-I'll be alone
-College town, the bar/club is not a Miami/LA type
What should I do, what should I expect?
How should I act, considering I'll be alone.
I dont want to bring a girl back to my dorm lol, but would it be normal to go to her place if I do pick up a chick?
02-08-2010, 09:30 PM #1
Advice on going to bar/club for the first time. (serious)
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srs though talk about whatever comes to your mind first, don't think about it just do it. make friends with everyone, bartenders, doorman, groups of bros, next thing you know you will have a girl under your arm at the end of the nightئەنسیکلۆپێدیایFlorida Gators Crewئەنسیکلۆپێدیای
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Man, your gunna struggle.. just make sure you don't get to stuck sitting in a corner alone.. you'll look creepy.. talk to a few chicks and DO NOT HOVER.. just be casual, confident and you'll do fine..
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02-09-2010, 06:39 PM #10
I dissagree with the white sneakers! if you're gonna to a club you dont want to risk not getting let into the club. play it safe wear dress shoes.
Going out on your own is easy. when u get to the club first thing is do is make some new friends, just bust a few jokes about picking up chicks and most guys will be your friends straight away. rinse repeat a few times times and almost everyone knows who you are and you look like your easily approachable and very friendly. usually in that first hour chicks will come up to you cos you look like your having fun. but worst case you have made new friends to chill with.
once your settled in the club pick a spot and just boogey, usually your new brosephs will pass by and give you hi5s makin you look like you know everyone. and all you do at this point is keep dancing. chicks will usually migrate towards you or at least eye you from a distance. all you do is go collect, most pickups you dont have to say a word. dont worry about game its overrated in clubs.
focus on having fun not picking up.The only things that should be small in this world are bills and panty sizes
02-09-2010, 06:52 PM #11
if you are in a college town there really isnt much to it. if you are going to be going on a busy night, pregame before hand if you need to and dont get there till the place gets fairly busy. you dont want to be "that guy" sitting alone at the bar at 9pm. get there around 12am when the place is already busy, most people there will be drunk out of their mind already. grab yourself a drink, strike up a conversation with a bar tender or any one that looks normal at the bar. your interaction with men is just as important as your interaction with women. if you dont run into anyone you know try saying hello to the women that come to the bar for drinks. better yet, if you already have a conversation going on with someone at the bar try getting random girls that come by involved.
women usually end up congregating around the dance floor, if you can dance then you'll know what to do...just try avoiding girls in group. your best bet is the girl that is already the third wheel. if you are shy like me...i have to speak to a girl before even trying to dance with her, so take a few pass around or across the dance floor and talk to someone thats by the dance floor but not dancing. i usually make fun of someone or a couple doing something ridiculous on the dance floor.
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02-09-2010, 08:06 PM #13
Well it's a college town, but the thing is, looking through photo's it seems like the people who go there go with their established friend group/social circle, big groups, not just a small group of two or three. I'd feel really out of place being outnumbered by groups 10-1. And it's not a urban dance club that plays Club Remixes and the like, it's more of a bar-club mix, not really dark, plays boring music etc..
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Wear BLACK shoes.. White will get dirty from people stepping on them and you will look cheap fast .. Also unless you are an awesome dancer I wouldn't wear white as it will catch peoples attention on the dance floor and show your footwork..
Don't take it too seriously .. It's your first time and you'll be going solo.. Keep a positive attitude and just laugh at yourself if you do something stupid.. As already said try and be social with everyone but don't be 'that guy' that just follows people and won't leave.
Have a few drinks but keep yourself in check .. You don't have friends there too look after you so if you start annoying people and shiit happens it could end badly for you ..
Easiest way to show people you are approachable and wanna have a good time is the simple smile.. It will greatly increase your chance of meeting people..
Don't try talking on the dance floor.. People that come up to you and try and converse when music is pumping are annoying..
If you are trying to pick up a girl in a group make sure the whole group feels included.. Otherwise the fat/ugly/single ones will make your life hell and do everything possible to make sure you and her friend don't do anything..
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Since you're going alone just get there a little late, and be really really drunk. After you get comfortable socially cuz your drunk, you'll have the confidence to hit bitches up.
Also, don't ask girls to dance. Either a drunk bitch will just grab you, you get on a bitch and doesn't walk away, or you drag a girl you're talking with you dance. DON'T ASK.
02-10-2010, 10:39 PM #24
Best way to loosen up, 4 shots of tequila, 2 jager bombs, 1 vodka shot, 3 Anacondas, 2 Sex on the Beach, 4 Adrenaline, and 6 beers of your choice. This setup must be drank within 1 hour. GL, OP.
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