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Omfg!!! Rage!!!
I created a thread a few days ago about my ex wanting top get back together with me. I buckled and fell for it (yes still love her, it's been 6 weeks since break up from a 2 year relationship). I walked in on her ****ing my friend. Beat the crap out of my "friend" and left. I Just can't believe after all this, i was doing so well i thought i forgot about her, moved on. Ditched a possible relationship with another girl, drove to a different city to see her after the numerous calls, texts, emails she sent me begging for me back and had that happen... I'm not depressed, i'm not sad - I just feel bitter, cold, silent. I'm literally hard as rock. I completely understand those of you now who are like this, Who used to point at me and say gentlemen or White Knight. **** Women. I will never let my heart get involved in anything again.
for those of you that are the Gentlemen type, let me give you an idea of what this was. in cliff form.
- Lost virginity to each other (church girl)
- Were great, never fought, Came to you UT (austin) she goes to Houston (distance)
- Made up for distance with Flowers every monday, driving down every weekend, Dates at lest once a week, Presents all the time, etc.
- Couldn;t handle distance and broke up with me, fell for another guy.
- Came crawling back
-the above.
This may be an exception, but it happens. Be careful. I doubt i will ever love again, and not for a long time if so.
Learn through this.
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11-04-2009, 08:58 AM
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she is dead to you now.
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11-04-2009, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Basil08
I created a thread a few days ago about my ex wanting top get back together with me. I buckled and fell for it (yes still love her, it's been 6 weeks since break up from a 2 year relationship). I walked in on her ****ing my friend. Beat the crap out of my "friend" and left. I Just can't believe after all this, i was doing so well i thought i forgot about her, moved on. Ditched a possible relationship with another girl, drove to a different city to see her after the numerous calls, texts, emails she sent me begging for me back and had that happen... I'm not depressed, i'm not sad - I just feel bitter, cold, silent. I'm literally hard as rock. I completely understand those of you now who are like this, Who used to point at me and say gentlemen or White Knight. **** Women. I will never let my heart get involved in anything again.
for those of you that are the Gentlemen type, let me give you an idea of what this was. in cliff form.
- Lost virginity to each other (church girl)
- Were great, never fought, Came to you UT (austin) she goes to Houston (distance)
- Made up for distance with Flowers every monday, driving down every weekend, Dates at lest once a week, Presents all the time, etc.
- Couldn;t handle distance and broke up with me, fell for another guy.
- Came crawling back
-the above.
This may be an exception, but it happens. Be careful. I doubt i will ever love again, and not for a long time if so.
Learn through this.
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Probably not even an exception, hence disregarding females and acquiring currency.
Also you had a ****ty friend.
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11-04-2009, 09:01 AM
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You now have two less people to have to remember. Forget both of them and dont look back. Both are worthless peices of ****.
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11-04-2009, 09:10 AM
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You'll love again brah, your just pissed (rightfully so). Don't go out looking for the next girlfriend and one day you'll realize you're in a happy relationship again. Good luck brah. (In the mean time go buy a hooker  )
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11-04-2009, 10:15 AM
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i cant get my friends to **** my girl.... some friends.
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11-04-2009, 10:52 AM
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i cant get my friends to **** my girl.... some friends.
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11-04-2009, 11:03 AM
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that reads exactly as i mean it... i cant get them to do it for me.
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11-04-2009, 12:02 PM
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She is literally Nothing to me now. I'll use hate as my fuel for workouts. I have never felt something like this before. I honestly hope this never happens to anyone.
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11-04-2009, 12:05 PM
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She is literally Nothing to me now. I'll use hate as my fuel for workouts. I have never felt something like this before. I honestly hope this never happens to anyone.
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Cut off all ties to her, delete her number NEVER EVER under any circumstances talk to her again. If she texts or calls you dont pick up, delete said texts and VM's ohh and post her nudes for the misc
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11-04-2009, 12:06 PM
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You now have two less people to have to remember. Forget both of them and dont look back. Both are worthless peices of ****.
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11-04-2009, 12:20 PM
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that totally sucks man. But you're young and you will definitely love again (no homo)
You'll just be a bit more guarded. We start off young so idealistic and it does go away to a certain point but I've felt how you do before and then the fell for the next serious gf harder than the first and so on.
So don't worry about the future for now.
But if you can, tell us more about what happened. What did she say at the moment? Has your ex friend or her called you back yet? Details man!
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11-04-2009, 12:22 PM
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Cut off all ties to her, delete her number NEVER EVER under any circumstances talk to her again. If she texts or calls you dont pick up, delete said texts and VM's ohh and post her nudes for the misc
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I did, well except the nudes. F her, i'm not stooping to some crap level. she has texted me 7 times, called me 19 times, and left 3 VM so far. I just ignored them. Funny, hte VM went from sad/sorry - then i hate you ass***/after everything you wont even talk to me - then sorry again.
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11-04-2009, 12:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Sicshift
that totally sucks man. But you're young and you will definitely love again (no homo)
You'll just be a bit more guarded. We start off young so idealistic and it does go away to a certain point but I've felt how you do before and then the fell for the next serious gf harder than the first and so on.
So don't worry about the future for now.
But if you can, tell us more about what happened. What did she say at the moment? Has your ex friend or her called you back yet? Details man!
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My "friend" is deeply ashamed and didn't press charges (i broke his nose and jaw). She's been trying everything to get to me. They didn't have "sex" but they were getting there (down to their underwear).
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11-04-2009, 12:25 PM
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Probably not even an exception, hence disregarding females and acquiring currency.
