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10-29-2009, 10:23 PM
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so my ex's boyfriend.. looking for opinions
I dated a girl for 2 years. She goes to college, we go our seperate ways..
Her current boyfriend sends me a friend request on facebook, never met the kid in my life before.
What would you say? Or would you ignore or accept the request?
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10-29-2009, 10:30 PM
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I'd accept it, if he means trouble then put him in his place, if he doesn't.. Then just be a better man, it's really no skin off your back that you accept him or not, so you're just showing that you're mature and a good guy.
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10-29-2009, 10:33 PM
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well.. in before pics wanted.
And i said "What the **** you trying to be my friend for ***get? your not my friend"
Edit: Just wanted to see what the t-misc would do
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10-29-2009, 10:34 PM
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say this
"Stats: 3'3", 76 lbs"
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10-29-2009, 10:35 PM
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say this
"Stats: 3'3", 76 lbs"
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o hai
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10-29-2009, 10:37 PM
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probably wants to be creepin on your facebook checkin pics out and ****
and will be sorely dissapoint and feel very insecure when he finds out you have a better physique (no homo)
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10-29-2009, 10:38 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Str8Rippin
well.. in before pics wanted.
And i said "What the **** you trying to be my friend for ***get? your not my friend"
Edit: Just wanted to see what the t-misc would do
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lol that line makes u sounds like a little b*tch thats not over the girl.
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10-29-2009, 10:38 PM
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he is simply jealous, I would of accepted and took it as a compliment.
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10-29-2009, 10:43 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by U-MAD-BRAH
say this
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o hai
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Originally Posted by Iamreallyfat
probably wants to be creepin on your facebook checkin pics out and ****
and will be sorely dissapoint and feel very insecure when he finds out you have a better physique (no homo)
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Thats what i was thinking
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Originally Posted by GLHF
lol that line makes u sounds like a little b*tch thats not over the girl.
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You really think so?(srs) Just dont understand why he would want to add me. May have been over the top, but meh.. damage is done i guess?
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he is simply jealous, I would of accepted and took it as a compliment.
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Haha, i know he's a jealous guy.. but idk about accepting it. no point
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10-29-2009, 10:55 PM
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He wants to compare himself to you. There's really no other reason.
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10-29-2009, 11:08 PM
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Originally Posted by GLHF
lol that line makes u sounds like a little b*tch thats not over the girl.
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Actually, when i think about it, your right lol. Prolly shouldnt have done that, but oh well. Cant take it back and im definately not about to send a message saying sorry. What would you say?
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He wants to compare himself to you. There's really no other reason.
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Yeah i see what you mean.. What would you do?
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10-29-2009, 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Str8Rippin
Actually, when i think about it, your right lol. Prolly shouldnt have done that, but oh well. Cant take it back and im definately not about to send a message saying sorry. What would you say?
Yeah i see what you mean.. What would you do?
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send a message back being like i was just messing with you dude or somethin
i would personally just add him and forget it, confidence in the fact that you are better than him, plus if you split cause she was off to college whats the hate towards him?
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10-29-2009, 11:15 PM
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Should you ever meet him...
1. With palm down, curl fingers in tightly
2. Pull arm back
3. Thrust arm forward rapidly into his teeth
4. ????
5. PROFIT!!!
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10-29-2009, 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Andyg37
send a message back being like i was just messing with you dude or somethin
i would personally just add him and forget it, confidence in the fact that you are better than him, plus if you split cause she was off to college whats the hate towards him?
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i actually dont really hate him.. i dont know him.. and there was actually nothing wrong with our relationship, and i know this is a rocky one.. Her best friend doesnt approve lol. She said she thinks he's a creep too. I was just buzzed and with my boys, and saw it and felt like lulling. may do this
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10-29-2009, 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Str8Rippin
Yeah i see what you mean.. What would you do?
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Umm I probably would have texted my ex and asked her why the fuk her boyfriend wants to be friends on facebook.
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10-29-2009, 11:16 PM
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Should you ever meet him...
