Guys flirting with your girl? (reps)

willoughby · 10-26-2009, 09:50 PM

How would you deal with a guy flirting, touching, etc with your girl when he knows she's dating you?

This little dick weed has been flirting, touching, tells her to dump me for him, and won't leave her alone, she's told him about me, and to quit, but he continues to do it.

Usually i'd just punk the person out and be done with it, but i'm on probation, and i have a temper, what would be the best way to deal with said situation?

CelticBhoy · 10-26-2009, 09:55 PM

It's called your girl handling the situation.

Look, guys (especially ones who don't know you, aren't friends, etc.) can give two ****s if she has a boyfriend. If she has a hard time saying no or invites the guy to continue with the BS, then that's entirely on her.

It's her battle. She has to quickly and effectively let it be known that she's not only off-limits, but that she's completely uninterested.

With that being said...you also need to not care. Sorry, I know...you're 17. Believe me, this is nothing to even worry about...IF your girl handles it correctly. Because it's her battle.

avp689 · 10-26-2009, 09:55 PM

punk him out just dont get in a fight...

xJustin · 10-26-2009, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by CelticBhoy

It's called your girl handling the situation.

Look, guys (especially ones who don't know you, aren't friends, etc.) can give two ****s if she has a boyfriend. If she has a hard time saying no or invites the guy to continue with the BS, then that's entirely on her.

It's her battle. She has to quickly and effectively let it be known that she's not only off-limits, but that she's completely uninterested.

With that being said...you also need to not care. Sorry, I know...you're 17. Believe me, this is nothing to even worry about...IF your girl handles it correctly. Because it's her battle.

believe it or not, but girls have a similar gut level response to a man who knows what hes doing similar to the gut response of a guy when he sees a hot girl dressed up all sexy. They can't help but feel like they wanna **** the **** outta them, and you can only hope that your girl doesnt follow through with her gut level attraction to the guy

ImBoutMyBusines · 10-26-2009, 09:59 PM

I think moreso than it being about the girl, it's about the dude testing your manhood. I would trust my girl not to do anything BUT it's insulting for a guy to try to steal your bitch. It's like he's saying you're not enough man and he's trying to exploit that ****. Fck him. That would piss me off and be hard to ignore.

Dave P · 10-26-2009, 10:02 PM

If my girl cant handle these types of situations her damn self then she wont be my girl for long.

I dont date girls that can't take care of themselves.

willoughby · 10-26-2009, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by ImBoutMyBusines

I think moreso than it being about the girl, it's about the dude testing your manhood. I would trust my girl not to do anything BUT it's insulting for a guy to try to steal your bitch. It's like he's saying you're not enough man and he's trying to exploit that ****. Fck him. That would piss me off and be hard to ignore.

This exactly.

I'm not mad because he's flirting with my girl, i'm mad because he's know's i'm with her at the moment and he's STILL flirting with her.

I have a class with him, he knows of me, we've never spoken.

wallace g · 10-26-2009, 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by xJustin

believe it or not, but girls have a similar gut level response to a man who knows what hes doing similar to the gut response of a guy when he sees a hot girl dressed up all sexy. They can't help but feel like they wanna **** the **** outta them, and you can only hope that your girl doesnt follow through with her gut level attraction to the guy

oh shiii

Dave P · 10-26-2009, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by willoughby

This exactly.

I'm not mad because he's flirting with my girl, i'm mad because he's know's i'm with her at the moment and he's STILL flirting with her.

I have a class with him, he knows of me, we've never spoken.

If you get all huff and puff everytime some random dude hates on you you're going to have a very sh!tty life.

Brush it off bro.

Grow up.

CelticBhoy · 10-26-2009, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by xJustin

believe it or not, but girls have a similar gut level response to a man who knows what hes doing similar to the gut response of a guy when he sees a hot girl dressed up all sexy. They can't help but feel like they wanna **** the **** outta them, and you can only hope that your girl doesnt follow through with her gut level attraction to the guy

I'll agree with you that girls may think that, but not women. I've seen and been hit on by some pretty attractive chicks. Not for a moment did I think, damn! I want to **** her! When you're in a relationship where all is well, it's not even a thought. The only thing it does is improve the ego that you get approached...makes you feel good in that sense.

Being attractive to women isn't an uncommon trait when in a relationship (and women attracted to men). In fact, I know that she is attracted to other men (and women) and I know that I find other women attractive. But it pretty much ends there.

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Originally Posted by ImBoutMyBusines

I think moreso than it being about the girl, it's about the dude testing your manhood. I would trust my girl not to do anything BUT it's insulting for a guy to try to steal your bitch. It's like he's saying you're not enough man and he's trying to exploit that ****. Fck him. That would piss me off and be hard to ignore.

I hear ya...but that's all that young people's bull****. If a guy is able to steal your bitch....kudos to him.

Al_Pal · 10-26-2009, 10:19 PM

haha. no guy who knows me would try this. you must be a bitch cause he dont respect you.

and like everyone else told you, this is your girls job to handle.

JackedAndSwole · 10-26-2009, 10:49 PM

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Originally Posted by willoughby

This exactly.

