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    Would you ever date a girl who cheated on someone in the past?

    An alarming amount of girls I know have cheated at one point in their life. My most recent ex told me after we started dating that she cheated on someone over the summer (Granted, it was on a guy who was trying to get her to break up with him). Still, I don't know how much I could trust someone who has...

    It's sad, but so many women reinforce the, "women are all sluts" stereotype.
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    I dont know cheating is very subjective. Like if a guy is totally in love with his girlfriend, and he thinks his girlfriend is in love with him, but shes having sex with the guy next door, then the what the girl is doing is a horrible thing and should never be excused.

    however, lets say a girl is in a relationship with a guy, and there is no real connection apparent to both people, and then one of them strays, its really not that bad.

    I have been in a girlfriend/boyfriend scenario where I was labeled the boyfriend, however I felt like she was just my fuk-buddy, I didnt consider her anything possible for a future, for love, for anything really just sex; like a friend with benefits. If she cheated on me, I dont think it would have been a big deal, and if i cheated on her like wise, as no real emotional connections were made.

    Basically I think cheating is subjective contigent on the depth of the actual relationship. just because its a "relationship" doesnt deem cheating so horrible, it really depends on the relationship depth.

    While one girl can cheat on a guy and crush his heart, a girl can cheat on a guy, and he'll forget about the girl in an hour and vice versa.
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    What if someone's had, say, five relationships and cheated in one of them? Then they would be 80% non cheater and only 20% cheater. The odds are on your side in that scenario surely.
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    First off i hate cheating whores.. i never cheated on a girl and never will..

    I would beat.. but as far as relationships i think the bish deserve to be whored out for a bit..
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    Nope... everyone has the potential to cheat but with the vast number of Women out there, why would I need/want to settle for a girl who has over stepped that particular line?
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    I would never date this girl. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

    It's really not that hard to either: 1. Break off your relationships with someone before fuking someone else, 2. Tell the person why you feel lonely or unsatisfied and try to work it out, 3. If the relationship is going well and you both have a connection, just learn a little self-control and fuking don't do it!

    It's NOT the hardest thing in the world to tell a guy to fuk off, so if she goes ahead and cheats, she's a fuking slut in my book; and i wouldn't give her an extra minute of my good time.

    I have a hatred for cheaters; guys and girls. It makes me fuking sick.
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    Originally Posted by ev1ld33n View Post
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    with my last ex i ignored the 'cheater" signals...
    before we started dating she was dating this dude... and she cheated on him with me..

    if she will do it to them... whats to stop them from doing it to you?

    also i feel the "love your woman... cause if you dont... someone else will" applys... if shes happy with everything your providing for her... she doesnt have a reason to stray..

    but... women are stupid... and sometimes do irrational things..
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    What if it was you that the girl cheated with in the past?


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    Originally Posted by JoshSP1985 View Post
    What if it was you that the girl cheated with in the past?


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    Thats still cheating. If you stole her away from a guy then be prepared for another guy to come in and do the same to you. It's also probably not going to last because you will always be "that guy" who broke up her last relationship.

    You have to think of the rule which says "Once a cheater. Always a cheater." This comes back to how I say most guys are good at lying outright ("Hey baby. I'm a doctor") while most girls are good about lying to themselves ("I think deep down this is a good guy even though he beats me."). Even if they had several reltionships before that you have to be aware that they now have the ability to lie to themselves. Almost every case where a girl cheated on a guy/friend she had a long explaination of why it was the guy's fault that they would 100% believe.

    My last girlfriend for example told me she had cheated on her one boyfriend but only did because he cheated on her. She also went on and on about how she hated lairs and would never cheat again because she felt bad and hates cheaters etc etc. She ended up cheating on me with a guy she was lying about the whole time. I somewhat wonder what she told people about her suddenly having a new boyfriend after I dumped her because I'm guessing she made up a story to make me out to be the one in the wrong.

    If she has cheated before don't be surprised if/WHEN that happens again. It might not be a couple months in. Heck it could be years down the line after you're married but really that person has established that depending on the situation they are absolutely willing to step over their moral lines.
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    Once a cheater, always a cheater is absolutely true. Not a chance in hell.
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    depends on how HARD they cheated
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    Originally Posted by BartholomewHunt View Post
    Once a cheater, always a cheater is absolutely true. Not a chance in hell.
    Yes exactly. One cheat, forever cheat. Trust is mutually destroyed, unless you can lock her up under surveilance 24/7, but I dont think any gal would consent to that.
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    i dont buy once a cheater always a cheater....if the home cooking is good enough she doesnt have to eat out. maybe her last chef wasnt all that good...
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    Cliffs:
    -No, pending more information.

