Bitches Love Competition.

[Al_Pal]

its been said alot of times...


a guy sees his friend with a nice girl and he says " i want a girl just LIKE her"

a woman sees her friend with a nice guy and she says "I want him"

[Stuv]

its been said alot of times...


a guy sees his friend with a nice girl and he says " i want a girl just LIKE her"

a woman sees her friend with a nice guy and she says "I want him"

The RH is on point tonight...

[Fiz-iks]

I don't understand how people fail to grasp a concept as simple as this one. It's human nature retards.

When you were a kid everyone always wanted the toy that someone was playing with already, you didn't want the one laying at the bottom of the toy bin by itself.

[CrazyVolodymyr]

Girls hate competing

They just like guys for whom others compete

[SteelCrayon]

I think it works but theirs a limit to where they start feeling insecure and ruining the relationship. Ex knew girls wanted me and I think it's what kept her there but ultimately me maintaining myself (gym,school, health) got her thinking I was still trying to make myself available for other girls.

So yeah she liked that I got attention but she eventually took it wrongly and jumped ship cuz she thought I was planning on jumping ship with one of the girls giving me attention.

She was right tho

[LovesMuscles]

Disagree.


I don't care if he talks to other females but if he's starts bragging and bringing them up, bye!!


I always found it to be obnoxious.



And competing? **** that lol. With so many people hopping from one person to the next, competing is as ridiculous as the smith machine.

[Punisher1012]

its been said alot of times...


a guy sees his friend with a nice girl and he says " i want a girl just LIKE her"

a woman sees her friend with a nice guy and she says "I want him"

this 100% I'm surprised my wife hasn't killed a bish yet

[Danger_Close]

Disagree.


I don't care if he talks to other females but if he's starts bragging and bringing them up, bye!!


I always found it to be obnoxious.



And competing? **** that lol. With so many people hopping from one person to the next, competing is as ridiculous as the smith machine.

you walk into a club. u see a guy with no girl, and then u see a guy with 3 girls. its no surprise your gonna want the guy with 3 girls. **** otta here wit that.

[iliveinjersey]

this is true and im about to pimp this idea tomorrow hopefully

[LovesMuscles]

you walk into a club. u see a guy with no girl, and then u see a guy with 3 girls. its no surprise your gonna want the guy with 3 girls. **** otta here wit that.

Umm, and you would know this how??


Here's a little lesson for you:


Whether the guy is just cute or stupidly hot, I would not want the guy with three girls.

Why? Because I don't compete and I don't chase, I don't care how good looking the guy is. I have no reason to anyway (no e-brag).


At the end of the day, you're just another chick to him, whether the fourth or the fiftieth. I would have to work harder to garner his attention.

I don't see the appeal, sorry.

[cheerupemokid]

Umm, and you would know this how??


Here's a little lesson for you:


Whether the guy is just cute or stupidly hot, I would not want the guy with three girls.

Why? Because I don't compete and I don't chase, I don't care how good looking the guy is. I have no reason to anyway (no e-brag).


At the end of the day, you're just another chick to him, whether the fourth or the fiftieth. I would have to work harder to garner his attention.

I don't see the appeal, sorry.

I would just like to take this opportunity to remind all of our male readers that one should never listen to what a woman says, only listen to what she does (or he she does as the case may be).

LM: In another thread you mentioned a guy that you were interested in was so attractive that you couldn't speak in his presence. Do you honestly believe you're the only girl in the entire world to notice this dude? You're not and so you're in competition with other women for the guy you're talking about. And when/if you bag the guy you'll be ecstatic...at first but if he starts white knighting the f out of you, you'll get bored and your eye will begin to wonder. Way of the world, sweetie.

Finally, if women didn't get off on competition and preferred easily obtainable guys (as you imply with your would have to work harder to garner his attention comment) that had no attachments, and so would be totally into you, why aren't you and other women hitting up the star trek conventions? You know those guys don't have gf's and those mother****ers would be putty in your hands after two minutes of conversation.

[LovesMuscles]

I would just like to take this opportunity to remind all of our male readers that one should never listen to what a woman says, only listen to what she does (or he she does as the case may be).

LM: In another thread you mentioned a guy that you were interested in was so attractive that you couldn't speak in his presence. Do you honestly believe you're the only girl in the entire world to notice this dude? You're not and so you're in competition with other women for the guy you're talking about. And when/if you bag the guy you'll be ecstatic...at first but if he starts white knighting the f out of you, you'll get bored and your eye will begin to wonder. Way of the world, sweetie.

