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    Question How Long To Text or Call a Girl After First Date?

    in my experience if a girl comes at you hard right away its a major turn off so im assuming same goes true for guys going after girls with barrages of texts and calls in the beginning stages...just went on a date last night that friend set me up with went fairly well...do i wait a few days and call/text unless i hear from her first... or have my friend call her and find out how she think it went and if i should further proceed? (got out of a long term relationship several months ago and just looking for a second opinion not a complete newb just havent been on many first dates in awhile)

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    text her the next day.
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    Originally Posted by Footballx14 View Post
    text her the next day.
    hmm notsureifsrs.jpeg

    shouldnt i at least wait until my bud calls her on monday and gets an honest review of the date from the girl...she couldve hated me but played it cool all night eventhough i felt it went fairly well
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    Don't have your friend call to see how it went. She will read right through that.

    I would say wait 2 days, unless she contacts you first. You'll know how the date went by how she responds to you when you contact her. It will be pretty easy to gauge her responses. Good luck.
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    Originally Posted by BanjoBalls View Post
    hmm notsureifsrs.jpeg

    shouldnt i at least wait until my bud calls her on monday and gets an honest review of the date from the girl...she couldve hated me but played it cool all night eventhough i felt it went fairly well
    why not ask her yourself? and then try to set up another date, if she says yes then you

    know it went alright, if she says no, then you know you gotta move on to the next one.
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    Originally Posted by gooober View Post
    Don't have your friend call to see how it went. She will read right through that.

    I would say wait 2 days, unless she contacts you first. You'll know how the date went by how she responds to you when you contact her. It will be pretty easy to gauge her responses. Good luck.
    good advice, thanks.
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    Originally Posted by Footballx14 View Post
    why not ask her yourself? and then try to set up another date, if she says yes then you

    know it went alright, if she says no, then you know you gotta move on to the next one.
    yea thats what i am planning on, i just dont want to turn her off or make her think i am desperate by hitting her with immediate phone calls or texts...give her time to develop some interest
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    Originally Posted by LetsBeReal View Post
    I like getting a little text that same night just saying he enjoyed himself. But hey, that's just me.
    this. most guys call or text that night to tell me how nice it went and set up the next date.
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    to a girl: a quick text the night of (after the date) shows them you are interested and depending on her response, you will know hers.


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    Originally Posted by hitchafide View Post
    to a girl: a quick text the night of (after the date) shows them you are interested and depending on her response, you will know hers.


    ^^see
    i did this...i said it was nice meeting you...i had a good time. then told her goodnight...she said she had a good time time too

    i was just wondering what to do after...she is not a very forward girl and i almost always initiate contact
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    Originally Posted by Vagoda View Post
    Easiest time to set up a second date is while you are still on the first.
    ahhh excellent point Vagoda...unfortunately i did not think of this during the date!
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    here's what I ALWAYS do, assuming you don't drop her off ... I always say "text me when you get home safe.." . then when she does, you can tell how she feels about you/the date. I almost always get a "I'm Home " . It shows you care, but puts the ball in her court to text u next right away.
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    Originally Posted by Athlete218 View Post
    here's what I ALWAYS do, assuming you don't drop her off ... I always say "text me when you get home safe.." . then when she does, you can tell how she feels about you/the date. I almost always get a "I'm Home " . It shows you care, but puts the ball in her court to text u next right away.
    yes i like this also..thanks man
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    Usually if it goes well, they will txt u that night saying they had fun, but not always. only the clingy ones. lulz
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