Want to know how to get girls?

Atheimetal · 10-25-2009, 01:34 AM

Stop fucking worrying about it so much. I'm serious. At what point did you determine that 'getting girls' is the end all be all of everything you do? Well, it's not. And if you feel like it is, you'll never get any girls because they'll all know you are desperate. Find other hobbies, find other ways to make yourself happy. These things will make you confident, and you will exude this when you talk to girls. If someone makes fun of you for not getting as much as them? Congrats, they are probably dumber than you. They appeal to the average person better than you which is nothing to brag about. I have seen that on this forum a numerous times. A guy goes "oh well I get more pussy than you" but in reality, he's actually a complete moron that just appeals better to stupid girls than a guy that isn't an idiot.

If girls are the first thing you worry about, your chances are low. In the scheme of things, they matter less than you think.

And they notice when it's the only thing that matters to you.

antihero · 10-25-2009, 01:38 AM

LOL

I think when your 15-18, "getting the girl" is the only worry in the world. Then you grow up and realize that women come and go, and you're much happier when they go until you meet the one kinky enough to sleep with every night and not get bored, at which point you get married. LOL

AnhYeuMy · 10-25-2009, 01:39 AM

What he says is very true in most cases

Jeddi · 10-25-2009, 01:39 AM

just live your life and let the women come to you brahs

antihero · 10-25-2009, 01:42 AM

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What he says is very true in most cases

I'm not much older than you, but you'll find that the older you get, the truer my statement gets.

Teench · 10-25-2009, 01:43 AM

If you're not happy by yourself, you wont be happy in a relationship.

antihero · 10-25-2009, 01:43 AM

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If you're not happy by yourself, you wont be happy in a relationship.

^Very true statement. You are wise beyond your years.

The_Cook · 10-25-2009, 01:44 AM

you are very wise

MnLifter21 · 10-25-2009, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Atheimetal

Stop fucking worrying about it so much. I'm serious. At what point did you determine that 'getting girls' is the end all be all of everything you do? Well, it's not. And if you feel like it is, you'll never get any girls because they'll all know you are desperate. Find other hobbies, find other ways to make yourself happy. These things will make you confident, and you will exude this when you talk to girls. If someone makes fun of you for not getting as much as them? Congrats, they are probably dumber than you. They appeal to the average person better than you which is nothing to brag about. I have seen that on this forum a numerous times. A guy goes "oh well I get more pussy than you" but in reality, he's actually a complete moron that just appeals better to stupid girls than a guy that isn't an idiot.

If girls are the first thing you worry about, your chances are low. In the scheme of things, they matter less than you think.

And they notice when it's the only thing that matters to you.

Although I agree 100%. There is a point in which it might be the only thing in life you haven't/can't attain. For instance, I have some great friends at college, a 3.7 GPA, my bulk is going well, albeit slow, but the only thing I am missing is a girl. Chances are it will be on my mind a lot since I have a pretty good hold on everything else in my life.

Atheimetal · 10-25-2009, 01:45 AM

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Originally Posted by antihero

LOL

I think when your 15-18, "getting the girl" is the only worry in the world. Then you grow up and realize that women come and go, and you're much happier when they go until you meet the one kinky enough to sleep with every night and not get bored, at which point you get married. LOL

I absolutely agree.. but I've noticed even at 21 the same mindset applies and pretty much dominates most people. It seems like it's expanding.

antihero · 10-25-2009, 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by MnLifter21

Although I agree 100%. There is a point in which it might be the only thing in life you haven't/can't attain. For instance, I have some great friends at college, a 3.7 GPA, my bulk is going well, albeit slow, but the only thing I am missing is a girl. Chances are it will be on my mind a lot since I have a pretty good hold on everything else in my life.

Join a fraternity, the vag follows it like white on rice.

props to all my Delta Sigma Phi brothers out there.

antihero · 10-25-2009, 01:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Atheimetal

I absolutely agree.. but I've noticed even at 21 the same mindset applies and pretty much dominates most people. It seems like it's expanding.

I agree, and I've noticed it as well. Unfortunately I think the human race as whole is maturing much slower than it should be.

MnLifter21 · 10-25-2009, 01:51 AM

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Originally Posted by antihero

Join a fraternity, the vag follows it like white on rice.

props to all my Delta Sigma Phi brothers out there.

Frats aren't my thing. I hate drinking, not people who do it, I just don't like the feeling, and a lot of people in frats that I have met seem to embody many of the things I despise. No hate.

Atheimetal · 10-25-2009, 01:51 AM

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I agree, and I've noticed it as well. Unfortunately I think the human race as whole is maturing much slower than it should be.

Yeah.. It's funny, I feel like the outcast at parties because I'm one of the only guys not trying to smooth talk a girl, or make a girl like me even though the stuff I'm saying to her isn't me and isn't true at all.

After a while I wonder, "Why am I the weird one, when I'm the only one being myself?"

antihero · 10-25-2009, 01:59 AM

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Frats aren't my thing. I hate drinking, not people who do it, I just don't like the feeling, and a lot of people in frats that I have met seem to embody many of the things I despise. No hate.

Not everyone in a fraternity is the same, and not all fraternitys are the same. That's why they have "rush". It's when you go around and meet people from all the different fraternities and get an ideal of who they are and what kind of people. But to be honest, I feel its something that everyone should at least consider doing. There are alot of terrible stereotypes of fraternities, and when you start finding things out about them you realize it isn't much like the stereotypes at all. Granted, some are, and some aren't.

