Exactly! If I've learned one thing from this, it's this. It blows but it's the truth.

So your saying stop contacting the girl and make her do all the initiating?

[Mxer_129]

So your saying stop contacting the girl and make her do all the initiating?

No. That the person who cares the least holds the most power.

Edit: I failed and texted her (FML)...

Although we had a slightly decent conversation.

She's been sick all weekend so....

Me: How are you feeling?
Her: I'm okay, I have another ear infection.
Me: That's sh!tty, how'd you find out?
Her: There was blood coming out of my ear.
Me: So what did you do all day?
Her: I had to help my boss rearrange the salon. I'm gonna start doing pedicures at our salon now.
Me: Oh now I can get a pedicure huh?
Her: Nooope. But hey I'm falling asleep. Goodnight I'll text you in the morning.
Me: Night.

I have ****ty text game btw..

Can you tell me anything about her based on this convo? She's told me she likes me, and we're more than friends but not exclusive yet. (This was a couple weeks ago). The game playing is over (I think). So how do I keep her interested?

[Phantom1104]

No. That the person who cares the least holds the most power.

Edit: I failed and texted her (FML)...

Although we had a slightly decent conversation.

She's been sick all weekend so....

Me: How are you feeling?
Her: I'm okay, I have another ear infection.
Me: That's sh!tty, how'd you find out?
Her: There was blood coming out of my ear.
Me: So what did you do all day?
Her: I had to help my boss rearrange the salon. I'm gonna start doing pedicures at our salon now.
Me: Oh now I can get a pedicure huh?
Her: Nooope. But hey I'm falling asleep. Goodnight I'll text you in the morning.
Me: Night.

I have ****ty text game btw..

Can you tell me anything about her based on this convo? She's told me she likes me, and we're more than friends but not exclusive yet. (This was a couple weeks ago). The game playing is over (I think). So how do I keep her interested?

I'm kind of in the same situation, only I was sucking on my girls clit on Saturday night and have yet to hear back from her. The sex was good by the way and she asked to stay the night (we were at my place). Why I haven't heard from her who knows? Some women get all weird after having sex with a dude for the first time. But I've cut contact with her since about 6 or 7 hours ago and am going to hold out an entire week unless I hear back from her first.

As far as your girl, the fact she responded is a good sign. BUT, she ended the text conversation. It shows she knows she still holds the power to talk whenever she likes and end it at her will. You did a good thing in being concerned when she is sick. She'd hold that against you if you didn't ask about her well being. But now that you did that, definitely need to not text her again. WAIT A WHOLE WEEK. YOu and me, we're in this together man.

[captain_marvel]

No. That the person who cares the least holds the most power.

Edit: I failed and texted her (FML)...

Although we had a slightly decent conversation.

She's been sick all weekend so....

Me: How are you feeling?
Her: I'm okay, I have another ear infection.
Me: That's sh!tty, how'd you find out?
Her: There was blood coming out of my ear.
Me: So what did you do all day?
Her: I had to help my boss rearrange the salon. I'm gonna start doing pedicures at our salon now.
Me: Oh now I can get a pedicure huh?
Her: Nooope. But hey I'm falling asleep. Goodnight I'll text you in the morning.
Me: Night.

I have ****ty text game btw..

Can you tell me anything about her based on this convo? She's told me she likes me, and we're more than friends but not exclusive yet. (This was a couple weeks ago). The game playing is over (I think). So how do I keep her interested?

Notice how she didn't even ask you a single question.

[maikuljay]

No. That the person who cares the least holds the most power.

Edit: I failed and texted her (FML)...

Although we had a slightly decent conversation.

She's been sick all weekend so....

Me: How are you feeling?
Her: I'm okay, I have another ear infection.
Me: That's sh!tty, how'd you find out?
Her: There was blood coming out of my ear.
Me: So what did you do all day?
Her: I had to help my boss rearrange the salon. I'm gonna start doing pedicures at our salon now.
Me: Oh now I can get a pedicure huh?
Her: Nooope. But hey I'm falling asleep. Goodnight I'll text you in the morning.
Me: Night.

I have ****ty text game btw..

Can you tell me anything about her based on this convo? She's told me she likes me, and we're more than friends but not exclusive yet. (This was a couple weeks ago). The game playing is over (I think). So how do I keep her interested?

I think you did the right thing by not pushing it.. she wasn't overly receptive in the messaging.. but really i think you are over thinking it a bit.. This is why you need to keep busy/more than 1 on the go... otherwise 7 hours seems like an eternity.. just chill for a few days..

I did notice how she never asked a question.. she didn't wanna keep it going.. if that's the case then really you don't wanna talk to her either.. Your only in it, if she is..

haha, god it's so fuccked how we have to play these ridiculous games but i'm all to aware of how it is..

[fleabass11]

dont totally ignore her...just act like you have been REALLY busy (even though youre not) and if she IMs you and sees youre on computer....lie and say you have friends over and cant talk right now...

she will want the attention from you back pretty quick...

[PigFelcher]

Just leave her alone brah, don't cave in and text.

You should have more than one on the go as it stands, but if you don't find some.

If she texts you, and you keep on the conversation, and she sends a text that will basically end it, i.e. Goodnight I'll text you in the morning, don't respond. She probably won't text in the morning. Don't you text her first though. Let her come back to you. If she's being vague or short with answers to questions etc, either don't respond or do the same.

You know how you feel when she doesn't text you and you sit around all day waiting for it? Imagine yourself with long hair, tits and a pussy, waiting for some person with a penis who trains in a gym (maybe) to text you. Exactly the same.

Chicks are on their fuking phones ALL the fukin time now, but most of the text messages they send are silly bullsh!t ones to their chick friends. Believe it or not they aren't texting hundreds of different guise. It doesn't mean she won't feel anxious about not getting a text from you, she's probably onto her friends going, "Blah blah blah, what does it all mean if he hasn't texted me yet, can I borrow some tampons, blah blah blah".

Just leave it, let her come back to you. In the meantime - disregard females, acquire currency, or acquire more females.