Ask a recent Divorcee, whos wife has moved on anything.....

**RickRoss** · 12-30-2009, 07:57 AM

Originally Posted by avaenterprises

Yup. But at least my kids are getting things right? I'm trying to get them in the divorce, chances are slim to none. But you never know. She probably doesnt want them anyway....

She was a stay at home mom that would take them to day care everyday....

I was blind.

Honestly, I lied, you're kids aren't getting a damn thing. You think $2200 is going to them? Your wife is actually getting $4000 in spousal support.

The only good thing i see is that you don't live in massachusetts. Mass courts will show you the real meaning of child support.

**Tsudo** · 12-30-2009, 07:57 AM

Pictures of ex-wife?

**KidneyBRAH** · 12-30-2009, 07:57 AM

Originally Posted by Dymethazine

reasons im telling my gf right now im not marrying her ever

The child support I dont mind. And the spousal support Im a bit iffy... As long as she continues to pay the mortgage and buy food for my kids, i really dont care. Alimony will probably be thrown out the window in court. She has a degree she could use for work, that i payed for.

And the house will be sold and all monies split....

I have decent representation, im not too scared....

**chargerfn909** · 12-30-2009, 07:57 AM

So lemme get this straight..

You are a 22 year old guy that makes 115k+ and has kid(s), wife left you because she knew she was gonna be able to live offa you for the next 18 years? What is it you do for a living. It's pretty damn uncommon for a 22yo to be making over 100k a year.

**Aggressive** · 12-30-2009, 07:57 AM

Originally Posted by avaenterprises

Shes 3 years older than me, and ive never felt my own age. So i thought the same way.....

Bad thing is we do have kids. 2 Of them..... Ive been married since i was 18..... one of them is 3 the other is 1....

ouch mate, still.. be optimistic and try and make the most of what you got now. New years eve tomorrow. Round up a group of mates and hit town hard and realise what you've been missing

**Human Rocket** · 12-30-2009, 07:58 AM

Two words: Prenuptial Agreement. Bet you get one the next time around...

**momo5** · 12-30-2009, 07:58 AM

Originally Posted by avaenterprises

**** yeah Im mad. He is living in my house, with my kids, and sleeping in my bed. Wouldnt you be mad too?

thats what you get for being a fool. Also pounding your ex wife out , and the kids can hear the screams and the bed bouncing lulz.

**KidneyBRAH** · 12-30-2009, 07:59 AM

Originally Posted by RickRoss

Honestly, I lied, you're kids aren't getting a damn thing. You think $2200 is going to them? Your wife is actually getting $4000 in spousal support.

The only good thing i see is that you don't live in massachusetts. Mass courts will show you the real meaning of child support.

Well as long as she doesnt get them ****, its just easier for me to get them in the long run. she'll slip up. My lawyer has screenshots of her ********, that show her partying etc in the recent weeks.

**chargerfn909** · 12-30-2009, 08:00 AM

Originally Posted by momo5

thats what you get for being a fool. Also pounding your ex wife out , and the kids can hear the screams and the bed bouncing lulz.

harsh

**chargerfn909** · 12-30-2009, 08:00 AM

Originally Posted by avaenterprises

Well as long as she doesnt get them ****, its just easier for me to get them in the long run. she'll slip up. My lawyer has screenshots of her ********, that show her partying etc in the recent weeks.

Whoa whoa whoa!!...Wait a minUte. The lawyer gets to see pics, but THE MISC DOESNT?

**KidneyBRAH** · 12-30-2009, 08:01 AM

Originally Posted by 1monthban

You own an entertainment biz. so you probly meet this bish at the club or one of your gigs. That means she a f uckin skank but you married her anyway. You didnt get a prenup she only wanted you for your money and coolness and now your are seeing that. Your an idiot for getting married soo young and with out a prenup. Now you have to give some skank f uckin whoo bag half the empire that you ****in built. I really dont feel bad because you were smart enough to get this entertainment thing off the ground and saoring but you thought some hot peice off ass that married you only for your money wouldnt enventually take it all. THAT HOW WOMEN ARE!!!!! They are caniving schemeing c unts.

Actually if u read the rest of the thread you wouldnt have made such an ass out of yourself. I got married at 18 after being with her for a year. Met her before I was even out of high school... Started the business at 19. She never went to clubs and **** while we were together.

**KidneyBRAH** · 12-30-2009, 08:02 AM

Originally Posted by chargerfn909

Whoa whoa whoa!!...Wait a minUte. The lawyer gets to see pics, but THE MISC DOESNT?

Cant post pics yet. Under 30 posts. As soon as i can ill let u peek.

**SirTerrythe3rd** · 12-30-2009, 08:02 AM

Originally Posted by avaenterprises

Yup. But at least my kids are getting things right? I'm trying to get them in the divorce, chances are slim to none. But you never know. She probably doesnt want them anyway....

She was a stay at home mom that would take them to day care everyday....

I was blind.

WTF. I thought a stay-at-home-mom, stays at home and takes care of the kids. lolololololol. Be glad you're done with that bitch.

Idle minds do the devil's work. You get someone sitting on their ass all day, they're bound to cook up and rue some terrible shiiit in their head. Next time finda bitch with a career, or at least a plan.

