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    How many dates before kissing?! (For the ladies)

    Ok, I know each situation is different. But on average.

    On the 1st date? 2nd? 3rd? Is it time-sensitive?


    Assuming you've known the girl for months but just RECENTLY started dating her.



    When do you ladies and gents think it's perfect time for a kiss? And who should initiate it?
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    First date. I'd be worried if a guy didn't even attempt a kiss on the first date, even if it was just outside my door saying goodnight. If it was a really good date with lots of potential, there would be tongues too.
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    If a guy tries kissing on the first date, ain't that too agressive?
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    Not from my pov. If he doesn't try kissing, then it leaves you wondering whether he likes you or if he's just a pussy, and if he asked if he could kiss me, that would be an instant turn off.
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    Second date that way you don't go in for a kiss and the girl isn't into you and you get turned down. I would think it would be easier to get turned down for future dates than turned down on a kiss, it would be extreamly awkward.

    ETA: Never had a guy try to kiss me on a first date growing up so I don't know how I would personally feel about it if I was in the situation.
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    depends on how much i like the guy but if its alot then prob on the 2nd or 3rd date 1st date is too soon i think for kissing though i dont mind if he tries to hold my hand assuming im into him..
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    Short Answer: It depends...

    If you've never met this girl before 1st date is totally a judgement call if she's really into you and you can tell go for it. If she isn't being real forward you might want to wait till the second but I would NEVER advise going two dates w/o attempting to kiss her. If you don't do it on the first you must do it on the 2nd.

    If you've known this girl for a while lets say she works at your parents work and you've met her a few times and have a relationship (even if it's a fairly distant friendship) a kiss on the first date if things go well seems perfectly fine to me.

    If you guys know each other at all from a time period before that date 1st date is wide open in other words as long as it seemed the date went well.
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    You've got to learn how to read women. If she went out with you, she's at least somehow attracted to you and the thought has definitely crossed her mind. If she's futzing with her hair, leaning forward or sittting/standing closer in at any opportunity, head tilt, etc. chances are she's good to go. Most girls don't make the first move, so you've gotta be able to take the shot.

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    Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore View Post
    Not from my pov. If he doesn't try kissing, then it leaves you wondering whether he likes you or if he's just a pussy, and if he asked if he could kiss me, that would be an instant turn off.
    And thats how you get girls and thats why I never kiss on the first date
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    And thats how you get girls and thats why I never kiss on the first date

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    Originally Posted by ChristianBBer View Post
    And thats how you get girls and thats why I never kiss on the first date
    You can't just not kiss on the first date based off that reasoning alone IMO.
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    The question was directed at the ladies, so you STFU and GTFO
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    Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore View Post
    Not from my pov. If he doesn't try kissing, then it leaves you wondering whether he likes you or if he's just a pussy, and if he asked if he could kiss me, that would be an instant turn off.
    no, some of us might be wondering if she got herps or mono, dont take it personally, jus sayin
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    If she seemed into you, go in for the kill on the first date. If she didn't, then wait until it feels right.

    I'm usually pretty stand offish unless I'm really into a guy... so it should be pretty obvious to a dude whether he has the green light or not. Most do not. lol.

    But as Tiffany said, if a girl is attracted to someone and dude doesn't at least try, it does leave you wondering. It's even worse if you skip the first date kiss and then go by the three day rule. FUUUUUUU. At that point, I write a dude off completely in my mind and don't think about him at all. It's just "Well, that was a fail." At that point, it's usually dead in the water even if he does eventually call.
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    Originally Posted by ChristianBBer View Post
    And thats how you get girls and thats why I never kiss on the first date
    Maybe with some girls... but not me. I don't like not knowing where I stand, and I'm not going to play games. If I'm into a guy, I make it obvious. If he doesn't reciprocate, that's the end of it. If you just want to get your dick wet, fine... but the PUA nonsense is a giant pile of fail if you're looking for a legit relationship with someone who is truly interested in you.

    OP already said he has known this broad for a while. If she's dating him after having gotten to know him, he's past the point for games. She is interested, or she wouldn't have agreed to a date. He can go for the kill whenever it feels right.


    And OP, YOU should initiate it. If you're both waiting for the other to initiate, you may never get there.
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    Who cares OP. Just kiss her whether she likes it or not. If she tries to resist, squeeze her harder and dig your nails into her skin, shake her around a bit, slap, then continue kissing.
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    Is it ok to just tell her at the beginning or at the end of the first date that you won't kiss her on the lips and then give a reason (or not)?

    I imagine that this would completely kill the 'mystery' and 'anticipation' but what about not being a mindless kissing sheep because its the rule or you are a germophobe with strangers etc.
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    fisrt date: she gives you signs to you to go for the kiss. and you dont kiss.


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    Second date that way you don't go in for a kiss and the girl isn't into you and you get turned down. I would think it would be easier to get turned down for future dates than turned down on a kiss, it would be extreamly awkward.

    ETA: Never had a guy try to kiss me on a first date growing up so I don't know how I would personally feel about it if I was in the situation.
    Unless a guy is delusional he should know when it's OK.

    I can tell when it's OK by how the date went, and how the girl looks at me.
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    Body posture is everything, if at the end of the night, the two of you had an awesome time and it's time to say goodnight, the guy should be able to tell by the girls eyes and her smile and if she is leaning into him, then he should lean into her and if the kiss is on the cheek, that's fine, and if it's smack dab on the lips, that's fine too, but if it's any lower than the lips and below the neck--run like hell.

    However, if the girl says, I had a great time and she's leaning in the other direction with one foot toward the door, she in no way wants your lips near her. Walk to your car, don't look back and don't call her, ever. And should she call you, she wants you bad!
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    well if she didnt seem in to you why would she go out on the date with you in the first place?
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    Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore View Post
    Not from my pov. If he doesn't try kissing, then it leaves you wondering whether he likes you or if he's just a pussy, and if he asked if he could kiss me, that would be an instant turn off.
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    Might as well go home and masturbate furiously using your own tears from your epic failure as lubricant.
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    Originally Posted by Dave P View Post
    No kiss on first date = failure.


    Might as well go home and masturbate furiously using your own tears from your epic failure as lubricant.
    i like this mentality
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    Originally Posted by onebigc View Post
    Is it ok to just tell her at the beginning or at the end of the first date that you won't kiss her on the lips and then give a reason (or not)?

    I imagine that this would completely kill the 'mystery' and 'anticipation' but what about not being a mindless kissing sheep because its the rule or you are a germophobe with strangers etc.
    If a guy told me at the start of the date that he wasn't going to kiss me on the lips, I'd have to call it quits and go home. Who wants to be with someone who clearly doesn't want to kiss them? It's pointless.

    And lol at Dave P's comment.
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    Originally Posted by MuscleStuck View Post
    well if she didnt seem in to you why would she go out on the date with you in the first place?
    because my friend, she is a lonely, she wants a free dinner, shes want your attention, give them nothing
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