1. With palm down, curl fingers in tightly
2. Pull arm back
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i would, but i doubt ill meet him really. But if he was tryin to piss me off or something should i be around him, this would happen quickly
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10-29-2009, 11:17 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Str8Rippin
well.. in before pics wanted.
And i said "What the **** you trying to be my friend for ***get? your not my friend"
Edit: Just wanted to see what the t-misc would do
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ask him what sloppy 2nds are like.
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10-29-2009, 11:17 PM
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Umm I probably would have texted my ex and asked her why the fuk her boyfriend wants to be friends on facebook.
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hmm.. maybe tommorow. good thought though. I doubt she knows about it. Who does that anyways lol?
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10-29-2009, 11:21 PM
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hmm.. maybe tommorow. good thought though. I doubt she knows about it. Who does that anyways lol?
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I have no clue. I haven't even thought about adding my girlfriends ex, there's no point lol.
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10-29-2009, 11:22 PM
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I have no clue. I haven't even thought about adding my girlfriends ex, there's no point lol.
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exactly, and when you dont even know them. I can understand if i knew the guy.. i wouldnt care. But the dude has never seen me or heard of me until he met my ex lol
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10-29-2009, 11:24 PM
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exactly, and when you dont even know them. I can understand if i knew the guy.. i wouldnt care. But the dude has never seen me or heard of me until he met my ex lol
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Maybe he's sick of her and wants your nuts? Its possible
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10-29-2009, 11:27 PM
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Maybe he's sick of her and wants your nuts? Its possible
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haha idk mang.. its whatev i guess. Just wanted to see what some people would say. And im not sure if ill send a 2nd message yet or not, or accept it or not.. its chillen in my friend requests
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10-29-2009, 11:34 PM
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its facebook brah, its not like hes wantin to hang out with you
i'd accept it, especially if you and your girl didn't end on bad terms or anything its not an act of trying to piss you off
i've added my ex's new boyfriends before, just gotta be chill about it
she most likely told him that you were one of her best friends and he decided to add you because of that and be friendly to her "guy friends"
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up to you man, i personaly add anyone who adds me if i have a possible relation with them at all. i personally dont see it as a big deal but i can see how you would be taken back by a random add from your ex's new boyfriend. if he got malicious, then id become a dick, until then oh well. guess it doesnt really matter either way what you do but this is just an option, if you decline it he can talk **** and say your a pussy and wont even accept him. not saying that will happen or hes that way, its just an obvious option
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10-29-2009, 11:37 PM
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its facebook brah, its not like hes wantin to hang out with you
i'd accept it, especially if you and your girl didn't end on bad terms or anything its not an act of trying to piss you off
i've added my ex's new boyfriends before, just gotta be chill about it
she most likely told him that you were one of her best friends and he decided to add you because of that and be friendly to her "guy friends"
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up to you man, i personaly add anyone who adds me if i have a possible relation with them at all. i personally dont see it as a big deal but i can see how you would be taken back by a random add from your ex's new boyfriend. if he got malicious, then id become a dick, until then oh well. guess it doesnt really matter either way what you do but this is just an option, if you decline it he can talk **** and say your a pussy and wont even accept him. not saying that will happen or hes that way, its just an obvious option
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Thanks guys. had me trippin for a second actually haha. But whats a good way to send a second message or w/e without sounding like a puss, sending that first message?
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Subject: Hey
haha my bad bro i just got in and was buzzin a bit, i was just messing with ya, ignore that last message
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10-29-2009, 11:40 PM
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haha my bad bro i just got in and was buzzin a bit, i was just messing with ya, ignore that last message
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"Haha just messing with you man"
might just say that
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that works too, gl bro bed time for me
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that works too, gl bro bed time for me
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thanks bro.. i need to look into your journal
edit: Do you have a journal?
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10-29-2009, 11:42 PM
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lol i dont keep it anymore, i fail at logs, not really 114lbs if thats what your thinking and i move stuff thats 3x bw
ill look at yours though
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