difference between men and women in terms of being whores (serious)

[Tex24]

I hate my girlfriends friends because they sleep around, hook up with TONS of guys, and brag about it. They laugh and think it's awesome and cool and they love doing it. They're whores, plain and simple.

I explain to my girlfriend that they are everything wrong with women in today's society. Women who sleep around, brag about how many guys they ****, do tons of drugs and get sloppy drunk all the time.

She's asking me why it's okay for men to do that but not women. She says guys sleep with multiple girls and they are praised as a player or whatever, but then women are dirty whores when they do the same thing.

How do you argue this against this?

see serious tag

[pidginduck]

why even argue against a whore? they'll never learn anyways..

[Emoore]

Standard answer is that it's easier for girls to get guys to sleep with them than it is for guys to get girls to sleep with them.

I think culturally it came about because men wanted to make sure they weren't raising other men's kids. Hard to hide it from a woman when she's raising some other woman's kids.

[ranDOMED]

Ive got the same prob right now man. I called her out on it few days ago she was mad. i straight up said its easier for girls to have more partners and get sex. yup she mad

[UberAlles]

its alot easier for girls to get laid than guys

[Tex24]

Originally Posted by UberAlles

its alot easier for girls to get laid than guys

So this makes it acceptable for guys how?

[iewed]

Originally Posted by Tex24

So this makes it acceptable for guys how?

for guys it's a challenge, for women it's "LOL wanna fcuk?" and she spreads her legs.

[Emoore]

Originally Posted by Tex24

So this makes it acceptable for guys how?

See my edit above. I think it's just been deeply ingrained over thousands of years.

[LunicaAshes]

Originally Posted by Emoore

Standard answer is that it's easier for girls to get guys to sleep with them than it is for guys to get girls to sleep with them.

So the easier something is, the less moral it is?

I think culturally it came about because men wanted to make sure they weren't raising other men's kids. Hard to hide it from a woman when she's raising some other woman's kids.

This.

We need to get past this BS. Anyone who sleeps around is slutty. It's a personal decision and everyone will ahve differing views on whether or not that's a bad thing, but it shouldn't be gender specific.

I don't really care if people sleep around, so long as they are safe, but it's not for me. That doesn't make me a superior person to any female that likes to have sex with multiple partners.

[kiddink]

Guys who call girls whores are just jealous cuz they can't bang them.
Girls who call girls whroes are just jealous cuz they don't get any action.
(no white knight, just pimpin')

[LunicaAshes]

Originally Posted by UberAlles

its alot easier for girls to get laid than guys

Originally Posted by iewed

for guys it's a challenge, for women it's "LOL wanna fcuk?" and she spreads her legs.

So you only take part in challenging things, or else you are bad?

How do you get your food?

This reasoning looks more like it points to guys being the whores than anything.

[4thelvofthegme]

everyone knows guys always want sex... women are looked at differently because they are not near as vocal (usually) about it. maybe guys get mad a girls cause were all just jealous were not hittin that...

[Brutotal]

Originally Posted by sheduma

So the easier something is, the less moral it is?

While I don't necessarily agree with it that's generally how morals work.

Don't Cheat for test/sports because it makes it easy.

Work hard don't steal.

Tell the truth even if its easier to lie. etc

[JAGERBOY]

Originally Posted by Tex24

I hate my girlfriends friends because they sleep around, hook up with TONS of guys, and brag about it. They laugh and think it's awesome and cool and they love doing it. They're whores, plain and simple.

She's asking me why it's okay for men to do that but not women. She says guys sleep with multiple girls and they are praised as a player or whatever, but then women are dirty whores when they do the same thing.

How do you argue this against this?

see serious tag

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[LunicaAshes]

Originally Posted by Brutotal

While I don't necessarily agree with it that's generally how morals work.

Don't Cheat for test/sports because it makes it easy.

Work hard don't steal.

Tell the truth even if its easier to lie. etc

I don't see those things as wrong because they are easy. They are wrong because they hurt others or are lies.

Stealing takes away someone else's belongings. Cheating is a lie that makes it so you look like you are capable of hat you are not, and we need to know our workforce is competent. In sports it is a lie that takes away from the other team unfairly.

There are lots of easy things in life, and they are not wrong because of that.

[Supadude]

Biologically men are designed to spread their seed. Get in and get out quick, and fuk many woman to increase the chances that one will result in the passing down of his genetics.

Women, on the other hand are biologically designed to choose a single mate who has the strongest genes. A woman takes on the responsibility/risk of raising a baby for the rest of its child life every time she fuks. By fuking everything that moves it proves that she has inferior intelligence and is willing to take the bottom of the barrel in terms of the gene pool.

This is the logical argument. Good luck explaining it to a whore though.

[UberAlles]

Originally Posted by sheduma

So you only take part in challenging things, or else you are bad?

How do you get your food?

This reasoning looks more like it points to guys being the whores than anything.

well thats usually the moral justification for it. men respect other men who sleep around because its difficult and a sense of accomplishment...like being good at a sport or something.

i personally don't give a **** if my friends, or girls im not in a relationship with wants to sleep around, their decision.

[Mac_xX]

I think you guys are thinking way too much into this.

I couldn't bang any broad i want on any given night.

A chick can bang any guy she wants on any given night.

[LunicaAshes]

Originally Posted by Supadude

Biologically men are designed to spread their seed. Get in and get out quick, and fuk many woman to increase the chances that one will result in the passing down of his genetics.

Women, on the other hand are biologically designed to choose a single mate who has the strongest genes. A woman takes on the responsibility/risk of raising a baby for the rest of its child life every time she fuks. By fuking everything that moves it proves that she has inferior intelligence and is willing to take the bottom of the barrel in terms of the gene pool.