Also you had a ****ty friend.
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This....M.O.B.
Also, I do not condone violence against women at all.....but if that were me.....I'd have ****ed that bitch up!
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11-04-2009, 12:27 PM
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This....M.O.B.
Also, I do not condone violence against women at all.....but if that were me.....I'd have ****ed that bitch up!
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I didn't touch her (i would never hit a girl). I just stared into her eyes for a few seconds after i put my friend down. Then left.
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11-04-2009, 12:27 PM
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my 18th bday i found out my higschool sweetheart had ****ed some other dude. we had been broke up for about a month but were still ****ing and all that ****.
that **** fueled me to be the man i am today. 100 bitches and a couple hundred grand later.... im hard on hoes and i love it.
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11-04-2009, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Al_Pal
my 18th bday i found out my higschool sweetheart had ****ed some other dude. we had been broke up for about a month but were still ****ing and all that ****.
that **** fueled me to be the man i am today. 100 bitches and a couple hundred grand later.... im hard on hoes and i love it.
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That's awesome. How long did it take to recovery from it though?
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11-04-2009, 12:39 PM
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That's why i rarely spoil or give in to girls. Although i've been dumped once for another guy i think he's actually the rebound guy considering we faught alot.
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my problem is the bitch that tore my heart out and into a million pieces after 2.5 years and she had an abortion that I did not want and cancelling the wedding 3 months out and banging a dude 2 weeks after doing that ... is that she owes me about $627 and I want my money so I have to keep in contact sometimes so I can recover the cash
other than that I don't contact her at all.
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my problem is the bitch that tore my heart out and into a million pieces after 2.5 years and she had an abortion that I did not want and cancelling the wedding 3 months out and banging a dude 2 weeks after doing that ... is that she owes me about $627 and I want my money so I have to keep in contact sometimes so I can recover the cash
other than that I don't contact her at all.
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Dude, after all that... 600 bucks is nothing. Just forget about it and move on. It's not worth it for such a small amount.
I had an ex owe me 3000 and I hung on for that, but for 600, just forget about it and enjoy life.
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I created a thread a few days ago about my ex wanting top get back together with me. I buckled and fell for it (yes still love her, it's been 6 weeks since break up from a 2 year relationship). I walked in on her ****ing my friend. Beat the crap out of my "friend" and left. I Just can't believe after all this, i was doing so well i thought i forgot about her, moved on. Ditched a possible relationship with another girl, drove to a different city to see her after the numerous calls, texts, emails she sent me begging for me back and had that happen... I'm not depressed, i'm not sad - I just feel bitter, cold, silent. I'm literally hard as rock. I completely understand those of you now who are like this, Who used to point at me and say gentlemen or White Knight. **** Women. I will never let my heart get involved in anything again.
for those of you that are the Gentlemen type, let me give you an idea of what this was. in cliff form.
- Lost virginity to each other (church girl)
- Were great, never fought, Came to you UT (austin) she goes to Houston (distance)
- Made up for distance with Flowers every monday, driving down every weekend, Dates at lest once a week, Presents all the time, etc.
- Couldn;t handle distance and broke up with me, fell for another guy.
- Came crawling back
-the above.
This may be an exception, but it happens. Be careful. I doubt i will ever love again, and not for a long time if so.
Learn through this.
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you have no reason to ever talk to that whore again. id sleep with as many people close to her as possible. or atleast the close friend. or nail one of your friends woman. the guy she was sleeping with.
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I know EXACTLY how you feel. I was in a similar situation but the "relationship" lasted nowhere as long. Chick wanted me to hang out with her, dance and maybe we'll "get back together". I take her to a club and she picks up a dude and starts making out with him in front of me. I've NEVER been as pissed as that time. Was literally fuming for like 2 weeks and I'm a really mellow guy.
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Originally Posted by Al_Pal
my 18th bday i found out my higschool sweetheart had ****ed some other dude. we had been broke up for about a month but were still ****ing and all that ****.
that **** fueled me to be the man i am today. 100 bitches and a couple hundred grand later.... im hard on hoes and i love it.
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Had a similar experience - that crap can tear you up inside. Sorry to hear about your pain mang.
Pussy isn't worth breaking your friends heart over. If you think it is, you're probably an *******.
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I really hate this girl. Anyways, I'm going to get in the best shape of my life, make her want me as much as possible, and when it happens - simply say No.
I would sleep with her best friend but i now know what that feels like and honestly can't inflict that kind of pain on another, even her.
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hate to say it, but its your own fault. you let her reel you back in even though you should have stayed broken up. bad things always happen in this case.
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she goes to Houston (distance)
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I see your problem. So how is your social life at UT, given that you have been putting all your energy into her? Don't worry brah, it should be easy to pick things up, it's college.
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Originally Posted by Al_Pal
my 18th bday i found out my higschool sweetheart had ****ed some other dude. we had been broke up for about a month but were still ****ing and all that ****.
that **** fueled me to be the man i am today. 100 bitches and a couple hundred grand later.... im hard on hoes and i love it.
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have had a similar expierence.
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That's awesome. How long did it take to recovery from it though?
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approximately 3 months and that was a 6 year relationship/marriage. i was fcking other women within 2 weeks but i wasnt really over it until a number of different things happened.
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I see your problem. So how is your social life at UT, given that you have been putting all your energy into her? Don't worry brah, it should be easy to pick things up, it's college.
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Horrible, although i did just have a girl as me out on a date for saturday?? Will update if misc wants it.
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