One thing you don't see is the charity work that fraternities and sororities do. Most all fraternities have yearly (some have many per year) charity events and things that help the community. Theres alot more to it than simply becoming a drunken fool trying to get your dick wet.

Honestly, I wouldn't be the person I am today without the experience, and it has made me a better man. Just something to consider.

antihero · 10-25-2009, 02:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Atheimetal

Yeah.. It's funny, I feel like the outcast at parties because I'm one of the only guys not trying to smooth talk a girl, or make a girl like me even though the stuff I'm saying to her isn't me and isn't true at all.

After a while I wonder, "Why am I the weird one, when I'm the only one being myself?"

I know the feeling. You'll also notice that you're the one going home with women more consistently than others. Women always want attention from people who aren't giving it to them.

Atheimetal · 10-25-2009, 02:04 AM

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I know the feeling. You'll also notice that you're the one going home with women more consistently than others. Women always want attention from people who aren't giving it to them.

It's definitely interesting. It's almost like being enlightened puts you at the back of the pack sometimes though.

antihero · 10-25-2009, 02:12 AM

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It's definitely interesting. It's almost like being enlightened puts you at the back of the pack sometimes though.

Sometimes it seems that way, but if you wait it out a little bit you'll realize that the enlightnment will put you ahead.

Atheimetal · 10-25-2009, 02:15 AM

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Sometimes it seems that way, but if you wait it out a little bit you'll realize that the enlightnment will put you ahead.

That's basically what I am counting on. And if it doesn't happen? It's all good.

Aardvarked · 10-25-2009, 02:26 AM

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That's basically what I am counting on. And if it doesn't happen? It's all good.

You must be really having an epiphany tonight.
All you're post are on point brah.

Atheimetal · 10-25-2009, 02:31 AM

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You must be really having an epiphany tonight.
All you're post are on point brah.

Not so much actually, I just rarely express it. I don't say much of what I really think, especially here. But tonight I just felt compelled to start talking.

MadeUnderground · 10-25-2009, 02:32 AM

This thread delivers. I wish I had a cool picture to post but I haven't really been lingering around here long enough.

I agree with you guys. And that's interesting what you said about fraternities. I always thought of them as "getting drunk chasing pussy" type of things.

I just got accepted to my first choice college this past week, and they're known to have tons of frats, so maybe I will go to this "rush" that you speak of.

antihero · 10-25-2009, 02:41 AM

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This thread delivers. I wish I had a cool picture to post but I haven't really been lingering around here long enough.

I agree with you guys. And that's interesting what you said about fraternities. I always thought of them as "getting drunk chasing pussy" type of things.

I just got accepted to my first choice college this past week, and they're known to have tons of frats, so maybe I will go to this "rush" that you speak of.

It's something worth looking into, it isn't for everyone though. Most college's do something called "dry rush" which are events that allow you and other "potentials" to meet and intereact with the brothers without booze or sorority women around. Perfect example was one the first rush event I ever was something called "broomball" it was on a hockey rink, just wearing shoes (no ice skates), brooms as hockey sticks, and a kickball as a puck. By far the weirdest game I've ever played, but it was such a great time, I actually ended up pledging that fraternity.

Make sure no matter what the events are, go with an open mind. Some things that sound crazy are fun and some things that sound lame are more than entertaining. Go to as many events as you can, and meet every fraternity before making a decision.

Source2006 · 10-25-2009, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by antihero

LOL

I think when your 15-18, "getting the girl" is the only worry in the world. Then you grow up and realize that women come and go, and you're much happier when they go until you meet the one kinky enough to sleep with every night and not get bored, at which point you get married. LOL

****ing lol

fitlover · 10-25-2009, 05:40 AM

I'll have to disagree.

The only reason you guys cannot get girls is because none of you possess awesome nunchuck skills.

Or cake-making skills.

ChrisV92 · 10-25-2009, 07:11 AM

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Originally Posted by fitlover

I'll have to disagree.

The only reason you guys cannot get girls is because none of you possess awesome nunchuck skills.

Or cake-making skills.

i do..

so when you gonna let me tap that?

ConLaV · 10-25-2009, 07:22 AM

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Originally Posted by antihero

I agree, and I've noticed it as well. Unfortunately I think the human race as whole is maturing much slower than it should be.

I felt compelled to share a quote from the diet doc, Dr. Joe K-

"I would say that not all of our delayed-age society changes may be good. I was married to Tracy at 22 (already having been in the military), done with college and first child at 24, masters and doctorate by 27, owned first business by 28.....
Staying single until you're in your 30's, living at home through college or returning after college.....just delays social maturity and keeps a person developmentally an adolescent. Grow up, America!?

fitlover · 10-25-2009, 07:47 AM

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i do..

so when you gonna let me tap that?

You do not.

ratedstrength · 10-25-2009, 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by antihero

LOL

I think when your 15-18, "getting the girl" is the only worry in the world. Then you grow up and realize that women come and go, and you're much happier when they go until you meet the one kinky enough to sleep with every night and not get bored, at which point you get married. LOL

So your basing a relationship on sex...

avenged7x4lyfe · 10-25-2009, 07:50 AM

exactly, imho something like football is way more important then girls