This is the logical argument. Good luck explaining it to a whore though.

Actually, this is not true. Women are just as designed to sleep around, they just have to be more sneaky. In pretty much every "monogamous" species of animal, the female will pair off with a male, have babies with him, then sneak sex with other males. Then her mate raises another male's babies. It's a way to keep the gene pool diverse and healthy.

This is probably why most women want to settle down with a "nice guy," yet they will then fall for the "bad boy." This is how it works in a lot of species - females settle down with a dependable mate, and rogue/wandering males will come around, sexing all the paired up females in the area before continuing on to the next territory. Watch Meerkat Manor, or build a bird house and watch the action.

It is true that they need to be pickier about genetics, but in modern society where we use protection, that isn't a moral issue. By those standards, I'd be immoral for having all the sex I do, even though it's with just one guy, because I could never devote to having a baby every ~9 months.

Originally Posted by UberAlles

well thats usually the moral justification for it. men respect other men who sleep around because its difficult and a sense of accomplishment...like being good at a sport or something.

i personally don't give a **** if my friends, or girls im not in a relationship with wants to sleep around, their decision.

It's people's stupid reasoning, but it has nothing to do with morals, nor does it justify anything.

Good to hear you don't care.

[SpikedDiesel]

It's cuz girls are catchers of the semen. Other guys semen is bad joojoo.

[LunicaAshes]

Originally Posted by Mac_xX

I think you guys are thinking way too much into this.

I couldn't bang any broad i want on any given night.

A chick can bang any guy she wants on any given night.

But that doesn'thave anything to do with being a whore. You would if you could, and I'm sure you do the ones you can... so... how is this a relevant response?

[UberAlles]

Originally Posted by sheduma

Actually, this is not true. Women are just as designed to sleep around, they just have to be more sneaky. In pretty much every "monogamous" species of animal, the female will pair off with a male, have babies with him, then sneak sex with other males. Then her mate raises another male's babies. It's a way to keep the gene pool diverse and healthy.

This is probably why most women want to settle down with a "nice guy," yet they will then fall for the "bad boy." This is how it works in a lot of species - females settle down with a dependable mate, and rougue/wandering males will come around, sexing all the paired up females in the area before continuing on to the next territory. Watch Meerkat Manor, or build a bird house and watch the action.

It is true that they need to be pickier about genetics, but in modern society where we use protection, that isn't a moral issue.



It's people's stupid reasoning, but it has nothing to do with morals, nor does it justify anything.

Good to hear you don't care.

but what does sex have to do with morality?
sex is an act between two consenting individuals. what makes this morally wrong or right? in terms of morality, sex ranks up there with taking a dump and pissing

[BamBam42]

This girl wants to bang me (5/10) but she has already done 3 of my friends and she brags about how many dudes she has boinked I dont wanna be another notch on the belt (serious)

LOL

[LunicaAshes]

Originally Posted by UberAlles

but what does sex have to do with morality?
sex is an act between two consenting individuals. what makes this morally wrong or right? in terms of morality, sex ranks up there with taking a dump and pissing

I don't think any of it is an issue of morals, so long as everyone consents and takes proper precautions to not make someone else sick (or born.) Beyond that, whatever someone wants out of their sex life is fine with me.

Unfortunately, society does not agree.

And it literally ranks with taking a dump and pissing (see Maslow's hierarchy of needs.)

[Dom_88]

I don't give a **** what other guys do. I'm concerned about what women do, and more especially women I may have an interest in. If a woman has a history of opening her legs to everything with a penis, I think twice about her. Likewise, a woman can say whatever the **** she wants about a guy who sleeps around a lot, it's her right and nobody's stopping them. But more likely, she'll sleep with him, feel like ****, then get mad at him and other men, like it's anybody's fault but her own.

[UberAlles]

Originally Posted by sheduma

I don't think any of it is an issue of morals, so long as everyone consents and takes proper precautions to not make someone else sick (or born.) Beyond that, whatever someone wants out of their sex life is fine with me.

Unfortunately, society does not agree.

And it literally ranks with taking a dump and pissing (see Maslow's hierarchy of needs.)

exactly
but really, if you're clean and sleeping around i really don't see how it negatively affects society in any way. religion has morally stigmatized sex

[LunicaAshes]

Originally Posted by Dom_88

I don't give a **** what other guys do. I'm concerned about what women do, and more especially women I may have an interest in. If a woman has a history of opening her legs to everything with a penis, I think twice about her. Likewise, a woman can say whatever the **** she wants about a guy who sleeps around a lot, it's her right and nobody's stopping them. But more likely, she'll sleep with him, feel like ****, then get mad at him and other men, like it's anybody's fault but her own.

Likewise, if you are willing to f*ck anything with a willing vagina, she should be thinking twice about you.

We're talking about whether someone is a whore or not, not what you personally are concerned about.

[LunicaAshes]

Originally Posted by UberAlles

exactly
but really, if you're clean and sleeping around i really don't see how it negatively affects society in any way. religion has morally stigmatized sex

Yep, pretty much. I've been an atheist for nearly 8 years, and still feel like I'm shaking loose some of the remnants of being raised Catholic. Feels bad man.

[neuralshock]

anyone that sleeps with more than 2 people a week on average is a reject

[Dom_88]

Originally Posted by sheduma

Likewise, if you are willing to f*ck anything with a willing vagina, she should be thinking twice about you.

She's more than welcome to. If that means she stops bitching about the thread topic.

We're talking about whether someone is a whore or not, not what you personally are concerned about.

There is no universal or explicit meaning for labelling someone a whore. As such, it's entirely subjective = it's essentially just opinion.