from what Ive noticed, the face is about equivalent in both genders... it's very important to have a nice face regardless of anything else
but the body is where it differs. A woman with big tits and nice ass (in addition to a nice face) will coast through life getting any man she wants... but guys out there with tremendous meso genetics still have to work their ass off for everything
why the divide?
06-18-2010, 11:40 PM #1
Why do Men care so much more about body than women do?
06-18-2010, 11:52 PM #2
people are designed to be more attracted to what will give them better sex
as a man its easy to see which women are hotter and which women are uglier, the hotter ones we are more attracted to because we know the sex will be better. men are attracted to looks
i dont know what women are attracted to, so i'll stick to men
men are designed to have more dopamine release in their brain when they acknowledge that they are having sex with a more attractive woman. thus the sex with the hotter woman is better because it releases more dopamine.
the reason looks matter more to men is because you are designed to find that fertile look to be more attractive.
looks seem to not matter as much to women. i dont know why. i can only speak for men because im a man and i know im attracted to hot chicks and im not attracted to ugly chicks.
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its cuz men and women are totally different with attraction see women like guys with personality and all those things and they dnt cae as much about the body but with me i could careless about personality im just trying to get it in but hey thats just me and im an ahole soo...some might think differently
06-19-2010, 01:06 AM #5
I'm not sure brah, but it's an endless loop of failure. For me anyways lol. I don't workout for women, but it's nice for someone too appreciate hardwork. Even the girl I'm dating now says she would have liked me just as much when I was skinny and lanky.
It must be something in the male mind. We think in order too be attractive and wanted we need a decent body. Men are attracted too looks, therefore we think looks are needed in our cases aswell.
The good thing is, some women are attracted too guys who lead healthy fit lifestyles. I'm speaking from my experience. My girlfriend is pretty fit, and eats well and is involved in alot of sports, so I'm guessing it's important that I lead a similar lifestyle for us too be compatible. I know for a fact, whether the girl is fit or not, that she be at least trying and leading a wholesome healthy lifestyle. I dunno brah.It's consistency. It's like building a house. Everyday I'm putting a brick on my wall.
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Get a clue and get on that phaggy time cuzz. You'll finally get laid.
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what's the disease where my girlfriend only poops outside?
I know this is weird but I know there's a name for it. She only will poop outside in the backyard. She always makes excuses like she's tired, or too lazy to climb a flight of stairs. When she pees she goes inside but that's it. When she's feeling silly she puts toothpicks in it and calls it a battleship and chases me around the house with it. She also presents it to me like a gift. thanks
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I've often wondered this too, but then again, zyzz and chestbrah seem to pull a lot of tail just because of their bodies, although they generally walk around 10% clothed.
However if we look at this on an instinctual level - there must be some male markers of fertility, just as there are for women - I'm thinking along the lines of high testosterone traits such as muscularity, leaness as well as "alphaness" / leadership - which is maybe why women are so attracted to confidence.☆☆☆Jaden Smith school of experimental philosophy and existentialism crew☆☆☆
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06-19-2010, 11:11 AM #14
"I heard if I lift weights or work out too much I'll get big and buff like Zac Efron, guys don't like that, yuck!"
"Oh well it doesn't matter if I'm fat, I still get attention, see?"
"I've been eating this way for my whole life and I'm not dead yet so it must be okay"
"Real women have curves"
and so on
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06-19-2010, 11:58 AM #19
Women can tell the difference between an attractive man and not so much. However ,I think different women seem to have different opinions on what guy is attractive to the extent that one may jump into bed with him and the other will be turned off. Because they are so fussy in what they want. Men are different if the girl has a nice face .decent breasts and a nice ass, she's in.
You see what women also want is a backstory before jumping into bed with a Guy. They will check someones looks out, and if he passes, for most that isn't enough.She will see how he acts around his friends and how women relate to him. How he dresses etc. She will build up this image of him in her mind and then decide. Bear in mind she can change her mind at any point ,and it doesn't take much.
This is proven by looking how most women look at porn, it is wrong to suggest the women don't have as high a sex drive as men,it's just they get turned on differently. Women are the main buyers of erotic fiction and there is a big market for it. But when people have tried to make porn films catering to ladies they have not been anywhere near successful. Look at the escorting scene, it is mainly catering to men. This is because men can get great sexual fulfillment out of sleeping with a stranger, just from how they look.It is much more difficult if not impossible for a man to cater for female clients.
Of course women behave differently when they are drunk,in fact it is proven alcholol makes them behave a bit more like men sexually, which would account for how some women enjoy one night stands.I bang trannies.
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