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10-27-2009, 08:23 PM
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Misc. my game is rusty as hell (help)
So i've had a gf for 2+ years (2 years of my life = down the toilet) and i'm VERY rusty with trying to pick up girls. So a couple questions...
Those of you coming off relationships or whatever and find your game a bit rusty, how do you get back into things?
I get stares and smiles all the time in the gym but NEVER act on them. i dont know how to strike up conversation in a gym; i was never very good at this. any tips?
prior to my relationship i would basically just go up to a girl, introduce myself, and make small talk. but now i'm so nervous and i dont know what to do/say/when to say, "can i get your number?". I've lost my talent 
serious replies are greatly appreciated and will result in reps
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10-27-2009, 08:26 PM
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10-27-2009, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted by jonnyperoni
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i dont even wear sunglasses during the day.
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10-27-2009, 08:52 PM
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10-27-2009, 08:57 PM
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Cutting. Feels bad man.
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just be yourself brah. be smooth and be a bit of a jerk; chicks dig the guy who 'doesn't care'. just go up to a girl, talk with a grin that looks like 'I got something I'm not going to tell you' but don't act like you're too into her, it'll play on her insecurities and she'll throw herself at your feet just so you'll like her more.
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10-27-2009, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Naughty_Roo
just be yourself brah. be smooth and be a bit of a jerk; chicks dig the guy who 'doesn't care'. just go up to a girl, talk with a grin that looks like 'I got something I'm not going to tell you' but don't act like you're too into her, it'll play on her insecurities and she'll throw herself at your feet just so you'll like her more.
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i neverrr act like i'm in to a girl. i dont like to give them the satisfaction haha
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10-27-2009, 09:21 PM
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Cutting. Feels bad man.
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i neverrr act like i'm in to a girl. i dont like to give them the satisfaction haha
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then you're all set brah. just be yourself and don't be nervous. you can do this by imagining them naked. at least I do it that way
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10-27-2009, 09:23 PM
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ive been getting rusty lately too. Today on the way back from the gym I was next to a car full of girls and they were dancing along to my music and were saying hey and stuff and I didn't do anything. FFFFFFFUUUUUUU I freeze up so easily out of school/parties.
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10-27-2009, 09:24 PM
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You look like you're in pretty decent shape so you shouldn't have a whole lot of trouble. Just wear some tighter shirts and get some small talk going. If they like the possibility, they're going to put some effort in themselves.
At least, makes sense to me. I've never been an all-star either.
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10-27-2009, 09:26 PM
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Try going to a club or something, the atmosphere there is generally really social, and is best for just randomly talking to chicks.
Serioulsy dude just be confident with whatever you say, and try to be cocky/funny.
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10-27-2009, 09:29 PM
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i hear ya there, i had a girl from 10th till freshman of college so i lost all my highschool game. the best thing is to just say hi to every girl. practise on the fattys/ugs if u are too nervous with decent lookin chicks. but just talk. and eventually youll get back in the game
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10-27-2009, 09:43 PM
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A few things:
- Breaking the ice is half the battle
- Have a game plan in your head but don't over-analyze it
- It's only awkward if you make it awkward
- If you get shut down, who cares, its a numbers game
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10-27-2009, 09:48 PM
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talking to people is a lot easier than running game.
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10-27-2009, 09:53 PM
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i just got out of a 7 month relationship and my game is on target now
just gotta be witty and know what to say and use different voice tones. Know when to smile at the right times
be confident and find clues they throw out in conversation and take the conversation from there
if your lookin for a fuk and nothing more, be a little more sexually upfront with sexual innuendos and such. Usually its not as detrimental if u lose her fast cuz shes some dumb slut you dont care about
if your lookin for a girlfriend/fuk buddy/someone to chill with, dont up as up front when lookin for a quick fuk just chill and make her laugh and feel comfortable around you
im in a pretty chill mood anyone hit me up if you need some advise
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10-27-2009, 09:57 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by bov188
i dont even wear sunglasses during the day.
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start then lol...give looks back to them and smile...if they are doing cardio go on the treadmill beside them and say hi and that will usually kick it off
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10-27-2009, 10:08 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by bov188
i dont even wear sunglasses during the day.
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made me lol
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