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    "Stop calling/texting her" tactic

    So, for those who have tried this strategy with women to give yourself value and turn the tables on her so she is the one chasing you a bit, how long did it take for you to see any results?

    The woman I am going to try this on does talk to other dudes, so she may not even notice or it may take longer since I'll be out of sight out of mind and she gets attention from other dudes.

    So all in all, once you decide to cut communication and go cold on her, what time frame am I looking at having to hold out to see if she contacts me? we talking a few days? a week? longer? I'm prepared to stick to my guns here. I sent her the last text today and communicated my interest in getting closer. She has told me in convos that "what girl doesn't like to be chased?" So this could turn into a Cold War.
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    Within a week I'd say. If you don't get a message by then she's gone imo.
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    Originally Posted by Phantom1104 View Post
    I sent her the last text today and communicated my interest in getting closer. She has told me in convos that "what girl doesn't like to have her ego boosted" So this could turn into a Cold War.
    Fixed and...

    Communicated your interest to getting closer? uhg...

    Well, since you already told her how you feel then the ball is 100% in her court. If she doesn't msg you back she is not interested. If she does msg you back you have to figure out if she is just being nice to you because you give her attention and she knows she can have you at any time or she genuinely likes you back and also wants to move forward.

    Good luck with that. That's why you don't tell a girl how interested you are until she tells you or shows you first.
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    Originally Posted by xvicknumber7x View Post
    Within a week I'd say. If you don't get a message by then she's gone imo.
    Hmmmm I agree with this...a week is a good level of time to expect some communication.. but I will say i did go away for 6 weeks didn't speak to any chicks back home whilst away and had two somehow the day i got back hitting me up..

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    Texting should be a means of getting together in the real world only. Sooner or later you'll be listening to her b!tch over a text.
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    I find 4 days is normally long enough before they start contacting you, but there is no set time limit for it. This past week I stopped calling/texting a girl thursday (have talked to her practically every day for awhile now). She contacts me sunday and just asked a random dumb question. Today she wanted to hang out.
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    Longest ive went was 3 days. got a txt saying "I miss you" win. (this is on dumb highschool bitches tho)
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    Originally Posted by pondus_levo View Post
    Fixed and...

    Communicated your interest to getting closer? uhg...

    Well, since you already told her how you feel then the ball is 100% in her court. If she doesn't msg you back she is not interested. If she does msg you back you have to figure out if she is just being nice to you because you give her attention and she knows she can have you at any time or she genuinely likes you back and also wants to move forward.

    Good luck with that. That's why you don't tell a girl how interested you are until she tells you or shows you first.
    Well, the thing is that we went out Saturday night and she stayed the night. She was on her period, but we did everything in bed you can do while she is on her period. So she is interested if she got into bed with me. Though, she tends to be flakey with returning calls/texts and I am kind of tired of playing that game, so kind of went all in with my chips and expressed my interest to see if this is going somewhere or not. Cutting communication. If she looks for me great, just didn't know how long I should give her before writing her off.
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    The only person this has ever worked with for me was my ex gf. Every other girl just thinks I've lost interest....probably not the best strategy unless you've been seeing the chick for sometime.
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    Update:

    Well, I was about 24 hours into this and she has texted me. A short question, but nonetheless, she made contact. And probably expecting me now to jump and text her back, so I'm resisting.

    What's the alpha move here? Sit on the text for a minimum of 24 hours? Longer? Reply with a "I don't give a damn about you attitude" but still show I'm not totally disinterested?
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    Originally Posted by steelflex60 View Post
    The only person this has ever worked with for me was my ex gf. Every other girl just thinks I've lost interest....probably not the best strategy unless you've been seeing the chick for sometime.
    And this. It's not really the type of tactic to use after the 2nd date, she has to actually have an emotional connection with you that she'll miss. With some girls that never happens though.
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    Originally Posted by Patchwork View Post
    And this. It's not really the type of tactic to use after the 2nd date, she has to actually have an emotional connection with you that she'll miss. With some girls that never happens though.
    She has told me that every girl likes to be chased. I don't think we have an emotional connection, but she has also told me she could fall in love with me. I just dislike being always the one to initiate contact and put up with her flakiness. She's not a complete flake, I mean I was in bed with her Saturday night but she definitely plays phone/text games. Saturday night she checked her phone probably 3-4 times so I know she's never more than 2-3 hours from checking her phone at any given moment.
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    why play these games? if shes feeling you, she'll text you right back. if she thinks you're a scrub, she won't. and for a fact, i believe 99% of women carry and check their phones at all times.

