Dreaming of ex-gf

mrkdrt · 11-01-2009, 11:46 AM

Question for the RH and Freuds within:

In like the past week, I've had at least 4 vivid dreams that involve my ex-gf (as of a couple months ago). I am in them too, and am happy in the dreams. The thing is, the activities/scenery in the dreams are all brand new, like places I've NEVER seen before, let alone when we were a couple. We are talking, laughing, having fun (but we don't IRL).

Nothings going on with the ex IRL, but yea, her thought crosses my mind once in a while. Esp. when I'm with other girls.

Looking for perspective if anyone can help. Not really looking for a full psycho-analysis of this, just found it strange and thought I'd share.

What's up with this? Does this just mean I'm not over her?

Dystopian · 11-01-2009, 11:50 AM

well.

Ones brain and mind is non-explainable sometimes and I dream weird stuff too, however, that does not mean it actually means something. I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago or so, and the weeks after I constantly dreamed about her. Good and bad dreams.

So I don't think you should overanalyze this stuff tbh. Each time I hooked up with her again it turned out bad and I am together with her again now, and it is ****ed up.

StalinX · 11-01-2009, 11:53 AM

most of the time your brain likes to make up crazy stories that never come true...but sometimes they invent stories up that are true...take me for example:

- 1st month of getting involved with this girl
- dreamed that ex was cheating (3 separate dreams)
- i had no evidence or any hint of her cheating
- find out 6 months later that she was a cheating liar / total whore since day 1

I learned my lesson, sometimes you just gotta listen to your dreams

overall, your dream could go both ways....but most likely **** wont happen again with the ex and end well

mrkdrt · 11-01-2009, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Dystopian

So I don't think you should overanalyze this stuff tbh. .

Oh yeah. I'm not trying to find a hidden answer, just was looking for any feedback/experience with this.

But, you just think that it's just another dream?

J.O.N · 11-01-2009, 12:14 PM

Dreams are meaningless

Valjean · 11-01-2009, 01:12 PM

http://wetdreamforum.com/

I can't believe I just posted that link.

PowerD · 11-01-2009, 01:24 PM

I still have dreams about ex's. If you are in a relationship, you're constantly using experience with past gf's to guide you in what signs to look for, and what not to do. So it's a given that they'll be in your dreams from time to time, because dreams are what your mind uses to figure out problems.

Moof · 11-01-2009, 01:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by StalinX

most of the time your brain likes to make up crazy stories that never come true...but sometimes they invent stories up that are true...take me for example:

- 1st month of getting involved with this girl
- dreamed that ex was cheating (3 separate dreams)
- i had no evidence or any hint of her cheating
- find out 6 months later that she was a cheating liar / total whore since day 1

I learned my lesson, sometimes you just gotta listen to your dreams

overall, your dream could go both ways....but most likely **** wont happen again with the ex and end well

To be honest, it's kind of scary that a guy would trust his dreams like that. This was a coincidence. If you have a dream about a girl cheating on you, and it bothers you, you should talk about it, but not assume it's true. That kind of thinking can backfire really bad.