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    if a girl doesnt ask questions about you, does that mean she isnt interested?

    or just socially awkward?

    this mostly applies to girls on POF/okc. i normally stop messaging them if they dont ask me anything back. but im thinking, maybe they are sociall awkward and thats why they are on the site?
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    Originally Posted by jacketfan View Post
    or just socially awkward?

    this mostly applies to girls on POF/okc. i normally stop messaging them if they dont ask me anything back. but im thinking, maybe they are sociall awkward and thats why they are on the site?
    not sure if srs... most girls never ask questions, they just talk about themselves...
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    Originally Posted by jacketfan View Post
    or just socially awkward?

    this mostly applies to girls on POF/okc. i normally stop messaging them if they dont ask me anything back. but im thinking, maybe they are sociall awkward and thats why they are on the site?
    Yea I would agree with this statement. Girls always want to know more about you if they can see themselves getting closer to you in some capacity (possible dating material, escalating to a relationship, etc...)

    Otherwise she's self centered or just not interested in you.
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    Same. If they just barely give me a reply to something I've asked them in a message, without showing any initiative to continue the conversation (like asking a question back or giving positive comments) I just stop there and leave it at that. I'm not going to waste my time on a girl who won't take any initiative.
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    I find that it's 10 times easier to generate interest with a girl in real life. It's damn near impossible to do it on the computer because everyone is trying to do it.

    Getting attention on an online site = Getting attention at a bar. Only the best looking even get a second look.

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    to be honest, it doesn't mean they're not interested. Cuz I was dating a girl that really liked me, and she really didnt ask many questions.
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    If a girl doesn't ask questions about you, it can mean one of several things:

    - self centered
    - socially retarded
    - not interested in you.

    Don't let pessimism instantly allow you to pick the third option. More often than not, it's usually the first and second options which are more prevalent.
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    Originally Posted by jacketfan View Post
    or just socially awkward?

    this mostly applies to girls on POF/okc. i normally stop messaging them if they dont ask me anything back. but im thinking, maybe they are sociall awkward and thats why they are on the site?
    It's a form of qualifying you. If they weren't interested at all, they wouldn't have responded. It's too easy to ignore someone you're not interested in. The way you handle is how they determine whether or not they're willing to invest in you or not.

    I could give you more info if you want to provide more context and/or pics of said females.
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    Originally Posted by Crosshash View Post
    If a girl doesn't ask questions about you, it can mean one of several things:

    - self centered
    - socially retarded
    - not interested in you.

    Don't let pessimism instantly allow you to pick the third option. More often than not, it's usually the first and second options which are more prevalent.
    also, everyone knows it's normally sign of interest if someone asks alot of questions about you. because of this, alot of women may avoid asking questions just to keep the upper hand in the mind games. instead, they'll ask their friends about you, watch what t-shirts you wear, and try to find out **** about you without "giving in" by asking.
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    they think it's all about them? its mostly guys that do the asking from what ive noticed but i like to ask back if im genuinely interested. i dont think they would be talking to you if they werent interested in the first place.

    You should trying sending: "so would you like to know anything about me?" or is there a more alpha way to put it?
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    Originally Posted by traxchix View Post
    You should trying sending: "so would you like to know anything about me?" or is there a more alpha way to put it?
    More alpha? Yeah, you say "Yo babe wachu wanna know?"
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    Originally Posted by jacketfan View Post
    or just socially awkward?

    this mostly applies to girls on POF/okc. i normally stop messaging them if they dont ask me anything back. but im thinking, maybe they are sociall awkward and thats why they are on the site?
    no.. that just mean she is self-absorbed and is just like many other girls..

    the key is to not wait for her to ask u ****. take whatever shes talking about and transition into something about yourself thats related. so its not like youre changing the subject. and yea.. you have to draw the line at some point. relationships take 2 to function
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    Originally Posted by Manly5000 View Post
    More alpha? Yeah, you say "Yo babe wachu wanna know?"
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