Girl meets guy. Girl becomes attracted to guy. Guy gives mixed signs. Guy gives half-smile when he sees girl. Girl talks to guy. Guy talks back. Girl is too shy to talk to guy the next few days. Guy is 15 sophomore. Girl is 17 senior.
I finally moved on from all the other guys including the guy from the gym and guy friend. I am in awe with this gorgeous guy, the problem is he's younger and I don't know him.
Since I have class with him the opportunity to talk to him. But I rarely ask him for help, since I ask an other guy. Now he probably thinks I'm interested in the other guy when I'm actually interested in him.
How do I find out if he has a girlfriend casually? I was thinking like "How are the girls?," but I really don't know him.
I talked to him about classes, but that's pretty mundane. How do I casually ask him about his personal life. I'm thinking about asking him "How his weekend was?" since I ask everyone that question.
I want to pursue him, but I don't want to seem aggressive since he's younger. I know on all my past threads many members told me to just give a guy my phone number. Just Do It is suppose, but I want to have the right timing.
Any tips? Guys if you half-smile at a girl and frequently make eye contact with a girl aren't you somewhat interested? Aww, he makes me nervous more than any guy I'm encountered so far!
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02-05-2010, 06:13 PM #1
How do I get a younger guy to ask me out?
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02-05-2010, 06:16 PM #2
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02-05-2010, 06:19 PM #3
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02-05-2010, 06:19 PM #4
well let's see if I get this right
you like this guy that you don't personally know whatsoever, you just want him because he looks good
.......And girls have the nerve to say WE'RE superficial"Life's not a bitch. Life is a beautiful woman. You only call her a bitch 'cause she won't let you get that pussy. Maybe she didn't feel y'all shared any similar interests, or maybe you're just an ******* who couldn't sweet talk the princess." - Aesop Rock, "Daylight".
"Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you will ever own." - Baz Luhrmann.
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02-05-2010, 06:22 PM #5
mk_nightwolf, I seriously don't think year 17 years old. I've never seen anyone my age that jacked, unless you are like Little Hercules and have been training since you were a child.
Back to the question, if he doesn't want to say hi that means he's not attracted to me. Why make eye contact with me in the first place and smile at me? He was the first one looking in my direction anyways.
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02-05-2010, 06:29 PM #6
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02-05-2010, 06:30 PM #7
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Thats actually not that bad, it doesn't sound out of place if you just pop it randomly while talking. Although don't expect him to know that you like him just from that, but yeah, find out if he has a gf or not.
I wouldnt take too much of that look, smile and the "hi" thing, doesnt seem that significant.
Originally Posted by SeanP35
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02-05-2010, 06:30 PM #8
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02-05-2010, 06:34 PM #10
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You are WAY overanalyzing this situation.
Just talk to the dude casually about something... Monday for instance, bring up the Super Bowl and ask him about ______ and what he thought and take it from there.
From your 'tar you appear to be good looking.. Unless you're some sort of social outcast this dude is going to be thrilled a girl is talking to him."Still though, I think if you're not self-obsessed, you're probably boring."
"We have advantages. We have a cushion to fall back on. This is abundance. A luxury of place and time. Something rare and wonderful. It's almost historically unprecedented. We must do extraordinary things. We have to. It would be absurd not to."
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02-05-2010, 06:35 PM #11
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02-05-2010, 06:44 PM #16
The problem I now have with dating is the whole "texting" thing. I'm one of the minorrity that doesn't receive "texts", since my cell phone service is terrible. I can't get a new phone service until college. So I can't text when it comes to dating. Personally I think texting is one of the dumbest things ever, IMO.
The guy seems sweet, he's quiet and shy? He doesn't seem like the cocky jerks. I just wish I could know by interpreting a few signs. I always tend to bail when it comes to guy. It also seems like people never ask for my phone number, they always give me theirs. What does that mean?
Why does he look at me? I'm not thinking this from over analyzing, but I just seems like he's fascinated by me or I'm simply strange. Ugh.
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02-05-2010, 06:46 PM #17
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02-05-2010, 06:51 PM #19
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If you're like... Hey.. We should do our HW together at some point... Dude has seen enough Saved by the Bell episodes to know what's good.
"Still though, I think if you're not self-obsessed, you're probably boring."
"We have advantages. We have a cushion to fall back on. This is abundance. A luxury of place and time. Something rare and wonderful. It's almost historically unprecedented. We must do extraordinary things. We have to. It would be absurd not to."
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02-05-2010, 06:53 PM #20
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thats kind of pathetic if you ask me.
"Something about your dick getting dirty from all the poop and crap..."
"So you shave yours?"
"One thing about scissors... They scare the **** out of me being near my cock... What if I make a wrong move and cut it open... "
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Currently doing Madcows 5x5, lets see how this goes.
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02-05-2010, 06:55 PM #21
Lol @ you telling somebody they aren't "qualified" to say texting is stupid...
Texting is stupid, and I have texting.
I highly suggest you just make an attempt to talk to him; just start up a conversation whenever you get the chance to. You seem capable enough to sneak in a few questions when it comes to his personal life, or even anything close to it.
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02-05-2010, 06:57 PM #22
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02-05-2010, 07:00 PM #24
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ima farmer lol and yes im 17
well if he was lookin at u first then he might have a thing for u so u should go and talk 2 him and say wana go eat lunch together or somethin.but dont wait to long cuz some guys get over a girl in like a week or 2 if nothin good happens lolyou have to do what others wont...to achieve what others dont..
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02-05-2010, 07:02 PM #25
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02-05-2010, 07:29 PM #29
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02-05-2010, 08:29 PM #30
I would do that if I was interested, sure.
Just wait for the right time and give him your number. Start talking to him, and during the course of the convo tell him you have to run, but that you'd like to talk again sometime. Just say: 'Here's my number..." and write it down or have it ready.
I'd love it if a gal asked me out. That way I'd know she was into me and I'd feel more comfortable around her.
So why not ask him out?
Good luck!
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