Finally, if women didn't get off on competition and preferred easily obtainable guys (as you imply with your would have to work harder to garner his attention comment) that had no attachments, and so would be totally into you, why aren't you and other women hitting up the star trek conventions? You know those guys don't have gf's and those mother****ers would be putty in your hands after two minutes of conversation.

You misunderstood.


Yes, I'm very much aware I'm not the first. Yeah, I get out...


I was referring to a guy that would be surrounded by women and who would bring women up in conversation. THAT makes me turn away. Name dropping, pointing out other girls...he can get the GTFO. I have NEVER done it and I don't tolerate it. I have spoken to more than two people at a time and it always stays with me. I have never brought up other males.

Any guy that does that is automatically a tool in my book. Period.


I probably should have clarified that I see competing as actively wanting to get his attention. THAT I don't do.


Simply put: I'm not working for it. My pride won't allow me.


Problem is, what I want doesn't exist. Oh well.

[cheerupemokid]

You misunderstood.


Yes, I'm very much aware I'm not the first. Yeah, I get out...


I was referring to a guy that would be surrounded by women and who would bring women up in conversation. THAT makes me turn away. Name dropping, pointing out other girls...he can get the GTFO. I have NEVER done it and I don't tolerate it. I have spoken to more than two people at a time and it always stays with me. I have never brought up other males.

Any guy that does that is automatically a tool in my book. Period.


I probably should have clarified that I see competing as actively wanting to get his attention. THAT I don't do.


Simply put: I'm not working for it. My pride won't allow me.


Problem is, what I want doesn't exist. Oh well.

Again, the guy from the other thread who is so devastatingly handsome that you can't speak in his presence...will be approached by other girls when you go out with him. If you're not retarded then you know this and yet you're still posting on an internet forum about how awestruck you are...

What you want does exist. There are a grip of virgins at star trek conventions (and other male dominated nerdy bull**** activities) across the country, with a grip of virgins that you wouldn't have to work for at all.

Aint holding my breath for the day you start trolling those types of places for a man.

[LovesMuscles]

Again, the guy from the other thread who is so devastatingly handsome that you can't speak in his presence...will be approached by other girls when you go out with him. If you're not retarded then you know this and yet you're still posting on an internet forum about how awestruck you are...

What you want does exist. There are a grip of virgins at star trek conventions (and other male dominated nerdy bull**** activities) across the country, with a grip of virgins that you wouldn't have to work for at all.

Aint holding my breath for the day you start trolling those types of places for a man.

Different circumstances.

Would I compete for some random guy at a club with three girls? No.

Would I go out with a guy that CHOSE ME? Yes.

I'm not working for it, HELLO.

But he will get approached, you're right. Duh.



Do cute guys raid star trek conventions? No they do not. So no, what I want doesn't exist.


U dun now?

[Danger_Close]

You misunderstood.


Yes, I'm very much aware I'm not the first. Yeah, I get out...


I was referring to a guy that would be surrounded by women and who would bring women up in conversation. THAT makes me turn away. Name dropping, pointing out other girls...he can get the GTFO. I have NEVER done it and I don't tolerate it. I have spoken to more than two people at a time and it always stays with me. I have never brought up other males.

Any guy that does that is automatically a tool in my book. Period.


I probably should have clarified that I see competing as actively wanting to get his attention. THAT I don't do.


Simply put: I'm not working for it. My pride won't allow me.


Problem is, what I want doesn't exist. Oh well.

i dont know why your so persistent on proving us wrong. we know how females operate in social settings. You act like pre selection isnt real or sum ****. your at least gonna wana see what that guy with the 3 girls is about.

[Attaus]

This is why you never listen to what a women says. What she says=/what she does.

GREAT advice Al_Pal every girl I've ever dated knew other girls wanted me and was always slightly jealous. It maintains the power in your hands.

this

asking a womans advice is like gambling

At the end of the day, you're just another chick to him, whether the fourth or the fiftieth. I would have to work harder to garner his attention.

I don't see the appeal, sorry.

oh so you want the easy guys that no one else wants? the guys who give you no space and act like little puppies?

[ridge_forrester]

Girls hate competing

They just like guys for whom others compete

I think it's more along the lines of this ^^^^

Whether they really do like competition or not, and if it's appropriate for a relationship (I say it isn't).. You must be the guy that would elicit competition among females, rather than consciously trying to put her in situations that she has to compete for you.

