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Originally Posted by MMAJason
Good point. BUT my motivation and self-image has been so low lately it's impossible to even fathom that someone would want to look like me.
I wish I had the willpower to not look in the mirror somedays or for a month.
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I havent weighed myself in weeks...I dont even want to know. And after a while I am able to look in the mirror when i get out of the shower and say HOLY CRAP!!! I see changes!
Just takes time. Dont get wrapped up in always looking for progress. Doesnt work that way. Nothing this hard works that way.
I think the reason people fail or give up so easily, is that they seek to compare themselves to someone they look up to...who may have 10 times the experience and work involved. And in that they make their golas seem futile. I've learned to put on the blinders and not worry about what anyone else is doing. All that matters is that I am doing what I need to do to eventually get where i want to be.
One of my lifelong loves is guitar playing. When I was younger I had my idols I wanted to be just like and I tried, but what I didnt get was that I wasnt Joe Satriani and I was NEVER going to be him. I'm Johnny Bonito dammit. So I have learned to be who I am, and make progress at my own pace and in that, an identity that I love when I look in the mirror has emerged. And as someone mentioned earlier, whether I was willing to beleive it or not, there were other eyes on what I have accomplished. Best feeling in the world.
And it doesnt matter whether it's bodybuilding, guitar playing, or basketweaving. lol
The same principle applies to everything.
Don't sell yourself short dude. Or you'll always wish you didnt