Why is it so hard to find a (decent) good honest chick these days?

[trainjunkie1]

I swear.. even the one that seems so innocent, is a far bigger slut than you would think......



why??????

[JoeyCraig]

its just the new thing nowadays... mostly all girls are whores and skanks. Good girls are rare.

-"bein part of this life I feel like im bound up end up with somebody thats been with everybody"

[affalcon]

To me women nowadays seem to be always looking at the grass is greenier on the other side till they jump then they wanna come back after slutting around. Just my opinion.

[trainjunkie1]

-"bein part of this life I feel like im bound up end up with somebody thats been with everybody"


where did you got that quote from? that's exactly how im feeling right now? its soo true..

[DocHol1day]

so cheat

[aintdatabitch]

It isn't difficult to find decent and honest chicks.

You reflect out what you are inside. If you are dishonest with yourself then you'll quickly see that in other people. You'll also bypass those people who are honest and even mislabel honesty from dishonesty.

Everytime I hear a guy who says 'why can't I find x women...' I have to ask, are you that yourself? Answer that honestly, and if you work on that and can get to grips with it you'll find a flood of it in your life.

All through highschool and college all I could find was good decent women. It was hard for me to find difficult women. It was funny because I would hear guys who say its so rare to find these great women, but eventually they'd find "the one". All of them. If they were so rare, how could each of them find "the one"? No logic there, unless its true there is equally just as many good people as there are bad in this world.

[trainjunkie1]

It isn't difficult to find decent and honest chicks.

You reflect out what you are inside. If you are dishonest with yourself then you'll quickly see that in other people. You'll also bypass those people who are honest and even mislabel honesty from dishonesty.

Everytime I hear a guy who says 'why can't I find x women...' I have to ask, are you that yourself? Answer that honestly, and if you work on that and can get to grips with it you'll find a flood of it in your life.

All through highschool and college all I could find was good decent women. It was hard for me to find difficult women. It was funny because I would hear guys who say its so rare to find these great women, but eventually they'd find "the one". All of them. If they were so rare, how could each of them find "the one"? No logic there, unless its true there is equally just as many good people as there are bad in this world.

I wish I could see it your way brah..

[Jay_]

Tell me about it dude. I finally meet a chick that seems just like that and she's going off to school in 2 weeks 4 hours away. Just gotta keep looking for one that's not too bad.

[MEDITATE]

am 29 and havnt found a non-whorish chik, been searching for the right one since i last remember, those kinda girls r very rare, lately ive been thinking going to eastern europe and trying my luck their

[comrie]

the same can be said about guys!

it is so hard to find a decent good guy these days who aren't all about just getting into a girl's pants or a guy that focuses so much on looks

most guys are shallow and dont see a good thing even though its in front of them

[CranberryVodka]

It's not .. you just have to put in a legitimate effort to talk to different women

[Dogbreath]

the same can be said about guys!

it is so hard to find a decent good guy these days who aren't all about just getting into a girl's pants or a guy that focuses so much on looks

most guys are shallow and dont see a good thing even though its in front of them

Girls are the same. I can't tell you how many females I have met complain that all guys are jerks, yet the good ones are ignored or friend zoned.

[FunSize1990]

I blame Chickflick Movies, Girl im seeing made me watch Dear John

No ****, these are the cliffs.

Fall inlove
He deploys (special forces)
She breaks up with him, over letter. Telling him she is engaged.
He nearly dies, doesnt hear from her.
His father dies, he goes to confront her about shiz.
The guy she ****ed him over with is dying. She plays guilt card.
Guy dies, She expects to get back together now with Soldier dude telling him how much she loves him.

This is what girls base their morals on.

She said "how romantic is this movie" I bertstared the **** out of her.

[RandomMisc]

Western culture is a pile of horse****. Find a broad who agrees with that sentiment and you'll find a broad who won't **** your best friend on your birthday.

[OMGaGURL]

To me women nowadays seem to be always looking at the grass is greenier on the other side till they jump then they wanna come back after slutting around. Just my opinion.

Basically this and that you have a lot of white knights who will put up with that sort of thing if a woman is attractive/man has money. I can't tell you how many friends I've had do this sort of thing and when I ask "Why?" they might say it's because they just love the other person so much they can see past those problems. It's easier to jump around or even cheat when you know the other person is weak enough to stay there no matter what. It's a great security blanket.

[FGCHENG]

safe to say im losing hope for humanity.

[anonymous]

[RandomMisc]

Stop looking at your ex's ********.

[RusnConcussion]

From my ex gf's fb:

Her: Clubbing was awesome!!! Let's go again next Saturday guys!!
Her: Hahaa that was a fail because there weren't any old guys there lmfao but next time I'm wearing flats and stuffing my car keys into one of the guys pockets haha


This girl I thought was great relationship material... ****ing rage... slut in disguise....

channel that anger and use it to...

[MrFrumble]

I blame Chickflick Movies, Girl im seeing made me watch Dear John

No ****, these are the cliffs.