[rainy206]

I think it's more along the lines of this ^^^^

Whether they really do like competition or not, and if it's appropriate for a relationship (I say it isn't).. You must be the guy that would elicit competition among females, rather than consciously trying to put her in situations that she has to compete for you.

This is wear I want to be one day

[LovesMuscles]

i dont know why your so persistent on proving us wrong. we know how females operate in social settings. You act like pre selection isnt real or sum ****.

Because so many of you just LOVE to generalize.


I read these threads and I try to relate it to myself, and think, "Nope...nope...didn't work on me...nope."


It's baffling.

I've interacted with my fair share of guys but none of the garbage on here has worked on me so please, enlighten me.


Maybe I've spent so much time on the misc that I'd have to been a full-blown idiot to fall for it in real life.

[rainy206]

Because so many of you just LOVE to generalize.


I read these threads and I try to relate it to myself, and think, "Nope...nope...didn't work on me...nope."


It's baffling.

I've interacted with my fair share of guys but none of the garbage on here has worked on me so please, enlighten me.


Maybe I've spent so much time on the misc that I'd have to been a full-blown idiot to fall for it in real life.

Exit to real life then.

[Attaus]

Because so many of you just LOVE to generalize.


I read these threads and I try to relate it to myself, and think, "Nope...nope...didn't work on me...nope."


It's baffling.

I've interacted with my fair share of guys but none of the garbage on here has worked on me so please, enlighten me.


Maybe I've spent so much time on the misc that I'd have to been a full-blown idiot to fall for it in real life.

its easy to say things on the internet when you feel no pressure, self doubt, etc..

its another thing when a 8/10+ guy approaches you in public and says one of these things or uses these ploys. most of the guys in here are agreeing because they work. girls want guys other girls want.. if you don't understand that.. son..

[BumpRnB]

it makes them wet.


make sure she thinks she is competing for you.

Semi-true but it's not the competition part.

Other women wanting you or liking you gives the appearance that other women find you attractive, which makes you have higher "value" (if you want to give it a term) which also makes you more attractive.

Also it would never bother me if a guy I was with was talking to other girls or if other girls constantly liked talking to him and being around him. As long as he doesn't cheat or constantly bring up other girls it doesn't bother me at all.

[Punisher1012]

Semi-true but it's not the competition part.

Other women wanting you or liking you gives the appearance that other women find you attractive, which makes you have higher "value" (if you want to give it a term) which also makes you more attractive.

Also it would never bother me if a guy I was with was talking to other girls or if other girls constantly liked talking to him and being around him. As long as he doesn't cheat or constantly bring up other girls it doesn't bother me at all.

bishes love this guy. so that means you find him attractive?

[BumpRnB]

[img]http://www.gunaxin.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Guido.jpg[img]

bishes love this guy. so that means you find him attractive?

I never said it made someone attractive, just that it would make them more attractive. Just because something makes someone more attractive doesn't make that guy attractive (as in someone not attractive becoming a little more attractive doesn't mean that guy is "attractive" now, just got a little more attractive from how he was before).

Does that make any sense?

[Burzmali]

My ex's were well aware of me talking to other girls during the relationship and it just turns them off because of the trust issues

Wrong.

That is what they tell you to get your balls firmly into their little purses. And you believe it, hilarious.

[FGCHENG]

It can help strengthen trust issues too, if your girl sees you blowing other girls off to be with her, thats a plus in the relationship

[Punisher1012]

I never said it made someone attractive, just that it would make them more attractive. Just because something makes someone more attractive doesn't make that guy attractive (as in someone not attractive becoming a little more attractive doesn't mean that guy is "attractive" now, just got a little more attractive from how he was before).

Does that make any sense?

no...so I hear he's your type

[MrFrumble]

This is why you never listen to what a women says. What she says=/what she does.

GREAT advice Al_Pal every girl I've ever dated knew other girls wanted me and was always slightly jealous. It maintains the power in your hands.

x2.
I literally lol'd when I read her post.

[SamWiseGamjee]

NO WK - just couldnt help it lol

[CrazyVolodymyr]

I never said it made someone attractive, just that it would make them more attractive. Just because something makes someone more attractive doesn't make that guy attractive (as in someone not attractive becoming a little more attractive doesn't mean that guy is "attractive" now, just got a little more attractive from how he was before).

Does that make any sense?

No.