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    Question Playing hard to get vs Not interested...

    Hey guys what are some signs that a girl is playing hard to get versus not interested? What are some examples??
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    Originally Posted by Gio132 View Post
    Hey guys what are some signs that a girl is playing hard to get versus not interested? What are some examples??
    If she wasn't interested she wouldn't be talking to you.
    At all.
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    No reply=not interested.

    Slow positive reply=playing hard to get.
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    done and said.

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    although some girls are to nice not to talk back.
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    Not interested is not an option. You're overanalyzing.
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    Originally Posted by Spaghettii View Post
    If she wasn't interested she wouldn't be talking to you.
    At all.
    You couldn't be more incorrect.


    But OP, don't overanalyze. Just ask her out. If she says no and doesn't offer an alternative plan, or she flakes... she's not interested.
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    Originally Posted by SgSpartan View Post
    No reply=not interested.

    Slow positive reply=playing hard to get.
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    Originally Posted by RandomMisc View Post
    You couldn't be more incorrect.


    But OP, don't overanalyze. Just ask her out. If she says no and doesn't offer an alternative plan, or she flakes... she's not interested.
    LOL WAT? explain
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    Playing hard-to-get implies some degree of push and pull. She has to make you want to "get" her in order for her to make "getting" her "hard." Unless you are too forward early on, this usually means she has to show a sign of interest or two. Look for all signs of interest, but especially the subconscious ones - twirling hair, nervous tics, strong eye contact, mimicking body movements, open positions. There are lists of these; they're harder for them to control and will reveal more.

    Be careful. Attractive women will often flirt with guys they have no interest in for a variety of reasons. Anything from getting free drinks to simply stroking their ego. Some are experts at selling their attractiveness to guys and will do their best to get the most out of it. Be suspicious if things come a little too easily.

    If they're totally not interested, you will know. Short responses, paying more attention to other people, no initiating. Certain signs of disinterest can't necessarily be "reversed" with a reciprocal sign of interest.
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    When you are talking to her( and she's looking away or pretending to not pay attention) and you say " I have to go": If she looks at you right away then she's interested. If she slowly looks towards you then she's not interested. Girls pretend to be side tracked, but I know what's up.
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    Originally Posted by Spaghettii View Post
    LOL WAT? explain
    Girls frequently talk to guys they have no interest in. They like having options, they like attention, they seek validation (which randoms provide in abundance,) they like having an ego boost on call at all times, they enjoy using guys, they like knowing they could have you if they wanted you, etc. Myriad reasons, brah.

    Just a couple weeks ago I was with some broads and one got a text... someone asked who it was, and she goes: "Oh, just this lame ass I met a few months ago. He sucks, but he's nice enough and buys me drinks any time I see him, so I have to talk to him here and there." Another chimes in, "Oh yeah, the obligatories... haha, they have a special ringtone on my phone." bertstare.jpg
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    Originally Posted by RandomMisc View Post
    Girls frequently talk to guys they have no interest in. They like having options, they like attention, they seek validation (which randoms provide in abundance,) they like having an ego boost on call at all times, they enjoy using guys, they like knowing they could have you if they wanted you, etc. Myriad reasons, brah.

    Just a couple weeks ago I was with some broads and one got a text... someone asked who it was, and she goes: "Oh, just this lame ass I met a few months ago. He sucks, but he's nice enough and buys me drinks any time I see him, so I have to talk to him here and there." Another chimes in, "Oh yeah, the obligatories... haha, they have a special ringtone on my phone." bertstare.jpg


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    Originally Posted by RandomMisc View Post
    Girls frequently talk to guys they have no interest in. They like having options, they like attention, they seek validation (which randoms provide in abundance,) they like having an ego boost on call at all times, they enjoy using guys, they like knowing they could have you if they wanted you, etc. Myriad reasons, brah.

    Just a couple weeks ago I was with some broads and one got a text... someone asked who it was, and she goes: "Oh, just this lame ass I met a few months ago. He sucks, but he's nice enough and buys me drinks any time I see him, so I have to talk to him here and there." Another chimes in, "Oh yeah, the obligatories... haha, they have a special ringtone on my phone." bertstare.jpg
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