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    does fuking a prostitute build confidence

    I am just so shy around women, its unbearable. Even when I'm really drunk, I get uncomfortable talking to girls. I heard paying a prostitute is a great way to build confidence, and such. Is it true? Is it worth it?

    I wanna have my first time with someone I love, but at 18, the situation is getting dim. Should I do it or no?
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    its a great way to build STD's
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    OP if you serious(which you probably aren't), but if you are, prostitutes probably wont build your confidence. Give ya some sexual experience which may help a little, but wont really help with talking to girls. Wanna get better at talking to girls, actually do it and practice. Only way to improve brah
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    Fux no. Were is the respect for yourself. Don't do stupid ****
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    Prostitute will not build confidence.
    When You Go Home, Tell Them Of Us And Say,
    For Your Tomorrow, We Gave Our Today.

    Do not take my statements as advice for your own actions.
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    Here is a much more legal, accessible and cheaper way to build confidence.

    Eye contact game:
    If you make eye contact with a chick and you look away first, you lose.

    Do this ALL THE FU**ING TIME. Aim for a solid number per day, at least 20 wins.

    For extra benefit tell yourself "Its just a chick" after every game.

    Repeat game until you die.


    I am absolutely 100% serious about this. Looking away first communicates submission, holding eye contact like this shows dominance and trains you to dominate.

    BTW if she looks down and away, it's on! If she looks across and away, she is a possible. If she looks up and away, she is a stuck up bish. If she stares at you then she is upping the stakes and you HAVE to win or you are a pussy (unless she is holding hands with someone who can probably kick your ass).
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    agree w. the eye contact thing, it's a fun way to challenge yourself. it's harder than u think too cuz it's almost like a natural reaction to look away when a girl catches u looking at her. if u win the staredown w. a girl it shows her u have confidence.
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    does having to pay for sex and knowing that this woman does that with ANYBODY build confidence?
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    Originally Posted by majszownik View Post
    does having to pay for sex and knowing that this woman does that with ANYBODY build confidence?
    Guys can get caught up about the whole sex thing in a drought especially with the whole V-card thing. It can be a huge mental issue to get over, you don't understand it, you don't know how it works, you don't realise that women want it too. It's all very confusing.

    The idea is that getting some of that out of the way will help.

    Whether it does or not I have no idea, never tried it.
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    when you want legal advice you go to a professional, when you want an operation you go to a professional. When you want to learn something you go to a professional..

    Just saying brah.. go to a professional. Here pro's are legal, seems to be less of a stigma about people visiting them.
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    Originally Posted by majszownik View Post
    does having to pay for sex and knowing that this woman does that with ANYBODY build confidence?
    Well, if his lack of sexual confidence is undermining his confidence in general, don't you think popping a cialis and practicing pounding the bejesus out of some pliant whore, without having to worry about looking like an idiot for being a beginner, is going to make it a whole lot easier to "close the deal" with a real girl as he'll be confident in his ability to thrash her like an old kawasaki properly?

    You women are merciless and cruel with males who can't deliver the goods to their satisfaction, which has set back the development of many a young introvert



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    real girls are prostitutes too bro, they just don't call it 'rate per hour' but rather 'dating'.
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    i'm not telling OP what to do. i'm simply asking a question
    i doubt that i would feel good after loosing my V-card to some random dude just to get it over with.

    but since i have already been treated like i have criticised this whole idea i might as well say what i really think the argument about being more confident because of having the ooportunity to "practise" is bull****. one instance of having sex doesn't make you experienced. you still can't do sh*t. plus with a real girl OP still will have to deal with emotions, no matter how many times he does it with a hooker, who takes the money and doesn't care about the rest. so it's really not the best "practise". it also won't make him more skilled at getting girls. plus if a girl he cares about finds out about his little experiment she'll probably be disgusted and run for the hills. and to health clinic, to get tested for STDs.