    if you're interested just let her know. keep it simple! but that's just me.
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    Wait her out dude. Now that she has made contact that 1 text that you don't reply to, especially since it was a question meaning she wanted a response, will eat her alive. Give it 24-36 more hours bud. She will text you again now. You are on your way to getting the ball back in your court. Hold out bro, hold out.
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    It all depends on the girl. If she has other stuff going on and you dont have much of a connection to start with she might never actually message you.
    Some girls also see right through these games.
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    Originally Posted by Phantom1104 View Post
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    Well, I was about 24 hours into this and she has texted me. A short question, but nonetheless, she made contact. And probably expecting me now to jump and text her back, so I'm resisting.

    What's the alpha move here? Sit on the text for a minimum of 24 hours? Longer? Reply with a "I don't give a damn about you attitude" but still show I'm not totally disinterested?
    Sit on a text for a day or longer? LOL. I thought that you didn't like playing games?

    Reply now if you haven't already. When you go a day without talking, you can take 15mins to an hour for you're first response. Give it 3-10mins when going back and forth though?

    How old is this girl? Don't sweat her or any other bish out there. Do you're thing. Keep playing it cool, and make her reach. Then you can capitalize.
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    24 hours for a question?

    She'll probably text you again a few hours after her first text when you don't respond. Waiting 8 hours after her first text is enough if she doesn't text you again. If she brings it up about how long it took, you play it off as if you were tied up with work or sleep and couldn't get back to her because you were too busy (i.e. had more important things than her to worry about).


    My BIL tried to play it cool by ignoring a girl for a few days. When she did finally text him, he replied immediately at the speed of light. He put the ball right back in her court because it looked like he was waiting by the phone for her to text him (which he was). She totally has control over him even more so than when they were together.
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    After reading all advice from you guys, I think I'll take the middle road and wait about 8 hours to text back. I didn't text back immediately because I don't want to be THAT GUY sitting, waiting by his phone for her. I also feel like not responding until tomorrow sends a negative message. Waiting 8 hours says, I'm busy, I have a life and it isn't sitting by my phone waiting on you, and that I will get to her when I can.

    To the guy above who pointed out that I said I don't like to play these games, I don't. But I also cant allow her to hold all the cards. In the end if a girl is this much drama and games then she's probably not worth it.
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    Originally Posted by Phantom1104 View Post
    Waiting 8 hours says, I'm busy, I have a life and it isn't sitting by my phone waiting on you, and that I will get to her when I can.

    way too much thinking. Ignore it for now, go do something fun, and answer it later.
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    don't want to thread hijack but...

    what about night texts? like sometimes I will send a text to a girl late at night and not get a response until the next morning. i usually just ignore it but should I keep these convos going after I wake up?
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    way too much thinking. Ignore it for now, go do something fun, and answer it later.
    Does anybody have any good cocky but funny text responses they love using and could share?
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    Originally Posted by Phantom1104 View Post
    So, for those who have tried this strategy with women to give yourself value and turn the tables on her so she is the one chasing you a bit, how long did it take for you to see any results?

    The woman I am going to try this on does talk to other dudes, so she may not even notice or it may take longer since I'll be out of sight out of mind and she gets attention from other dudes.

    So all in all, once you decide to cut communication and go cold on her, what time frame am I looking at having to hold out to see if she contacts me? we talking a few days? a week? longer? I'm prepared to stick to my guns here. I sent her the last text today and communicated my interest in getting closer. She has told me in convos that "what girl doesn't like to be chased?" So this could turn into a Cold War.
    i went to the bar with a hot ladie friend of mine where the girl i wasnt talking to bartended... before too long i get the text "hey wats goin on?" and then asking to hang out.

    stop caring so much in some cases and theyll stick to you.
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    Originally Posted by AssyrianMuscle View Post
    don't want to thread hijack but...

    what about night texts? like sometimes I will send a text to a girl late at night and not get a response until the next morning. i usually just ignore it but should I keep these convos going after I wake up?
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    Originally Posted by Phantom1104 View Post
    Does anybody have any good cocky but funny text responses they love using and could share?
    Really depends what she asked you.

