long time BB.com! lil help?

Samantha905 · 10-14-2009, 09:45 AM

So your chatting with an aquaitance, its only gonna be a hook up and you've messed around before when at parties and clubs but when I try and hang out more/text im not really getting much back.

Stop trying or try to hang out/see them again?

thanks guys. serious answers please

hellomister1 · 10-14-2009, 09:48 AM

i think when they hook up with you, they're not sober. they know that, girls wanna have fun too like guys. you just gotta be more confident, direct, and make lasting impressions. after you hook up, dont be like "heyy wanna hang out." it'll make you look clingy

honestly, if they're only interested in hooking up rather than more of a dating kinda thing, why complain. use the booty calls to your advantage and have other prospects.

Samantha905 · 10-14-2009, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by hellomister1

i think when they hook up with you, they're not sober. they know that, girls wanna have fun too like guys. you just gotta be more confident, direct, and make lasting impressions. after you hook up, dont be like "heyy wanna hang out." it'll make you look clingy

honestly, if they're only interested in hooking up rather than more of a dating kinda thing, why complain. use the booty calls to your advantage and have other prospects.

im just interested in ahving a bit of no strings fun, thats the only reason im bothering.

most of the times i was more drunk tbh lol. But we get on alright and have a laugh.

play it cold d'you reckon then and not text or talk?

hellomister1 · 10-14-2009, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Samantha905

im just interested in ahving a bit of no strings fun, thats the only reason im bothering.

most of the times i was more drunk tbh lol. But we get on alright and have a laugh.

play it cold d'you reckon then and not text or talk?

usually, the more u chase, the more u chase them AWAY. if these girls wont crack and only wanna hook up, find the RIGHT girl to spend your money and time with. these girls only wana hook up? jus take advantage of that. not dating material anyways

Samantha905 · 10-14-2009, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by hellomister1

usually, the more u chase, the more u chase them AWAY. if these girls wont crack and only wanna hook up, find the RIGHT girl to spend your money and time with. these girls only wana hook up? jus take advantage of that. not dating material anyways

yeh i see what you mean. Im not looking for anything serious, just a guarenteed bitta fun when i see them out. maybe bit of sex later on. d'you get me?

i could easily drop it, cos i got other things going on, but i reckon ive gotta chance i just need to see her and then seal the deal.

LovesMuscles · 10-14-2009, 09:58 AM

Holy crap lol long time.

It all goes back to the vibe you're giving off. Does he know you only want to hook up? And chasing does no good btw.

hellomister1 · 10-14-2009, 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Samantha905

yeh i see what you mean. Im not looking for anything serious, just a guarenteed bitta fun when i see them out. maybe bit of sex later on. d'you get me?

i could easily drop it, cos i got other things going on, but i reckon ive gotta chance i just need to see her and then seal the deal.

well if anything, just be like "hey im heading here, you're welcome to come along" dont make her a part of ur plan, just maybe a bonus if she decides to show up. and if she doesnt, **** it, ur doing ur own thing. u might need more game next time when ur drunk, to get her interested. if shes still putting out for you, maybe shes only interested physically. try to get that emotional and intimate interest, so she keeps coming back for more

Samantha905 · 10-14-2009, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by LovesMuscles

Holy crap lol long time.

It all goes back to the vibe you're giving off. Does he know you only want to hook up? And chasing does no good btw.

We've hooked up twice, nothing major just when weve been out. And last time we were out we went outside and i tried it. But shes like 'No, not when u want to, when i say so, your not getting ur own way, cos im an easy target for you'.

Then i text last night asking if shes out this week, and no reply. So im thinking not to bother no more?

LovesMuscles · 10-14-2009, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Samantha905

We've hooked up twice, nothing major just when weve been out. And last time we were out we went outside and i tried it. But shes like 'No, not when u want to, when i say so, your not getting ur own way, cos im an easy target for you'.

Then i text last night asking if shes out this week, and no reply. So im thinking not to bother no more?

If you are doing most of the initiating then I definitely think you should not bother anymore. Sounds like she's here and there, isn't too sure, so on.

Samantha905 · 10-14-2009, 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by LovesMuscles

If you are doing most of the initiating then I definitely think you should not bother anymore. Sounds like she's here and there, isn't too sure, so on.

yeh i agree, im going out this week, I'll give a text saying were out here, come out.

If its a no show then no more attention from me for sure!

cheers guys