ok heres the deal. I am in my mid twenties and i have never had a girlfriend. Recently i have started to crave sex more and more but i have no one to do it with. I have tried everything i can think of and been given tons of advice but i feel like i am stuck.
I dont masturbate because i feel ashamed that i should be getting pussy and I'm not but the urges still keep coming back. Is there anything I can do to control these urges because its not doing me any good?
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11-04-2009, 02:55 PM #1Registered User
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11-04-2009, 02:57 PM #2Fabulous!
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Why do you feel you have to control your urges? Sexual urges are completely normal, as is masturbation. Even guys who regularly get sex still masturbate. You'll feel better physically if you do.
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11-04-2009, 03:06 PM #3Registered User
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I'm just the average bloke. Not fat, not ugly, not brad pitt but average. I do look a bit young and that doesnt help but its getting silly trying to chat up girls now. What was I thinking going up to strangers and trying to sleep with them. The bottom line is I dont believe urges are normal if i cant have sex so there has to be a way to take the edge off.Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore
Its not masturbation i want so it makes me ashamed to do it.
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11-04-2009, 03:08 PM #4It's on for life. U Mad?
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my troll radar just went off the charts.
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11-04-2009, 04:03 PM #5Registered User
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any help please? ignore the post above.
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11-04-2009, 04:19 PM #6Zyzz...
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so you just want sex? theres places for that foo.
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11-04-2009, 04:21 PM #7Registered User
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Originally Posted by CH4N8
dont make fun of me, I've had tons of smart ass comments.
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11-04-2009, 04:58 PM #8Registered User
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If you're this messed up about your urges, whats the point of having a girl then? You need to become comfortable with your own sexuality before you start dating
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11-04-2009, 05:12 PM #9Registered User
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how am i meesed up about my urges? I am comfortable with my sexuality. I am in my mid twenties and I've never had a girl. It's hopeless and I have seriously given up looking.
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11-04-2009, 05:13 PM #10Registered User
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If you won't even fap then you're messed up about your urges. You're not a 12 year-old whose Sunday school teacher tells you Jesus thinks its bad to masturbate, you're a grown man.Originally Posted by buju
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11-04-2009, 05:20 PM #11Registered User
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This isn't helping me mate. Whats your point?Originally Posted by Jedan01
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11-04-2009, 06:18 PM #12Peace Sign
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Sorry, it's biologically wired into your brain to reproduce as much as possible. Not much you can do other than try to ignore it.
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11-04-2009, 06:37 PM #13Registered User
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are you in college
if not, this will be a tough cookie
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11-04-2009, 07:46 PM #14Registered User
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seriously? yeh thats what i thought.(No I'm not in college). But there must be many people who arent at college doesnt mean they are all in my position.Originally Posted by jcl556
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11-04-2009, 08:07 PM #15Banned
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your 25 and virgin?
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11-04-2009, 08:10 PM #16Registered User
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yeh, so what? big deal.Originally Posted by benzz
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11-04-2009, 08:15 PM #17Banned
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uhm... yes, very big deal manOriginally Posted by buju
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11-04-2009, 08:20 PM #18Registered User
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not to me it's not.Originally Posted by benzz
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11-05-2009, 09:16 AM #19Fabulous!
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Masturbation is what takes the edge off being horny tho ...Originally Posted by buju
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11-05-2009, 09:18 AM #20chang ma lae
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Dude, I've jacked it twice since I've been here.
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11-05-2009, 11:29 AM #21Registered User
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can anybody help me? i am stuck.
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11-05-2009, 11:36 AM #22Registered User
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So are you looking for advice on getting laid or advice on stopping to feel sexual urge? If it's the latter then there's no solution bro, either you take care of business or live with it. Unless you're interested in getting neutered.
Gotta work, gotta learn...
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11-05-2009, 12:01 PM #23Registered User
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i dont really want advice because it never helps. I just want to feel good about myself and have girls.
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11-05-2009, 03:34 PM #24Registered User
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pics or your ugly.. even ugly people lose their virginity before 25.
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I'm not ugly I'm average. I would even say good looking but I don't want to be big headed.Originally Posted by soccer10stud
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11-05-2009, 06:28 PM #26$1.05
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trolling....
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