Fall inlove
He deploys (special forces)
She breaks up with him, over letter. Telling him she is engaged.
He nearly dies, doesnt hear from her.
His father dies, he goes to confront her about shiz.
The guy she ****ed him over with is dying. She plays guilt card.
Guy dies, She expects to get back together now with Soldier dude telling him how much she loves him.

This is what girls base their morals on.

She said "how romantic is this movie" I bertstared the **** out of her.

[Seann_]

That's just naturally how people are. Men are upfront about it, and women hide it. Society also plays a huge part. Take for example the woman that watched Sex and the City and made it her goal to be like them. She slept with 1000 men because they are portraying that as normal. Also Morpheus' daughter..after seeing Kardashians sex tape.

But in reality, those are the kinds of women that we are going for these days. How often do men stay with women that don't give them sex? Essentially men, TV, and the internet spawned what were seeing now.

[anklez]

didnt read thread

because this is the way the media influnced them, and the way that man influenced them.

Women want to be wanted by men, and so they adapted to what they are now using media (hollywood) as a guide...

im no womans rightist or man hater or white knight. Its just the way it is, woman are what they are cause they thought this is how we wanted them to be. Then when they start getting hurt, and feeling like worthless pieces of crap they get all B|tchy and start acting up, or start putting up fake faces.

there are some decent woman out there (i am i think, an optomist)

[AlwaysOnFire24]

Girls are the same. I can't tell you how many females I have met complain that all guys are jerks, yet the good ones are ignored or friend zoned.

There's a huge difference between a good guy that has edge, won't put up with a girl's bull****, and a thirst for life. Most of these good guys you speak of are just walking, talking ATM machines ready to praise the ground the girls walks on.

The problem is, every girl wants to turn the cool, bad boy player into the loyal boyfriend. Won't happen unless you're soulmates.

[Exane]

The problem is, every girl wants to turn the cool, bad boy player into the loyal boyfriend. Won't happen unless you're soulmates.

That is the equivalent of turning a hoe into a house wife, not going to happen. The mentality is ****ed up on both sides.

There are good women and good guys out there, its just that it is human nature to piss all over them because you can. Simple as that. I know I am a good guy an I'm not going to mope around because I struggle to find a good girl. Life is life and I take it one step at a time, either **** will fall into place or it wont. At least I am happy with who I am and how I treat others.

[buddy4002]

They are out there, just hard to find. I blame modern media (mtv and rap bull****) influences young girls to be scandalous thus growing up to be whores.

[anklez]

They are out there, just hard to find. I blame modern media (mtv and rap bull****) influences young girls to be scandalous thus growing up to be whores.

wisdom lol

have you heard the songs little girls listen to theese days?

[buddy4002]

wisdom lol

have you heard the songs little girls listen to theese days?

yep and it blows my mind. Your post was right on point. I mean look at all the shows that all these young girls watch as well..its just a straight encouragement for them to think these things are "normal". If I pass by MTV and see what's on it seriously makes me rage and that's what a majority of these girls are watching.

[lightningwatche]

I swear.. even the one that seems so innocent, is a far bigger slut than you would think......



why??????

They only act innocent because they don't want guys knowing they get with other guys. A man will only give a woman his heart if he thinks he is special. A guy pays a lot more and forgives far more after he has given his heart over.

It is rooted in evolution: If you think she has your child and she has good genes that are better than you could get from most other women, you will forgive all and do everything to help and make sure the child succeeds. If you think she gets around, then the child might not be yours. No love then. And if you think she is below average, you leave the kid for her to raise, since why invest in a kid that won't likely succeed 3 generations from now anyway?

Women know this, which is why they make sure you think you are special and they are special before they let you think you impregnated them.

[lightningwatche]

its just the new thing nowadays... mostly all girls are whores and skanks. Good girls are rare.

-"bein part of this life I feel like im bound up end up with somebody thats been with everybody"

Not so. It has been going on for millions of years before humans even evolved. I bet lizards do this too. Or at least any species where the children are raised, and there is a chance the male will help.

Human children are the most defenseless at birth, and take the longest to reach adulthood, so it is more common with humans.

[lightningwatche]

Men are upfront about it, and women hide it. Society also plays a huge part.

Women take 9 months to have a baby. If she has a reputation for sleeping around, no guy will think it is his and take care of it. Over millions of years, women evolved to hide their sexuality.

Men can impregnate 10 women a day, every day. Before the days of child support, any man who advertised that was telling women that his genes are desirable to other women, and that her children will easily find mates if they have his genes. All he had to do was convince her that she was special and that he does not have any other kids out there, that it just was sex but no impregnation. If a woman knows a man has other kids, he is less desirable to her because either his funds will be divided, or he does not care for his kids. If his genes are good enough, she might not care if she gets help from him or not, and she will just get them from an unsuspecting guy.

Men can be just as bad as women though, impregnating women and running. Both sides have put up fake fronts for hundreds of thousands of years.

Modern society just makes it seem more acceptable to be open about it. Women are discovering they don't have to trick ugly men any more. They can just go to strip clubs and get cash directly and openly.