The only way to truly "keep" a girlfriend is to be an a**hole/alpha male (serious)

[ScubaStevo]

If you are not an a**hole/alpha male, your girlfriend will be doing one of the following:

1. Cheat on you.
2. Religiously think about cheating on you/ex-boyfriend who cheated her like sh*t/etc.
3. Stay with you for the sole-reason that you are loaded (which to me is the most hurtful).

What does being an a**hole/alpha male mean? Well, basically it means sending 1-2 text messages a day to her (max), don't say "I love you" (if you do, once in a blue moon after doing something a**holish), NO CUDDLING AT NIGHT, and basically no talk about marriage, "the future", kids, or any of that other stuff.

Think I am bsing you? How many of you nice guys can't even get your foot in the door with a girl? Now, if you do have a girl and you are a nice guy, think about why that is. She either can't do any better or is using you for something.

This isn't about being alpha or any of this PUA stuff - this is about genuine advice on how to not get your heart broken (serious). Women can be cold b*tches if you let them (aka being an accommodating, drop-everything-for-her beta male who has nothing else good in his life than her).

Here are some quick tips on how to generally attract chicks:

1. Be a cocky jerk. Sometimes, be genuine with women so that they can see you have things going for you (i.e. have adult conversations with them, like discussions about politics or money - most women will zone you out at that point but they will be very interested that you know/have an interest in this stuff).

2. Be distant. Never talk about your "feelings" and generally be aloof.

3. HAVE OTHER THINGS GOING ON IN YOUR LIFE/GOOD IN YOUR LIFE. FOCUS ON YOURSELF. YOU COME FIRST. Prioritize your life so that it is focused on advancing your career, your friends/family, making/saving/investing money, etc. If in a given day you don't have time to talk to your girlfriend - so what? This will work in your favor as it will keep her on her toes/guessing and will ultimately turn her on.

[Muckle_Ewe]

another...

[Brozart]

being alpha, maybe

being an ******* - you will only keep a fukked up chick, and you will never be happy (srs)

[AdamDTX]

i hate this ****gy alpha term

[ScubaStevo]

being alpha, maybe

being an ******* - you will only keep a fukked up chick, and you will never be happy (srs)

The alternative to not being an a**hole is a neutered husband who gets sex twice a year.

[Chris_1990]

So in other words, women like a strong man, not a pussy?

Wow, Columbus, you just discovered America

[EaS2010]

Gl when everyone thinks you are an a-hole.

[ScubaStevo]

So in other words, women like a strong man, not a pussy?

Wow, Columbus, you just discovered America

lmfao

you're probably one of the guys who is constantly worried about why his girlfriend isn't calling back immediately, calls her 10x a day, cuddles with her everynight, etc. That is not "strong".

[wanaBsedated]

So in other words, women like a strong man, not a pussy?

Wow, Columbus, you just discovered America

You can be a strong man and not an *******.. LOL at bro=logic.

You can also be kind and caring.

What you need to do is stand up for yourself when she's a bitch and not let her push you around. PERIOD

[kylemundus]

Wow U are teh alpha male!!!

[ScubaStevo]

Sorry to break it to you guys, but the term a**hole has been redefined and is now considered a compliment.

In today's feminist, white knight society, a guy who stands up for himself and has other things going on than the feminist agenda is considered an a**hole. This is a good thing.

[nocbrute]

If you are not an a**hole/alpha male, your girlfriend will be doing one of the following:

1. Cheat on you.
2. Religiously think about cheating on you/ex-boyfriend who cheated her like sh*t/etc.
3. Stay with you for the sole-reason that you are loaded (which to me is the most hurtful).

What does being an a**hole/alpha male mean? Well, basically it means sending 1-2 text messages a day to her (max), don't say "I love you" (if you do, once in a blue moon after doing something a**holish), NO CUDDLING AT NIGHT, and basically no talk about marriage, "the future", kids, or any of that other stuff.

Think I am bsing you? How many of you nice guys can't even get your foot in the door with a girl? Now, if you do have a girl and you are a nice guy, think about why that is. She either can't do any better or is using you for something.

This isn't about being alpha or any of this PUA stuff - this is about genuine advice on how to not get your heart broken (serious). Women can be cold b*tches if you let them (aka being an accommodating, drop-everything-for-her beta male who has nothing else good in his life than her).

Here are some quick tips on how to generally attract chicks:

1. Be a cocky jerk. Sometimes, be genuine with women so that they can see you have things going for you (i.e. have adult conversations with them, like discussions about politics or money - most women will zone you out at that point but they will be very interested that you know/have an interest in this stuff).

