So i finally got over my ex by.......

lord infamous · 11-08-2009, 11:39 AM

Cussing her the fukc out. I was sticking to the no contact rule but it was killing me literally lol. So i decided to shoot a text. I mean i havent bugged her at all n we didnt hate each other so i didnt see the problem. After 3 hours had passed and she hadnt texted me back, i felt really disrespected. I decided to say what i have always wanted to say. Thens she decides to call i ignore saying dont call now bitch u didnt call in the 2 months. She then saids she was fin to call but i started sending all those hate messages. Afterwards like a pussy i did apologize but by me saying that it made me feel way better. Probably cuz i made it to where the what if isnt there by cussing her out. Its also amazing how when your emotions fade u start to see and realize **** u couldnt see cuz of it.

Why would u want to be with someone who dumps you? N im talkin out of the ****in blue. Which i think is selfish cuz u want me to be faithful yet u dive head first out the relationship not even trying to work anything out? Leaving me with nothing but my left hand? I thought she was gonna tell me something different if i scorned her ass but she didnt. Still claims there was no other dude in the picture. Yet the last time we hung out before u dumped me the dude she left to start talkin to me i saw had texted her like wtf? Her phone goes off i look down n see his name. 2 days later i get dumped. I had mentioned that but she said he was one of the reasons we were still together. Saying he explained why my attitude which she didnt like from a mans prospective. I was like o......k. but then as time went on i couldnt help but think that i had saw that text for a reason. Sh!t happens for a reason. Im a believer in that.

I also dont believe females will dump their bf without no backup. Unless cheating etc. I hadnt did anything wrong she just said her feelings isnt as strong as mine. Her life is no worse with me being her bf n no better with me not. Only thing i kept her from doing is talking to other men. I mean it seemed she cared for me as she cried the whole time but to not contact me for 2 months straight? No text no phone call no nothing? I mean i hadnt called either but the ball wasnt in my court. I know she hadnt went no 2+months without penis.

Truth is, if someone care for you they dont dumped you. They also cant go 2+months without seeing u. Later on (im talking at least 6 months) will probably be friends. My feelings for her have been over taking by anger. Technically speaking i still was never ever to prove she left me for someone else and even after calling her a b!tch hoe whore etc. She still says she didnt leave me for another man. I also never then caught her in a lie etc. Oh well all i know is actions speak louder than words.

(No cliffs) Comments?

Kevintensity · 11-08-2009, 11:41 AM

give it a couple months. you really wont give a ****. in my situation I dont

jcl556 · 11-08-2009, 11:42 AM

once you hookup with another girl you'll be set

srs

then move onto another GF, if you feel like it

Tiffany Wantsmore · 11-08-2009, 04:39 PM

Why are you so quick to disbelieve her? Not every girl needs to find another branch before letting go of the first one. Sometimes people's feelings fade, or they realise they're not compatible, or they realise that having a bf who "kept her from talking to other men" isn't someone they want to be with. Not every relationship ends because of cheating, sometimes they just don't work out.

Obviously it infuriated you, and now you feel better, good. Now you can move on and start getting over it, but everyone gets dumped at some point and doesn't know why. You can't always get closure either, or even fully understand why it happened.

stabZ · 11-08-2009, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore

Why are you so quick to disbelieve her? Not every girl needs to find another branch before letting go of the first one. Sometimes people's feelings fade, or they realise they're not compatible, or they realise that having a bf who "kept her from talking to other men" isn't someone they want to be with. Not every relationship ends because of cheating, sometimes they just don't work out.

Obviously it infuriated you, and now you feel better, good. Now you can move on and start getting over it, but everyone gets dumped at some point and doesn't know why. You can't always get closure either, or even fully understand why it happened.

x2 !!

mingo3403 · 11-08-2009, 05:43 PM

who cares if she was fraudin or not, its over now brah. just move on to the next one, whatevever happened happened.

sironous · 11-08-2009, 05:45 PM

crusher_ · 11-08-2009, 06:05 PM

If you were over your ex you wouldn't be texting her out of the blue or abusing her and you definitely wouldn't be starting a thread about her.

contacting her after to months of no contact = fail

abusing her after 2 months = fail

apologising for abusing her = fail

Its cool to not be over your ex it takes time to get over these things and it blows getting shafted out of the blue. A more appropriate title for this thread would have been "Rant about ex bitch!@#$%^&*!!" though..

bballbrett5 · 11-08-2009, 06:15 PM

i see you also live in dallas. is your ex hot?

ha just kiddin man. hopefully you're just over her and move on