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    Is it rude not to go to your parents' funeral?

    My friend's parents died recently in a car accident but he refuses to go to their funeral even though they were very close. Is this considered rude or not
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    I dont see how anyone could justify not going.
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    No, its not rude. If he dosnt want to go it his choice.
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    maybe his dad touched him as a kid, ya never know
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    yes its rude. What is more important then showing up to your parents?
    ur friends a disrespectful pig.
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    let him grieve brah
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    tell him to suck it the **** up and go. these are his parents and they deserve a funeral with their child. hell with your feelings, these are your parents
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    people grieve in different ways. Maybe he doesnt want to go to a church where everyone is reminding him that he lost his parents the entire time?
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    Originally Posted by ckuyook View Post
    My friend's parents died recently in a car accident but he refuses to go to their funeral even though they were very close. Is this considered rude or not
    Depends on their relationship.

    One guy argued that he did not want his 'last memories' to be his parents being in a box. Back in the 90's when Media was making a big deal about it.

    Others won't go because their dad molested them or their mom was whore.

    Honestly -- it is none of your business.
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    Originally Posted by forklift View Post
    yes, unless there is a Lakers game.
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    its not rude but its disrespectful
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    it's not rude. rude is mostly just social ettiquette. you don't go to you're parents funeral out of ettiquette; hopefully, you go out of a sense of duty or obligation to honor them. I mean...unless his parents did some really bad **** to him when he was younger, he should go.
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    its understandable. maybe hes not taking it very well and this is his way of grieving. It's possibly a way of denying it. I'm sure in time he will make his peace though. In the end it's his choice, there are no acceptable/unacceptable norms for this in my opinion.
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    Originally Posted by iSWOLE View Post
    let him grieve brah
    If you skip your parents funeral you are actually repressing your grieving... That kinda sh*t can fuk a person up for life.
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    Rude to who?

    I doubt that parents minded.
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    Originally Posted by SELCOUTH View Post
    No, its not rude. If he dosnt want to go it his choice.
    This.

    Pretty sure all the good moments will outweigh this sad one. If a person can't muster the strength to go, they have that right to want to remember everything but "the last time I saw them like that".

    If it were my mother, no question, I'm there. My sperm donor, fukc no, he can eat sh**.

    He was never in my life, yet I'm supposed to play the "sad son" and fake like I'm sad? Yeah, right.
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    its not disrespectful. its disrespectful if you were a horrible kid to your parents. if he was close to his parents i can totally understannd him not going to their funeral. if my mom died.. i wouldnt go to her funeral because i dont want to see her lifeless body in a casket. and you think going to the funeral really helps the grieving process? **** that... now if my dad died.. id be more then happy to see his lifeless rotting corpse.
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    Originally Posted by GooDooG View Post
    tell him to suck it the **** up and go. these are his parents and they deserve a funeral with their child. hell with your feelings, these are your parents
    they are dead though

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    Not rude at all. everyone deals with loss differently. Who is anyone to tell him he HAS to go to the funeral and watch them bury his parents?
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    No it is not rude. This is a situation where everyone is better off minding their own fukin business. Everyone deals with loss in much different ways. Telling him he is evil or a bad person for not going is a good way to get a hammer smashed face.

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    Funerals are just another excuse for acquaintances to gather and gossip with one another.

    People have funerals to try to make themselves feel better about death. They throw a morbid party and want lots of people to show up so that in their imagination, when they die, lots of people will remember and miss them.

    Funerals are a throwback to a time when you rarely got to participate in selfish excesses, but today they're common place, you don't need one after you're dead too.

    Whether you go to the funeral or not, they're dead. Not showing up just gives them something else to talk about when they're there.
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    Originally Posted by Ancient Olympia View Post
    No it is not rude. This is a situation where everyone is better off minding their own fukin business. Everyone deals with loss in much different ways. Telling him he is evil or a bad person for not going is a good way to get a hammer smashed face.

    EDIT: Anyone who disagrees with this is speaking from emotion and not logic. Don't be beta.
    I understand this POV, but I have to respectfully disagree. Grieving, yes, is mostly an individual thing, especially if it's someone really close to you. But funerals aren't just to grieve the loss of a person or persons; they are also for family and friends to come together honor/recognize their lives. So unless there are some factors we don't know about (e.g. his parents not caring about a funeral, really bad tension between them), I gotta say he should go. Don't get me wrong, if he is dead set against it or whatever, I wouldn't drag him or be a dick about it, because that's only counter-productive (to him going, the relationship you have with him, and him dealing with the loss) . Still, I'd tell him why I thought he should go, hoping that he'd listen and decide on his own to go. I can understand why someone wouldn't want to go. But understanding doesn't mean I should agree it, unless there is a really compelling or extenuating reason involved.
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    who the fuk makes these things up? funerals are entirely cultural, its like a fukn birthday or wedding neither of which I give 2 shyts about but they can be fun at least.

    my dad died and I wouldn't have gone anyways so we didn't have one because first off my dad would say its a waste of money and second off I was 15 and my sister was 12 and like someone above said we dont need to be constantly reminded about shyt like people saying sorry and what not.

    everything happens for a reason and he's probably in a better place because straight up--this world is fuk'd. (no emo) He also suffered so much his last year. So the way I see it, he was liberated.

    /tinyrant

    still grieving but it's selfish to think like that "omg he's not here to see me do all this stuff in my life and talk to me and do things with me etc."
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    no wut the fuk, my friend didnt want to go to his dads funeral because it was open casket and he didnt wan to see his dads corpse

    weird thread, even if it was rude what would you do, call him out? tell his parents? (no srs tag)
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    everyone grieves in their own way....i just had a friend whos grandfather passed way, and during the family gathering, instead of talking with the family he went out bowling....he just needed his mind off it and did not want to be reminded.........well he did still go to the funeral
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    I can understand why you wouldn't want to, it was ****ing annoying at my Mum's funeral having to talk to people I barely know or ever felt close with, when really I just wanted to be left alone.
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    he might not want to go because it would be like he's officially saying goodbye. kind of like turning a blind eye to the situation.
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    its not rude, i dont blame him. all these people that didn't give a **** about you or your parents telling you they are sorry for your loss at their funeral.

    so many false people, also why go? no point, they are dead. going to a funeral is just a get to gether so people can grieve together, some prefer to grieve alone.

    best off only thinking about the good times.
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    Its not rude. But he will regret not going at some point. It will be too late then.
    Funerals are not just about paying respect but also they can give closure to those who attend.
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