any other miscers in the same boat? there was a lot i didnt like about my first college: poor academic standards, middle of nowhere, small, and all the girls were beat. but one thing that was great, the group of friends i met being a freshman in the dorms.
so i transferred to my current school which is a nice school. ive met several people in classes and in academic clubs that i will eat lunch with etc but they are all casual friends. my roomates are nice but they have a completely different personality from me. tonight, i spent my night calling people that im not very close to. got lots of weird vague responses about parties and stuff like they weren't overjoyed (to say the least) to have me come with them. felt like a parasite asking to tag along...
at my first school, i met 2 best friends and had several other close friends but here, i dont have anything close to a best friend. ****ing sucks not having someone that you can rely on no matter what to help you out and chill with you. all my friends i have here i met in classes and clubs so its not a group at all, just people scattered here and there.
any other transfer miscers out there? if so, how did you get over this? i dont want to play a club sport cause i want to dedicate my exercise to lifting. i am in two academic clubs but im not too passionate about them. frats aren't big here at all but im now seriously considering joining one in January when they have rush even though im not too into that either.
feels bad man....