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    How to meet Girls/F'buddies in college? (serious)

    I just transferred to a new college. Age 21.

    -Dont know anyone at all in school
    -unsocial dorm
    -Not sure how to find parties
    -No social events so far

    I really bored and want some ho to smash.

    How should I go about pullin some chicks? I dont have any parties to invite them too, no events, nothing at all really. My dorm roommate never leaves, and the rooms cramped.

    Overall I just dont know what to get some girl to do. Randomly approaching and saying "lets hang out in my dorm" is weird. I have no Point A that gets me to Point B.

    I don't have a problem approaching if I have something to invite them to, or am in a social venue . My problem is that for me it's just class, and dorms, that I am ever at. Cant find any events or parties.

    Tips?
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    if you are a musician you can invite her to a open mic night, with you preforming.
    -coffee shops usually have, and then you guys can talk after

    you can go random sarging, the act of meeting random people.
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    make friends first....get into some type of friend circle..from their..u can meet different girls.

    if u come across as a loner on campus..chicks wont talk to u much
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    Originally Posted by _HAL_9000_ View Post
    I just transferred to a new college. Age 21.

    -Dont know anyone at all in school
    -unsocial dorm
    -Not sure how to find parties
    -No social events so far

    I really bored and want some ho to smash.

    How should I go about pullin some chicks? I dont have any parties to invite them too, no events, nothing at all really. My dorm roommate never leaves, and the rooms cramped.

    Overall I just dont know what to get some girl to do. Randomly approaching and saying "lets hang out in my dorm" is weird. I have no Point A that gets me to Point B.

    I don't have a problem approaching if I have something to invite them to, or am in a social venue . My problem is that for me it's just class, and dorms, that I am ever at. Cant find any events or parties.

    Tips?
    WTF is wrong with everyone on here? I'm sick of hearing this ****! how do i get girls..... are you all socially retarded and are you really going to base your decision off of what ppl on the internet tell you. You don't have an FCUK buddy because you don't have any social skills get of the computer and live your life, you fcuking shrek ogar fcuk
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    go to a bar




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    Originally Posted by jump_man23 View Post
    go to a bar




    is it not obvious?
    Age: 18. You are wise young one.


    You are 21 man, hit a bar or something.
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    do you realize how many organizations and clubs are on campus? check your college website and find out about meetings and all that..

    -join some clubs/organizations
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    Originally Posted by Nocturnal310 View Post
    make friends first....get into some type of friend circle..from their..u can meet different girls.

    if u come across as a loner on campus..chicks wont talk to u much
    Trying to make friends, but not enough events to find them. Randomly walking up to people and saying "Do you want to be my friend" will not work. I have nothing to invite anyone to, nothing to get invited to, no way to build a connection.

    Originally Posted by daveleo911 View Post
    WTF is wrong with everyone on here? I'm sick of hearing this ****! how do i get girls..... are you all socially retarded and are you really going to base your decision off of what ppl on the internet tell you. You don't have an FCUK buddy because you don't have any social skills get of the computer and live your life, you fcuking shrek ogar fcuk
    Doesn't really have to do with social skills.

    I just don't have a venue, other than the campus to work in. Problems listed above.

    The thing is, is that even if I did ask a girl to hang out, I have to place to go. I dont know of any parties, my dorm room is small and boring, I dont like being in it. I'm mainly looking for ideas on what i could do.

    Originally Posted by jump_man23 View Post
    go to a bar




    is it not obvious?
    Go to the bar alone? The bars here are college bars where groups of friends go to, I dont want to show up alone and do nothing but drink and creep around.
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    Originally Posted by Poor Excuse View Post
    do you realize how many organizations and clubs are on campus? check your college website and find out about meetings and all that..

    -join some clubs/organizations
    -get involved, meet people, improve social circle
    -find out about parties/gettogethers
    -profit
    -??/
    Trying to find out about parties/get togethers... so far they aren't advertising too well.
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    You're on a bodybuilding site, join the school gym FIRST of all so you can make friends. Second, talk to girls...MAKE reasons to talk to them. I use a smoke during class break as an excuse to talk to girls...get creative. Also, you're 21, go to bars....drag your roommate out and play some pool and network. College is easy just chill .
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    Originally Posted by Nocturnal310 View Post
    make friends first....get into some type of friend circle..from their..u can meet different girls.

    if u come across as a loner on campus..chicks wont talk to u much
    this. make some friends first otherwise if the girl gets to know you and realizes you dont have any friends/social connections then she'll lose respect and become less interested.

    i transferred to my college. i met most of my friends in class. i would just try to start up a conversation about something we have in common (example, im a big soccer fan and a lot of ppl wear soccer jerseys so ill talk to them). then we start talking every class and always sit together then just ask them if they want to chill and get their number that way (no homo).

    if you dont know of a party it doesnt matter, invite the friend or potential girlfriend out to one anyways. its an easy way to get their number. then just text them the day of the "party" and tell them it fell through and is canceled and ask them if they know of anything going on. if they have a decent social network they will know and will bring you to one.

    thats what worked for me. i used the same tactics to meet friends and girls.
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    As far as parties go just ask around in some of your classes. If there are any cute girls in your classes take advantage of study groups. There are so many things on campus that allow you to meet girls. Like some other guys said making a group of friends will only make things easier.

    Also know when to talk to a girl, if she is eye raping you, go talk to her, it doesn't have to be anything profound just something to break the ice.
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