2. Be distant. Never talk about your "feelings" and generally be aloof.

3. HAVE OTHER THINGS GOING ON IN YOUR LIFE/GOOD IN YOUR LIFE. FOCUS ON YOURSELF. YOU COME FIRST. Prioritize your life so that it is focused on advancing your career, your friends/family, making/saving/investing money, etc. If in a given day you don't have time to talk to your girlfriend - so what? This will work in your favor as it will keep her on her toes/guessing and will ultimately turn her on.

this only works in relationships with typical whores... other words 90% of them, but if its something real then all you gotta know is you have to do a little of everything..

just stimulate your girl emotionally, physically and mentally.. to do so you might have to cause drama, be an *******, be hurtful, be nice, be emotional, be a douchebag, and even open up.

in the typical whore relationship, yes youre right.. ignore them, be last to text, keep them wanting more, act like u dgaf, and dont get attached.

[RagingBrah]

being an asshole won't work

just act like a man, having your own opinions and interests outside of your woman should be enough

go train hard in the gym, make money and when you get home fuck her hard, she'll find you sexy

don't worry about, oh i shouldn't hold her hand today cos its not alpha.. who gives a fuck, you'll end up being depressed and living a lie

[Chris_1990]

lmfao

you're probably one of the guys who is constantly worried about why his girlfriend isn't calling back immediately, calls her 10x a day, cuddles with her everynight, etc. That is not "strong".

Hey, I'm not the one whining on an online forum about my inability to sustain a relationship with a female

You can be a strong man and not an *******.. LOL at bro=logic.

You can also be kind and caring.

What you need to do is stand up for yourself when she's a bitch and not let her push you around. PERIOD

In theory yes, in today's society...no.

[Dipman00]

OP you forgot the part where no matter who you are they will cheat under certain circumstances

[ScubaStevo]

Hey, I'm not the one whining on an online forum about my inability to sustain a relationship with a female

Well, first of all, if you actually want a relationship you probably have a hard time getting women anyway.

[wanaBsedated]

Hey, I'm not the one whining on an online forum about my inability to sustain a relationship with a female



In theory yes, in today's society...no.

srs? if youre too much of a prick they will cheat with someone more supportive and "there for them". happens ALL the time in devorce court son.

Being a man =/= being fake.

[simpleguy]

if ***hole means having a life outside of her, then it's good to be one

I really like most women (and would **** the **** out of most I see on a regular basis), but some guys nowadays are waaaaaayyyyyy too ass-kissing and don't have any lives except their gfs... while they sit home and fantasize about how some day they're going to get married and he would do whatever she wants, some other player-type dude rails the **** outta her in ways that the loser never even imagined

Have a life. Know other girls in this world besides your gf and your Mum. Have passions. **** your gf good and be a man to her, not her best friend. That's it

[Clesueur]

lol the truth is there, but the number of texts you send and other small arbitrary bull**** doesn't make you alpha.

op: oh god, i already sent 2 txts today. i can't respond or i is beta!

disregard bitchs' feelings, aquire glory.

[f=ma]

it totally depends on the girl

i have experienced exactly what OP has said with some but not others. if you pull good looking girls you definitely need to keep them interested with stupid mind bull**** unfortunately

the level of analysis they put into simple texts while dating is astounding

[wanaBsedated]

Ps Alpha males arent *******s LOL.

Thats beta ****.

Alpha men are just more sure of themselves and what they think and are assertive, not aggressive unless they HAVE TO BE.

[ScubaStevo]

Ps Alpha males arent *******s LOL.

Thats beta ****.

Alpha men are just more sure of themselves and what they think and are assertive, not aggressive unless they HAVE TO BE.

Whatever bro. If you don't have an edge when talking to girls they are going to get bored with you.

[Zey55]

its true lol.. i would go through cycles with my gf 100% serious.. they would aways go 1. Me being a dik 2. Her being a good gf 3. Me becoming happy and becoming nice 4. her becoming a complete and utter bish that is thinking about taking a break 5. Me trying to fix things still being nice 6. Me zoning her out giving up 7. me being a dik...... Its happened about 4 times lol, ive just learned to stay being a dik and not in an abusive/miserable way, just alpha

[SecondsOut]

OP = future serial killer:

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=129157141

[greasemunkey]

how about i just slap the bitch and tell her shes only alowed to talk when my food is ready, the dishes are clean and she has made me cum two times on her face. then we can talk for 10 paces and i must go.

[wanaBsedated]

Whatever bro. If you don't have an edge when talking to girls they are going to get bored with you.

Sense of humor, strong sense of self, not putting up with immature bull**** as in not participating in childish behavior... is an edge. That gets you respect.

[ziggy5121]

You need to be alpha.

If you can't be alpha without being an a**hole, then you're not really alpha.

[ScubaStevo]

OP = future serial killer:

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=129157141

Haven't noticed that thread - but I am glad I have a hater like you.

I am just trolling/having a good time generally on here.

If you followed my advice, though, you'd lose your virginity pretty quick.

[ScubaStevo]

Sense of humor, strong sense of self, not putting up with immature bull**** as in not participating in childish behavior... is an edge. That gets you respect.

And, basically, that is considered being an a**hole. Most women think a sense of humor like, "why did the chicken cross the road" is stupid. Humor like dirty jokes etc. maybe qualifies.

[lukeytbb]

i hate this ****gy alpha term

this.