    BUT of course if OP feels that it would make him feel better it's his call. i just think it's a damn shame that he's 18 and thinks that it's weird to be a virgin at that age. college is round the corner, plenty of opportunities there. he might actually find some nice virgin and everything will be special. or he might f*ck a random drunk slut, not pay a dime and boost his confidence that way.

    oh and the bit about women being cruel was adorable i mean it
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    Originally Posted by frasersteen View Post
    Guys can get caught up about the whole sex thing in a drought especially with the whole V-card thing. It can be a huge mental issue to get over, you don't understand it, you don't know how it works, you don't realise that women want it too. It's all very confusing.

    The idea is that getting some of that out of the way will help.

    Whether it does or not I have no idea, never tried it.

    you're right, i have never understood the need to get it over with - both in case of women and men. i understand that women want sex too (duh), but i have always believed that the first time should be special, with somebody i loved and who loved me. and i was lucky enough to have it that way, so yeah. maybe i just don't understand, cause i have never been in that situation, but i've also tried to lay out some valid points based on reason why this whole thing isn't such a good idea.
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    how would he get stds if he sleeps with escorts? they are high class hookers, look like models, and only wealthy men sleep with them who wear protection. They are cleaner than the average girl who sleeps with random bums, I am presuming of course that OP can afford high class escorts, they make every girl look like **** in comparison, so it will definitely boost his confidence if some average looking girl rejects him and settles for a handsome average guy who makes her give it up over a pizza and a coke, and possible a few beers, plus they would most likely use no protection too. Real talk. I'd rather pay and sleep with the kinds chicks Hugh Hefner does, than sleep with a 'beautiful' girl by average societies standards and consider her 'real'. How is she a real girl if she conceals her true motives as a woman? Let's be real now.
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    Originally Posted by majszownik View Post
    i'm not telling OP what to do. i'm simply asking a question
    i doubt that i would feel good after loosing my V-card to some random dude just to get it over with.

    but since i have already been treated like i have criticised this whole idea i might as well say what i really think the argument about being more confident because of having the ooportunity to "practise" is bull****. one instance of having sex doesn't make you experienced. you still can't do sh*t. plus with a real girl OP still will have to deal with emotions, no matter how many times he does it with a hooker, who takes the money and doesn't care about the rest. so it's really not the best "practise". it also won't make him more skilled at getting girls. plus if a girl he cares about finds out about his little experiment she'll probably be disgusted and run for the hills. and to health clinic, to get tested for STDs.

    BUT of course if OP feels that it would make him feel better it's his call. i just think it's a damn shame that he's 18 and thinks that it's weird to be a virgin at that age. college is round the corner, plenty of opportunities there. he might actually find some nice virgin and everything will be special. or he might f*ck a random drunk slut, not pay a dime and boost his confidence that way.

    oh and the bit about women being cruel was adorable i mean it
    Understood, I think you have hit on the major difference between guys and girls in dating. Confidence is so extremely difficult to obtain, for a guy who does not have much success with women, confidence with women is extremely difficult. Hell I was 25 before I realised what confidence actually was.

    It's not about making yourself a better lover, its about getting out of your own head and dealing with your own issues.
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    Originally Posted by bzman View Post
    OP if you serious(which you probably aren't), but if you are, prostitutes probably wont build your confidence. Give ya some sexual experience which may help a little, but wont really help with talking to girls. Wanna get better at talking to girls, actually do it and practice. Only way to improve brah
    This.

    My advice is YES, you should go and **** some prostitutes. Get it out of the way. Leave your V-card behind. Then you'll realise that women are just pieces of meat and there is nothing special or magical about sex. It won't make you any better at picking up women, but it will at least give you some sexual experience so that when you do get a girlfriend, you'll know what you're doing.
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    Originally Posted by frasersteen View Post
    Understood, I think you have hit on the major difference between guys and girls in dating. Confidence is so extremely difficult to obtain, for a guy who does not have much success with women, confidence with women is extremely difficult. Hell I was 25 before I realised what confidence actually was.