    As far as responding to texts the morning after, don't do it immediately but a few hours afterward ain't bad, or put in a time constraint. She texts you good morning at 9 am, reply at 9:10 saying good morning back but that you're at work/school so can't chat now.

    And yeah I hate some flaking ass bitches OP. I have a friend who is the flakiest person I have ever met. I KNOW she'll straight up look at my texts and then ignore them because she'll bring up things I texted that she didn't reply to. Yeah, maybe she's busy, looks at it thinking she'll reply later, and then forgets, or maybe she looks at it hours later and figures it's too late for a response, but wtf is that ****? When we hang out she looks at her phone pretty consistently, sometimes she one word replies (does the same to me from time to time), but sometimes I'll see her ignore other people's texts too so I know it's not just a me thing. It's funny when I do the same **** to her she almost immediately starts with the "what's wrong" **** but if I bring it up then I'm being over-sensitive. She sounds just like your girl. I used to think girls were only really flaky to guys who wanted to date them, but now I realize some girls are flaky at all times and with anyone (lol even her dad complains about it).
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    If you want to create this dynamic you'll have to be percieved as greater value in her eyes. If you are nothing in her world other than a comforter than it'll be easy to dismiss any of your strategies to get her chasing you. Instead, continue to text her but shorter responses than her and make it sarcastic until you cease texting all together where upon she'll continue to text you out of the blue to keep the connection alive.
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    Originally Posted by aintdatabitch View Post
    If you want to create this dynamic you'll have to be percieved as greater value in her eyes. If you are nothing in her world other than a comforter than it'll be easy to dismiss any of your strategies to get her chasing you. Instead, continue to text her but shorter responses than her and make it sarcastic until you cease texting all together where upon she'll continue to text you out of the blue to keep the connection alive.
    Do you think that works on all girls interested in you? I mean ugly ones through hotter ones...
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    Originally Posted by aintdatabitch View Post
    If you want to create this dynamic you'll have to be percieved as greater value in her eyes. If you are nothing in her world other than a comforter than it'll be easy to dismiss any of your strategies to get her chasing you. Instead, continue to text her but shorter responses than her and make it sarcastic until you cease texting all together where upon she'll continue to text you out of the blue to keep the connection alive.
    This man know whats up. Exactly what he described happened with me. Was texting for a while (only funny/sexual pointless texts), then i started to lose interest since we live far away and things would work out, i eventually ceased the texts, and i've been getting one almost every week saying 'whats up etc etc" and more of that sort. But we're going to living as practically neighbors soon, so i think i made the right choice.
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    Originally Posted by aintdatabitch View Post
    If you want to create this dynamic you'll have to be percieved as greater value in her eyes. If you are nothing in her world other than a comforter than it'll be easy to dismiss any of your strategies to get her chasing you. Instead, continue to text her but shorter responses than her and make it sarcastic until you cease texting all together where upon she'll continue to text you out of the blue to keep the connection alive.
    Well as far as value, I carry significant value in many ways. Career, decent looks (not fat, not Steve Urkel), financial independence, nice vehicle, somewhat stylish, confidence. I'm not 6'2" 240 lbs. and could play linebacker for 10 NFL teams. Physical attributes may be my downfall, but she's a tough catch I feel. And probably keeping her is even tougher. She was married once and got a divorce when her husband caught her cheating. Yeah, I know, it's bad. RED FLAG. Run away as fast as possible. But I too have cheated on girlfriends, not gonna lie.
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    just did this couple weeks back.

    hooked up saturday. spoke on the phone sunday. ran into her in the street randomly monday. spoke on the phone tuesday. i made all the calls, which i rarely ever do, so i stopped all calls cold turkey just out of principle. no contact wed, thurs, fri, sat.

    sunday morning at 9am she left a voicemail saying she was thinking about me and to give her a call.
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