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I'll throw up a picture when I get home(on iPod touch at school).
Been dating her for a few weeks now, and jeez its rough. I can tell likes me lot, little clingy actually, but lots of guy friends, and dudes trying to hit on her all the damn time. The only positive side of this is she doesn't believe in hanging out one on one with a guy no matter what he is to her when in a relationship. I don't think she would ever cheat(she has been cheated on many times), but you never know.
I need advice on what to do in these situations though. For example:
She hangs out with this guy at school between classes. No big deal to me, she has known him for a lot longer than me, and they only hang out at school. Well I finally met him today at school, and god damn, the kid is cool. The whole time I couldn't help but think this dude has probably liked my gf for months and is cooler than me, why the **** is she with me?
Basically I'm having some major self esteem issues right now. Guys are popping out behind trees to say hi to her when we are together, ****s rough. Dudes from her classes are always trying to talk to her when she is at school.
I need some serious advice on what to think when this **** happens. I'm not bad looking myself, use to model for photography studios when I was younger and stuff. However, I always dated down, because I didn't want to deal with this ****. But for being as pretty as she is, she has low self esteem(caused by past boyfriends/mom).
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10-21-2009, 04:20 PM #1¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Sucks dating a hot chick. (serious)
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10-21-2009, 04:25 PM #2Registered User
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the fact that she's dating you should boost your self esteem (if she has a good personality as well). she doesn't seem like she'll cheat from what you're saying. if she will cheat, just wait for it to happen, and then move on. have some fun because chances are you're not gonna get married to her anyway. don't overanalyze cause that'll get you depressed. you can't blame her for having friends.
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10-21-2009, 04:25 PM #3Registered User
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in the exact same situation except i never dated down. because she is beautiful and has a down to earth personality my gf gets hit on several times every day. she is in criminal justice which is full of horny dudes. i don't worry bout it at all...i can totally trust her. it will show confidence and she will like you even more when she says that you don't care and trust her. never show jealousy.
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10-21-2009, 04:26 PM #4Registered User
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When you see your girl hanging with a dude friend try actually pushing her on to the other guy. Sounds stupid, but it works like magic. Just be like "you two would make a great couple :P yall should totally hook up" (say this in a teasing manner. she will prolly punch you in the arm and assume that you > other dude)Originally Posted by P51
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10-21-2009, 04:29 PM #5¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Whats the point of that?Originally Posted by xJustin
Everytime some random dude from her classes comes up to us in the hallway, or I meet up with her, the first words out of her mouth are "This is my boyfriend P51". They know whats up.| ♫Audiophile♫ | To ∞ & → | The Ohio State University Alumni |
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10-21-2009, 04:30 PM #6Registered User
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did you not just post this:Originally Posted by P51
"She hangs out with this guy at school between classes. No big deal to me, she has known him for a lot longer than me, and they only hang out at school. Well I finally met him today at school, and god damn, the kid is cool. The whole time I couldn't help but think this dude has probably liked my gf for months and is cooler than me, why the **** is she with me?
Basically I'm having some major self esteem issues right now. Guys are popping out behind trees to say hi to her when we are together, ****s rough. Dudes from her classes are always trying to talk to her when she is at school. "
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10-21-2009, 04:36 PM #7Token hillbilly
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Originally Posted by xJustin
Seems like that could give her the wrong idea and make her think it's ok to cheat on you :S
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10-21-2009, 04:39 PM #8¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Just because these dudes know I'm her bf, and she introduces me as such, doesn't cure my self esteem problems. Why would it?Originally Posted by xJustin
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10-21-2009, 04:43 PM #9Method and RED
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Dating an ugly chick probably sucks worse, think about it that way.
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10-21-2009, 04:47 PM #10¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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You're right. I dated average girls before this. Never ugly though.Originally Posted by rattler280
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10-21-2009, 04:58 PM #11Maui bound
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I know what you mean bro. Kinda a tough thing to deal with.
But hopefully you can overcome it and realize that she is choosing to be with you, not for you, not for anyone except herself and her wants.
Just have to understand that she yours because she wants to be. And with her having been cheated on before, doesn't sound like she would do that.
So just trust her and figure out that she is with you because she wants to. If she wanted someone else, she wouldn't be dating you. So settle down.--Plus Est En Vous--
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10-21-2009, 05:05 PM #12vagina friendly
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quit posting this nonsense, you clown.Originally Posted by xJustin
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10-21-2009, 05:54 PM #13Registered User
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Agree.Originally Posted by dlm
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10-21-2009, 05:56 PM #14gangster of satisfaction
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im gunna go ahead and file this under "Not an issue."
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10-21-2009, 06:26 PM #15if ur a feg, post my avi
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Just wondering, what aspects makes this guy "cool"?
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10-21-2009, 06:47 PM #16süß kugelsack, brau
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Don't worry about it and don't under any circumstances act jealous or bothered about it in front of her.Originally Posted by P51
WTF is this ****? No.Originally Posted by xJustin
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10-21-2009, 07:17 PM #17Registered User
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Ya, I remember you recently broke up with ex. Hopefully you dont get ****ed againOriginally Posted by P51
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10-21-2009, 07:20 PM #18Registered User
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i love when people think this **** doesnt work. Just lets me know which one of yall dont know how this stuff worksOriginally Posted by dlm
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10-21-2009, 07:22 PM #19Banned
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Fun fact
All her guy friends want to **** her so tell her not to hangout with them. Don't tell her this until you get laid. (srs)
If you don't get laid by the third date then leave her cause she's not planing on giving it up soon.
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10-21-2009, 07:23 PM #20Truly fortunate.
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you give the same advice over and over and over and over and over and over AND OVEROriginally Posted by xJustin
i love when people think this **** doesnt work. Just lets me know which one of yall dont know how this stuff works
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10-21-2009, 07:24 PM #21Registered User
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this could be considered hiding an insecurityOriginally Posted by Testament125
"hey you, dont hang out with any guys except for me because im insecure about you leaving me for them"
girls can read between the lines real well just fyi
and guess why I do it..because people keep asking over and over and over again. Dont knock it till you try itOriginally Posted by kiDfortune
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10-21-2009, 07:25 PM #22Ever-learning
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This.Originally Posted by kiDfortune
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10-21-2009, 08:04 PM #23Banned
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i dated the chick in my avatar for about a month, it was miserable..id take a 6 with a good personality over her any day!
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10-21-2009, 08:14 PM #24Grindin' my axe
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I don't think you can do much without showing you're insecure.
Many would suggest you look after yourself first; don't invest emotionally for a long period of time. Not saying you should be an ass, but be discrete about your feelings.
Be sure to have a rebound girl in case things go south.
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10-21-2009, 08:29 PM #25brb ballin'
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dude I tried this the past few days (heard you say it before), **** works like no other.Originally Posted by xJustin
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10-21-2009, 08:43 PM #26Cactusflower in training
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I'm guessing she was a 6 with a bad personality?Originally Posted by BaseballerD1
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10-21-2009, 08:44 PM #27Gonzo
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pics breh.
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10-21-2009, 08:44 PM #28Banned
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the girl with me is pretty hot..what u cant see is her 5'8 body with a tight ass and long legsOriginally Posted by Crazy Monkey
I'm guessing she was a 6 with a bad personality?
but shes a clingy bitch
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10-21-2009, 08:46 PM #29Registered User
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Where are the pics?
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