    It's not about making yourself a better lover, its about getting out of your own head and dealing with your own issues.
    Confidence with woman? LOL! Any guy who is pursuing that as a goal should shoot himself, real talk. No offense to anyone but seriously, why the fukk would you care about impressing someone who breathes just like you, eat likes you, ****s like you, and so on? Confidence with money is what it's all about nicca, real talk. Anybody who tells you money doesn't buy happiness is a liar b, every time I have more money, my life improves, I got a holiday planned after my final exam, euro's down, going to drop $10,000 just on a hotel for a month, my room has a jacuzzi, a pool, and other fancy **** that I couldn't afford at one point in my life, and I am happier now than when I was back then, even though I had regular success with women then. I swear you guys missing out on the finer things in life pursuing this women ****, i am going to be one with mother nature on my holiday, have sex with beautiful girls at night, and spend the mornings exploring the cities and towns, reading my books on the mountains. That's what life is about nicca.
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    Originally Posted by majszownik View Post
    you're right, i have never understood the need to get it over with - both in case of women and men. i understand that women want sex too (duh), but i have always believed that the first time should be special, with somebody i loved and who loved me. and i was lucky enough to have it that way, so yeah. maybe i just don't understand, cause i have never been in that situation, but i've also tried to lay out some valid points based on reason why this whole thing isn't such a good idea.
    Threat starter, do the opposite of what majszownik says in the above post, and you'll be on the right track.

    There is NOTHING special about sex. And let me promise you this: there will be nothing "special" about your first time either, whether it's with a hooker or not.

    In all likelihood, your first time will be dissapointing. You can't be an ace at something the first time. It takes a bit of practice, just like learning to ride a bike.

    Just **** as many hookers as you can, to get as much experience as you can, whilst working on your confidence and social skills until you can f*ck women without having to pay for it.

    And I shake my head at these posters asserting that you're going to get STD's from hookers. If you go to a brothel instead of going for streethookers then you'll be fine. The women in brothels are clean, and will make you shower before and after you f*ck them. And they always do the same. They will not f*ck you without protection.

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    Originally Posted by oldzyzz View Post
    I am just so shy around women, its unbearable. Even when I'm really drunk, I get uncomfortable talking to girls. I heard paying a prostitute is a great way to build confidence, and such. Is it true? Is it worth it?

    I wanna have my first time with someone I love, but at 18, the situation is getting dim. Should I do it or no?
    If anyone find out that you had to resort to sleeping with a prostitite.. that is a MAJOR LIFE FAIL on all counts. Something you will live to regret. Get over your shyness, fix anything you dont like about yourself to boost your confidence.. and remember.. us girls are people too! We really arent that scary!
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    Just try it.
    You can't predict 100% sure wether it's gonna boost your confidence or not, but it will most likely not bring you down even further.

    Pros of going to a professional:
    - You'll have sex
    - Practice
    - Perhaps increased confidence

    Cons of going to a professional:
    - You have to spend some money
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    Originally Posted by Bettos View Post
    If anyone find out that you had to resort to sleeping with a prostitite.. that is a MAJOR LIFE FAIL on all counts. Something you will live to regret. Get over your shyness, fix anything you dont like about yourself to boost your confidence.. and remember.. us girls are people too! We really arent that scary!
    OMG what a load of crap, I have f*cked over 30 hookers in Perth because I like to bang japs, koreans, and black chicks. Banging hookers is about variety.