**SpikedDiesel** · 12-30-2009, 08:02 AM

That sucks brah. Spousal support is bull ****. You know you can get an attorney to draw up a written statement that shows what kind of money she could earn with everyday ordinary skills. Even a stay at home mom can earn $30k a year (on paper in a court of law). Look into that and eliminate as much of that spousal support crap as possible.

Edit: Just read your previous post on the topic. Still sucks all the way around.

**Misctify** · 12-30-2009, 08:02 AM

Originally Posted by momo5

thats what you get for being a fool. Also pounding your ex wife out , and the kids can hear the screams and the bed bouncing lulz.

Unnecessary..

**KidneyBRAH** · 12-30-2009, 08:03 AM

Originally Posted by m.bowen

Two words: Prenuptial Agreement. Bet you get one the next time around...

Wish i couldve, and i wouldve. but i married her a week after my 18th birthday. Didnt have **** at the time. Worked my ass off to where I am today.

**Mallard75** · 12-30-2009, 08:03 AM

pics...I see none

**Dan916** · 12-30-2009, 08:04 AM

Age: 22

LOL HAHA

**BO$$** · 12-30-2009, 08:06 AM

married at 18 lol

**Keeptryin** · 12-30-2009, 08:06 AM

Just move on,freakin simple...oh and keep lovin the kids.

**RickRoss** · 12-30-2009, 08:07 AM

Originally Posted by avaenterprises

Well as long as she doesnt get them ****, its just easier for me to get them in the long run. she'll slip up. My lawyer has screenshots of her ********, that show her partying etc in the recent weeks.

Female Judge: Your ex is allowed to have fun.

**KidneyBRAH** · 12-30-2009, 08:07 AM

Originally Posted by SpikedDiesel

That sucks brah. Spousal support is bull ****. You know you can get an attorney to draw up a written statement that shows what kind of money she could earn with everyday ordinary skills. Even a stay at home mom can earn $30k a year (on paper in a court of law). Look into that and eliminate as much of that spousal support crap as possible.

Edit: Just read your previous post on the topic. Still sucks all the way around.

Well she is a licensed RN, I just made enough money for her to not work... Thats what my lawyer is using. The sposal and child support, is just interim for now. Nothing is final..

**SirTerrythe3rd** · 12-30-2009, 08:07 AM

Originally Posted by Keeptryin

Just move on,freakin simple...oh and keep lovin the kids.

sounds about right. I swear women make me raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaage.

**TonyHoliday** · 12-30-2009, 08:08 AM

Originally Posted by Aggressive

Mate, you fell into the same trap loads of guys do. You probably thought she was the one, couldnt imagine yourself with anyone else ever etc etc. I'll tell you the truth, I got engaged with my ex. I was never 100% about it cause of my age, but she pushed it. Thankfully we broke up before it went any further. Now Ive done nothing but realise how close I was to ruining my own life! Im just glad we didnt have kids man, that sh*t wouldve sucked.

Stay single and have fun until you're in your 30's man. Thats the way to go

lol same. My ex pushed so hard for me to find a ring. Then "I was a different person." We fight and break up. 4 days later i see her out with another man. long story short she's with him now and i honestly feel bad for him.

I'm so glad I never married her or had a kid with her. My life would have been ruined

**SirTerrythe3rd** · 12-30-2009, 08:08 AM

Originally Posted by avaenterprises

Well she is a licensed RN, I just made enough money for her to not work... Thats what my lawyer is using. The sposal and child support, is just interim for now. Nothing is final..

oh sheesh. RN, she can get paaaaaid. Tell her to get off her ass and work, that's money right there.

Are you aware that you will be attached to this trifling bitch for the rest of your life. Birthdays, graduations, marriages. My gosh. Makes marriage seem like a crock.

**KidneyBRAH** · 12-30-2009, 08:08 AM

Originally Posted by 1monthban

Maybe I did come off like an ass hole but it pisses me off that she is going to get half your **** and half your biz that I am sure you put your blood sweat and tears in to. I feel bad for you but I also hate that bish....and I dont even know her but I know OF her. know what I'm saying

Its cool man sorry I jumped the gum, im a bit on edge these days.

**LifeByTheHorns** · 12-30-2009, 08:10 AM

Ouch. Like I've always said... there is a woman in every mans life, regardless of how alpha they think they are, that will **** there heads up.

**Mafioso76** · 12-30-2009, 08:10 AM

are u pushing for 50 percent custody?

**KidneyBRAH** · 12-30-2009, 08:10 AM

Originally Posted by SirTerrythe3rd

oh sheesh. RN, she can get paaaaaid. Tell her to get off her ass and work, that's money right there.

Yeah she just doesnt feel like she needs to... YET I have credit card statements, and bank statements that show i paid for her classes and certifications. My lawyer is going for reimbursement. Doesnt think he'll get it, but he said that if we shoot for the stars we'll get the moon. So at least theyll drop the alimony.

**momo5** · 12-30-2009, 08:11 AM

Originally Posted by Misctify

Unnecessary..

I'm just being truthful brah, he shouldnt' have got married and had kids with a whore.

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