I just transferred to a new college. Age 21.
-Dont know anyone at all in school
-Not sure how to find parties
-No social events so far
I really bored and want some ho to smash.
How should I go about pullin some chicks? I dont have any parties to invite them too, no events, nothing at all really. My dorm roommate never leaves, and the rooms cramped.
Overall I just dont know what to get some girl to do. Randomly approaching and saying "lets hang out in my dorm" is weird. I have no Point A that gets me to Point B.
I don't have a problem approaching if I have something to invite them to, or am in a social venue . My problem is that for me it's just class, and dorms, that I am ever at. Cant find any events or parties.
02-01-2010, 10:12 PM #1
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do you realize how many organizations and clubs are on campus? check your college website and find out about meetings and all that..
-join some clubs/organizations
-get involved, meet people, improve social circle
-find out about parties/gettogethers
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02-02-2010, 01:16 PM #9
I just don't have a venue, other than the campus to work in. Problems listed above.
The thing is, is that even if I did ask a girl to hang out, I have to place to go. I dont know of any parties, my dorm room is small and boring, I dont like being in it. I'm mainly looking for ideas on what i could do.
02-02-2010, 01:24 PM #10
You're on a bodybuilding site, join the school gym FIRST of all so you can make friends. Second, talk to girls...MAKE reasons to talk to them. I use a smoke during class break as an excuse to talk to girls...get creative. Also, you're 21, go to bars....drag your roommate out and play some pool and network. College is easy just chill .“Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they've been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It's an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It's a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.”
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i transferred to my college. i met most of my friends in class. i would just try to start up a conversation about something we have in common (example, im a big soccer fan and a lot of ppl wear soccer jerseys so ill talk to them). then we start talking every class and always sit together then just ask them if they want to chill and get their number that way (no homo).
if you dont know of a party it doesnt matter, invite the friend or potential girlfriend out to one anyways. its an easy way to get their number. then just text them the day of the "party" and tell them it fell through and is canceled and ask them if they know of anything going on. if they have a decent social network they will know and will bring you to one.
thats what worked for me. i used the same tactics to meet friends and girls.
02-02-2010, 03:43 PM #12
The easiest way is to make friends with plenty of guys and girls you're not interested in... one of them is bound to have a female friend that is worth smashing
I had a f-buddy my senior year of college, and I met her through my best friend's girlfriend.brb I have to return some videotapes
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02-02-2010, 03:44 PM #13
As far as parties go just ask around in some of your classes. If there are any cute girls in your classes take advantage of study groups. There are so many things on campus that allow you to meet girls. Like some other guys said making a group of friends will only make things easier.
Also know when to talk to a girl, if she is eye raping you, go talk to her, it doesn't have to be anything profound just something to break the ice.Goals for Summer '13
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