I'm not mad because he's flirting with my girl, i'm mad because he's know's i'm with her at the moment and he's STILL flirting with her.

I have a class with him, he knows of me, we've never spoken.

just talk to ur girl and sya this, take care of urself, show me what u can do. get rid of him. make him REALIZE, MAKE HIM FUKING UNDERSTAND THAT (ur girl) IS NOT INTERESTED IN HIM

then say this to him in class. keep this up, im gonna dig u a hole motherfuker.

xJustin · 10-26-2009, 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by CelticBhoy

I'll agree with you that girls may think that, but not women. I've seen and been hit on by some pretty attractive chicks. Not for a moment did I think, damn! I want to **** her! When you're in a relationship where all is well, it's not even a thought. The only thing it does is improve the ego that you get approached...makes you feel good in that sense.

Being attractive to women isn't an uncommon trait when in a relationship (and women attracted to men). In fact, I know that she is attracted to other men (and women) and I know that I find other women attractive. But it pretty much ends there.

did you know that women are more likely to orgasm while having an affair?
think about it.

BrawnySwoleman · 10-26-2009, 11:03 PM

I'm sure this will get said: Push them closer togther. It's a humorous way of diffusing the situation. (no offense) (not srs)

CelticBhoy · 10-26-2009, 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by xJustin

did you know that women are more likely to orgasm while having an affair?
think about it.

LOL. I'm not sure what you're trying to imply or where you're going with this...

...well, I do, sadly. I just hope you're not going there.

Amoral · 10-26-2009, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Al_Pal

haha. no guy who knows me would try this. you must be a bitch cause he dont respect you.

and like everyone else told you, this is your girls job to handle.

Your friends must be losers.

matt1001 · 10-27-2009, 01:40 AM

hes not gonna back off cause if i was him it unless the girl stopped giving signals of interest (i dont know if she is but this advice assumes she is) but im gonna keep playing. you have to ask her why shes stringing him along, you can try and make it look like your interested in her not hurting him instead of being the jealous angry bf

Tiffany Wantsmore · 10-27-2009, 04:44 AM

Interesting that there's also a thread about how to steal someone's girlfriend, lol. What you should do is make sure she knows you're the better choice of the two. Acting like a whiny bitch won't do that.

I agree, however, that its up to your gf to put an end to this.

acidking · 10-27-2009, 04:58 AM

find a way to get close with his mother, f*** her up and produce for him a new sibling.

scient13 · 10-27-2009, 05:23 AM

it depend on an individual ..about how they want to deal with it

Devian · 10-27-2009, 06:33 AM

Open relationship ftw. I had one the past couple years and it was the sh!t....odds are you wont spend your whole life with her, so why not be able to get some extra pussy while she gets some extra cock. It lead to a ton of threesomes and I'll tell you, theres nothing better than group sex......obviously if this was your wife you'd want it to be different. But what are the true odds you'll be with her forever? Probably extremely slim.....so why not just use it to enhance your sexual life? Just my 2 cents.

pats55583 · 10-27-2009, 06:45 AM

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Originally Posted by willoughby

Usually i'd just punk the person out and be done with it, but i'm on probation, and i have a temper, what would be the best way to deal with said situation?

155 lbs

Al_Pal · 10-27-2009, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Amoral

Your friends must be losers.

what? how does that even make sense??

RightMuscle · 10-27-2009, 08:33 PM

Its deal of the girl. She should avoid that guy otherwise you avoid her.

clifftime · 10-28-2009, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Al_Pal

haha. no guy who knows me would try this. you must be a bitch cause he dont respect you.

and like everyone else told you, this is your girls job to handle.

For some odd reason I highly doubt u have a girl, but if you actually did, I know for a fact I could and WOULD steal her as long as she didn't look like a whale and smell like a dead carcass.. Jus sayin

skier_ · 10-28-2009, 06:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Dave P

If my girl cant handle these types of situations her damn self then she wont be my girl for long.

I dont date girls that can't take care of themselves.

this op

kineticforce · 10-28-2009, 06:41 AM

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Originally Posted by xJustin

did you know that women are more likely to orgasm while having an affair?
think about it.

what?

GoutDeMiel · 10-28-2009, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by xJustin

did you know that women are more likely to orgasm while having an affair?
think about it.

what does this have anyhting to do with the OP's question?

are all females animals that can't control their sexual urges? you have no idea what you're talking about.

all of the advice you give in here absolutely sucks.

take that 'relationship help dr.' sh*t out of your sig.

tryout44 · 10-28-2009, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by CelticBhoy

It's called your girl handling the situation.

Look, guys (especially ones who don't know you, aren't friends, etc.) can give two ****s if she has a boyfriend. If she has a hard time saying no or invites the guy to continue with the BS, then that's entirely on her.

It's her battle. She has to quickly and effectively let it be known that she's not only off-limits, but that she's completely uninterested.

With that being said...you also need to not care. Sorry, I know...you're 17. Believe me, this is nothing to even worry about...IF your girl handles it correctly. Because it's her battle.

bergen county brah speaks the truth... we know how these jersey b1tches are.

meteoraniac · 10-28-2009, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by xJustin

did you know that women are more likely to orgasm while having an affair?
think about it.

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