The story: I've just turned 24 years old. I'm still a virgin, have never had a gf of a any description, never touched a girl bar shaking hands, never been on a date, been asked on a date or even been given a girl's phone number once. I know I sound like a troll, but this is for real. Just wondering if anyone else of early-mid 20's age is in a similar situation.
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09-03-2006, 05:19 AM #1
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Is anyone else THIS inexperienced?
"Honor is something that all men are born with. It cannot be taken from you nor can it be granted. It must only not be lost."
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09-03-2006, 05:47 AM #2
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09-03-2006, 05:51 AM #3
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09-03-2006, 06:09 AM #4
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09-03-2006, 06:21 AM #5
hey man don't even worry about it. I actually know a guy who is 40 and never had a romantic relationship or got physical with a girl (i'm 20....he's a family friend). He wasn't allowed to date until he was out of college and he got out of college around the age of 26. The way he presents himself turns women off. So don't even worry about it. Just take each day at a time and if you see a woman that you would like to know better just start a convo (but dont act all desperate and needy...but also don't flower her with complements...just talk to her like a human being.
Leave your ego at the door.
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09-03-2006, 06:43 AM #6Originally Posted by maori-rap
im guessing your a quiet bloke, women go for personality. ive heard this from countless women.
do you have friends you go out with?
its pretty hard situation your in, as your 24 and never had a gf you probably come across as desperate, which you probably are. which girls probably sense.
you gotta get confidence man, im taking your in half decent shape if you post on here??????
put it this way, you only live on this earth ONCE and when your dead youll be forgotten, so make the most of it.
also probably sounds lame but try online dating or summin, theres some nice girls on there that find it hard to meet men too. just gotta sift through the weirdos and other ****e.
i say youve got nothing to lose man, if it dont work out at least you can say you dated a woman. just let your personailty shine through and youll be good to go.
all the best
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09-03-2006, 06:44 AM #7
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09-03-2006, 07:05 AM #8
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09-03-2006, 07:18 AM #10
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09-03-2006, 08:06 AM #12Originally Posted by maori-rap
I was with a kind of girl who just didn't let me touch her asses or just staring at it or touches her boobs. She was 18, three months lost with this girls.
She was grown like overprotected girl in a magical world of fantasy like fairy tales. It sucks.
Wish you luck bro.
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09-03-2006, 08:53 AM #13
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You sound like one of my best friend's older brother...is your name John?
Look bro, if you continue with your mindset, you'll never meet a girl. Forget not ever getting laid- you'll never even make a connection with a human being of the opposite sex. Now that would suck huh? You'll get no physical or emotional pleasure!
You need to forget about how fat you are, how ugly you are, or whatever the hell you are insecure about. A small dick? Forget about it man. Just go out there and let go. You will probably get rejected alot, but that's ok. Why do you care what a random girl thinks of you anyway? Just go up to someone and start talking. Even if you are terrible, the right girl, a nice one, will give you time and give you a chance. You'll be able to feel it out.
If you are as bad as you say, go to a strip club. I'm serious. Go to a strip club where the women are getting paid to be friendly to you, and work on your conversation skills. It is 100% guaranteed that they will talk to you, because they want you to pay the $20 for a lap dance. Use this to your advantage, but keep your wallet in your pants. Talk to these girls, and feel out how a conversation is supposed to be structured. Then, go out and try it on a girl that has a little more dignity, and an environment that carries a little more social risk, like a bar.
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09-03-2006, 10:03 AM #14
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09-03-2006, 10:14 AM #15
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women are people. in a lot of ways, they're just like guys. just talk to people and don't worry about where it goes. meet as many women as you can, and JUST TALK TO THEM!!! if you find one that you seem to be getting along with really well, you guys are connecting, there is good conversation, etc, tell her you'd like to take her to dinner some time. if you let it be easy, it will be.
been with my GF for 4 years, just as a point of reference.
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09-03-2006, 10:16 AM #16
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09-03-2006, 10:29 AM #18
supadjdiesel that was because a lot of my friends, my sister and cousin as well went on birth control to control acné and got beautiful skin from it
and some of them said they gained weight from it or now have to starve themselves to stay the same
besides there are a lot of reasons to go on birth control other than birth control such as fixing menstruation irregularities etc.
phateless I guess you're right but it seems kissing isn't a big deal at all to them and it is to me... plus my sister (she never kissed till she was like 23 and she's still a virgin now at 24) has always scared me with tons of stories about people carrying STD's and I know you can get some, like herpes, from just kissing right? I don't want that. And yeah I don't know I just think it's scary to kiss with someone the first time cos... I don't wanna be a bad kisser with a guy I like, and I don't wanna kiss a guy I don't like at all.Last edited by justanothagirl; 09-03-2006 at 10:43 AM.
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09-03-2006, 10:52 AM #19
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i would just not worry about it. all you've gotta do is be gentle and follow the lead, kinda like dancing.
as for diseases and stuff, yeah that sucks. but life itself kills you, bit by bit. there's no sense in being too afraid to live it. just be selective about who you kiss, try to know them decently beforehand.
my buddy races motorcycles. he knows sooner or later he's gonna wreck and make that health insurance worth it, but he loves it, and it's worth the risk. he has fear, but that doesn't stop him from doing what he loves.
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09-03-2006, 11:19 AM #20
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09-03-2006, 11:54 AM #22
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09-03-2006, 12:46 PM #23Originally Posted by maori-rap
If thats the case then you've got to be proactive, nothing worth anything ever comes easy.
If you want it to happen then you've go to make it happen.
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09-03-2006, 12:47 PM #24
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09-03-2006, 10:07 PM #26
i never had a gf till 17. i had messed around with girls, but never had an official gf....and i only had 3 girls i messed with. i got to ask this though, do you have high standards? that was my problem....i'm not a good looking guy and i had rediculously high standards. i expected to get a girl who looked like a supermodel, and it doesnt always work that way. so i slapped myself back into reality and got a good-looking gf instead of still waiting on a 9.5. i'd give her a 7.5 to 8, and her personality was 10+, but it didnt work out cause she had family issues with her parents getting divorced and she ended up moving to florida with her mom.
Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it. - Lou Holtz
If a man wants something he has never had before, he must do something he's never done before.
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09-03-2006, 10:18 PM #27
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09-03-2006, 10:21 PM #28Originally Posted by WIP"As you know bb'ing takes time, so even though you thought your 60 lbs would be as big as you'd get, now that your there, you realise you can do more. Its a good thing. It keeps you progressing and getting better. Be proud of how far you've come, and from that, be motivated about how much further you can go."
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09-03-2006, 10:25 PM #29
no cant say that i am. i wish you luck my friend and remember:www.maori-rap.youaremighty.com
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09-03-2006, 10:42 PM #30
not lettin ur dick ****? just do what these guys do **** your dick.
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