    There are 3 groups:
    -never and won't cheat
    -hasn't cheated yet but would
    -cheated but will never tell you citing that 'the past is the past and you are insecure if you ask me about my past' even though their past is a good prediction of their future because they don't learn from or care about their mistakes.

    My point is that you can only analyze her character traits as she is now and determine her cheating risk level for the future.
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    There is no yes or no answer to that.

    If a chick cheats on her boyfriend at 21 while she is whoring it up in college doesn't mean she would cheat on her husband at 35. And same with a dude and his wife or serious girlfriend. Every situation is different.

    "once a cheater always a cheater" is an absolutely stupid thing to say.
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    Originally Posted by Messiahtype View Post
    There is no yes or no answer to that.

    If a chick cheats on her boyfriend at 21 while she is whoring it up in college doesn't mean she would cheat on her husband at 35. And same with a dude and his wife or serious girlfriend. Every situation is different.

    "once a cheater always a cheater" is an absolutely stupid thing to say.
    Situations and environments change as you move on through life. When you're in college a young 18 year old hottie will have tons of chances to do people basically coming around every corner. When she is 35, out of college, has kids and her looks are fading she will easily have less opportunities to cheat but that DOESN'T mean she wouldn't. At that age she might have an chance here and there but probably won't risk her meal ticket on a fling that comes by once every couple months. HOWEVER if she still has lots of options available to her and she can take a lot of $ in the divorce then the once a cheater always a cheater can apply. Look at the Dodgers owners wife... http://mlb.fanhouse.com/2009/10/28/d...ugly-divorce/3

    If a girl you're marrying has cheated multiple times then don't think its just a phase that has passed becuase you're married now. With that mindset it will probably be a matter of time before she is banging the poolboy.
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    Ive been cheated on, cheated on someone, and been with a guy that was cheating with me.

    learned from my mistakes in the past, matured alot, and have moved onto a more successful relationship.

    I'll admit it was wrong for me to cheat on the guy, but i was also very naive, immature, and insecure, yet so was he, also a doushbag in many ways, and my mindset was to see if i could change him.....yah it was a recipe for disaster,
    That was 4 years ago and we both understand what went wrong in the relationship
    I vowed i would never do such a thing and will never let my relationship with current bf get that bad.

    also it was very weird being the girl that was with the cheating bf....had no idea he had a gf that he hadnt broken up with yet.
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    you DONT date a girl thats cheated in the past... every single girl in the world is capable of cheating.. there are tons of guys that go after married women.. and they get laid constantly...

    Women are fu cking whores man..
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    Originally Posted by onebigc View Post
    Cliffs:
    -No, pending more information.

    There are 3 groups:
    -never and won't cheat
    -hasn't cheated yet but would
    -cheated but will never tell you citing that 'the past is the past and you are insecure if you ask me about my past' even though their past is a good prediction of their future because they don't learn from or care about their mistakes.

    My point is that you can only analyze her character traits as she is now and determine her cheating risk level for the future.
    What about the people who do learn from their mistakes?

    Originally Posted by Messiahtype View Post
    There is no yes or no answer to that.

    If a chick cheats on her boyfriend at 21 while she is whoring it up in college doesn't mean she would cheat on her husband at 35. And same with a dude and his wife or serious girlfriend. Every situation is different.

    "once a cheater always a cheater" is an absolutely stupid thing to say.
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    The thing I don't understand is people have this mentality that if their partner is lacking in a certain department it gives them the green light to cheat. Why not just tell your partner instead of using it as an excuse to fool around with someone else. Then he/she can try and fix the problem and if not, then each can go their separate ways. Be single if you want to fool around, it is as simple as that.
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    Originally Posted by ezmac31 View Post
    i dont buy once a cheater always a cheater....if the home cooking is good enough she doesnt have to eat out. maybe her last chef wasnt all that good...


    Irrelevant because a girl with stronger character -- if such a thing exists -- would end the relationship.

    Once a cheater, always a cheater. So yes, would smash. No, would not want to engage in anything meaningful.
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    LOL @ the young ones who say they'd never cheat. Never say never.
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