I wish I wasn't like this, but I am extremely skeptical now. I feel like girls use the rape as a get out of jail free card. "I was really drunk, and I didn't want to hook up with him, but he pressured me into having sex" **** like that. I would rather a girl just be like yeah, I was drunk and we hooked up. I feel bad for true rape victims that they have to deal with this.
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03-01-2010, 10:52 AM #1Cuff Your Chick
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Are you extremely skeptical when a girl says she's been raped??
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03-01-2010, 10:58 AM #2Registered User
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totally agree. women get buyer's remorse or get worried about their rep and drop the rape card all the time. sucks because it makes me skiptical of the women out there who really have been violated.
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03-01-2010, 11:03 AM #3I LOVE MY KITCHEN!
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Without bringing hail and brimestone down upon me, I'd answer "yes."Originally Posted by Mr.Fab
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03-01-2010, 11:32 AM #4xx chromosomes (no homo)
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Yes.
Even if she's being honest, I'd warn any dude against getting involved with her if she told you within the first couple months of knowing her. Women who've been raped and have fully worked through it generally don't go around talking about it. Once they're over it, it's in the past and there is no reaso to tell everyone they meet.
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03-01-2010, 11:38 AM #5Banned
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I had a woman tell me she was raped by a guy. But when I began the hardcore questioning , she finally admitted that all he did was stick a finger up her butt. And it was her boyfriend at the time.
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03-01-2010, 11:41 AM #6Mod Neg Survivor
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no police report = attention whore
obviously there are a lot more factors than that, but my first followup question will always be "did you file a police report?" if the answer is no, immediate red flags appear.Misc Med Crew
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03-01-2010, 12:08 PM #7Who paid for this floor?
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the red speaks the truth. if she doesnt want to go to the police she is lying.Originally Posted by HI_KKM
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03-01-2010, 12:17 PM #8Anti-Circumcision
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03-01-2010, 12:32 PM #9hamsom brah
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Of course I am. Anyone who says such a serious thing brings skepticism upon themselves. Then add to the fact that so many bimbos get buyer's remorse and choose to blame rape rather than just say they ****ed some random because they felt like it.
This.Originally Posted by RandomMisc
Friendship b/w women:
A woman doesn't come home one night. The next day she tells her husband she slept over at a girlfriend's place. Her husband calls 10 of her best friends. None know anything about it.
Friendship b/w men:
A man doesn't come home one night. The next day he tells his wife he slept over at a friend's place. His wife calls 10 of the husband's best friends. 8 of them confirm he slept over, the other 2 claim he's still there.
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03-01-2010, 12:57 PM #10xx chromosomes (no homo)
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I already posted my response above, but just wanted to say that this logic is a pile of fail. Most rapes go unreported, and a woman is much less likely to report a rape when she knows her attacker.Originally Posted by HI_KKM
Neglecting or even refusing to report it doesn't mean ****. Even the presence of a police report doesn't necessarily validate her accusations. Plenty of women report false rapes, and even more fail to report legitimate ones.
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03-01-2010, 01:02 PM #11Registered User
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The "i was drunk and he he just kept coming at me" is such a lame cop out. Unless the guy is pinning them down, no rape.
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03-01-2010, 01:52 PM #12Mod Neg Survivor
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agreed ... lots of real rape cases go unreportedOriginally Posted by RandomMisc
however those women keep silent about their rape not talk about them openly and yet refuse to go to the police or see a therapist. i'm just saying that a woman talking about rape with others yet refusing to file a police report or talk to a therapist automatically puts up a red flag.
cliffs: talking about rape in a social setting without therapist bills or police report = attention whoreMisc Med Crew
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03-01-2010, 04:52 PM #13Cuff Your Chick
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Originally Posted by DemetriaF
Originally Posted by RandomMisc
I'm actually very surprised to here that from some girls. I a have heard the excuse so many times it makes me angry. I feel like if she was too, then she will have definitely have a lot of issues to deal with.
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03-01-2010, 05:12 PM #14I Want to Believe
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It seems like every girl has been 'raped'
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