    Originally Posted by Bettos View Post
    If anyone find out that you had to resort to sleeping with a prostitite.. that is a MAJOR LIFE FAIL on all counts.
    LOL! That is EPIC BULLSH*T. Damn this makes me laugh, I didn't realise women were this naive. Did you know that nearly 50% of men admit to having payed for sex? How is that a MAJOR LIFE FAIL when 1 out of every 2 men have done it. The prostitution industry exists for a reason: because lots of men want to f*ck without having to put up with women's tears, rags, temper tantrums, and other such bullsh*t.
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    Ahahahh thats such bull****! 50% of men? Are you from a small isolated mining town or what..
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    Originally Posted by Bettos View Post
    Ahahahh thats such bull****! 50% of men? Are you from a small isolated mining town or what..
    some of the greatest generals in military history that save your ass from being a slave right now have fukked hookers, only insecure fools fear prostitutes because of what society tells them, fukk that ****, i can get normal girls and so can op, or any guy for that matter, but time is money, pay money save time, plus hookers are cleaner. real talk NY
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    No need to drag your Military BS into the convo, or your slavery crap either.
    Im not saying for one second that prostitutes dont serve a purpose- because they absolutely do. If the option of paying for sex saves women being forced upon then im all for it. Your comment about 50% of men sleeping with prostitutes is absolute bull****. And you think that hookers are cleaner than a normal girl? Do you live in a fantasy land or what? Yeah, a hooker who ****s 100's of guys per month is way cleaner than the average girl who sleeps with maybe only a handful per month. Both considering they get their regular STD checks- shouldnt be an issue if you are using protection. Hookers do have an increadibly higher incidence of being HIV positive. Ever heard of the 3 month latency period of HIV? Of course you do. Think of that the next time your nice and clean hooker says she has a clean bill of health. Yum yum.
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    Originally Posted by Bettos View Post
    No need to drag your Military BS into the convo, or your slavery crap either.
    Im not saying for one second that prostitutes dont serve a purpose- because they absolutely do. If the option of paying for sex saves women being forced upon then im all for it. Your comment about 50% of men sleeping with prostitutes is absolute bull****. And you think that hookers are cleaner than a normal girl? Do you live in a fantasy land or what? Yeah, a hooker who ****s 100's of guys per month is way cleaner than the average girl who sleeps with maybe only a handful per month. Both considering they get their regular STD checks- shouldnt be an issue if you are using protection. Hookers do have an increadibly higher incidence of being HIV positive. Ever heard of the 3 month latency period of HIV? Of course you do. Think of that the next time your nice and clean hooker says she has a clean bill of health. Yum yum.
    regular girls are full of herpes, hiv and ****, i am not talking about cheap $30 skanks, I am talking about hookers for VIPs, so your saying politicians, hollywood stars, and other prominent members of society all have stds ? VIP hookers are cleaner, hotter, and better than the average girl, this is a fact, otherwise hollywood stars would waste their time with cheap regular girls who are rarely 9-10s, and have nothing to offer except perhaps a few stds.

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    If something boosts confidence, that means it is admirable and worthy of respect; either self-respect or the respect of your peers. To whom would you brag about sleeping with a prostitute? And if you think she's gonna be good looking, you've seen too many movies. She will sound like a smoker, be ~30 years old but look 50, and will almost certainly have diseases.

    To specifically answer your question, no, I don't think doing a prostitute will boost your confidence with women. As a virgin, you might learn something about sex, but you definitely won't be any more outgoing around girls at the next party. You're 18, don't worry about sexual prospects being dim, it'll happen.
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    Originally Posted by MugenLee View Post
    If something boosts confidence, that means it is admirable and worthy of respect; either self-respect or the respect of your peers. To whom would you brag about sleeping with a prostitute? And if you think she's gonna be good looking, you've seen too many movies. She will sound like a smoker, be ~30 years old but look 50, and will almost certainly have diseases.

    To specifically answer your question, no, I don't think doing a prostitute will boost your confidence with women. As a virgin, you might learn something about sex, but you definitely won't be any more outgoing around girls at the next party. You're 18, don't worry about sexual prospects being dim, it'll happen.
    lol sorry brah, i ain't talking about your street hookers that you guys keep referring to, i am talking about hoes that cost from $500 an hour and up, they look like models, and VIPs fukk them, not little chumps. real talk. I would never fukk a street hooker, that's just gross.
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    Since when have you ever heard of a politician or VIP taking a high class hooker out to a red carpet event? Ahh never.. Thats because it DOESNT HAPPEN. Pretty sure that we would have all heard about it because it would be a massive tabloid event. Hookers are dirty. Period. If you sleep with 100's of men per month, you are dirty. Sleeping with 100's of men will increase your exposure to STD's, HIV and other blood borne diseases.
    You said that you can get "standard girls"- but why do you bother with us when you can have these amazingly clean, beautiful and luxurious hookers? Hahha you are so full of **** man. You make me laugh!
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