butterflys!!???...wat does it mean?

liamcarter · 10-04-2009, 03:26 AM

hey guys...

ive been going out with this girl now for like 3months, i love evrything about her...

i get butterflys or sumtimes my heart skips a beat wen i get like a text messege off her..or see her messege me on facebook!!??...wats that all about?..i feel a bit stupid feeling like that,
i really dont remember feeling that way about a girl before, not for a long time at least, what does it mean??

jcl556 · 10-04-2009, 03:34 AM

sounds like you put her on a pedestal

try to step back a moment and assess the whole situation. is she really as good as you make her out to be? not saying she's not the world to you, just telling you to be careful of your emotions cuz it's usually when someone goes head over heels over a girl that they risk getting hurt the most if their logic doesn't kick in also.

liamcarter · 10-04-2009, 03:42 AM

yea ive been thinkin to take a step back yea..but i just think about her all the time, even wen we have a major row....the funny thing is, is that she isnt the type i would of usually gone for in terms of personailitly and traits, but yet i think thats why i think so much of her

latsftw · 10-04-2009, 03:49 AM

Sound like you're in love with her. Early stages of relationships are always like this.

jcl556 · 10-04-2009, 03:51 AM

i don't think there's anything wrong with liking a girl like that, it's good though that you understand how you feel instead of just going gaga all over her without any understanding that this is out of the norm for you

she could be a really cool ass girl, so as long as you're aware that you have this special feeling for her and as long as your actions are based still on logic (instead of this "infatuation") you should be fine

i mean, don't let how you feel about her change you as a person and things should be good

liamcarter · 10-04-2009, 03:57 AM

i'll take that on board man, thanx

Dom_88 · 10-04-2009, 04:04 AM

means you're a candy assed phaggot.

j/k - you think you're in love.

Ace_2004 · 10-04-2009, 04:18 AM

Straight from wiki-

Butterflies in the stomach is a medical condition characterized by the physical sensation of a "fluttery" feeling in the stomach. This sensation can be a physical sensation related to the body's fight or flight response or it can be an ineffable experience related to the psychology of true love or nervousness.

Some believe that this is caused by the release of epinephrine (adrenaline) when one is nervous, pulling blood away from the stomach and sending it to the muscles. This reduced blood flow, in turn, causes the stomach to temporarily shut down, and possibly the reason for reduced appetite during love sickness.

Butterflies in the stomach is most often experienced prior to important events, related to nervousness and can be experienced in situations of impending danger.

It is common for one to feel butterflies in the stomach when in the early stages of a relationship. It can be caused by nervousness and fear of the unknown. Butterflies in the stomach are often seen as a positive and harmless sign of subconscious feelings for romantic interest and are caused by the release of mood altering endorphins. They are especially frequent in teenage romances and studies show that this symptom is more frequently experienced by females than males. Many adults who have experienced multiple relationships themselves tend to experience this feeling more frequently at the time of an important life event. Sometimes just sitting back, relaxing and taking deep breaths can help to relieve the feeling.

liamcarter · 10-04-2009, 04:58 AM

hmmm..pretty in depth explanatitions there good stuff!

MAGnitude · 10-04-2009, 05:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by liamcarter

hey guys...

ive been going out with this girl now for like 3months, i love evrything about her...

i get butterflys or sumtimes my heart skips a beat wen i get like a text messege off her..or see her messege me on facebook!!??...wats that all about?..i feel a bit stupid feeling like that,
i really dont remember feeling that way about a girl before, not for a long time at least, what does it mean??

seems she is bad for ur health brah if she is making ur heart skip beats.

j/k

ur just really into her by the sounds of it, and she is making u feel really happy u might be falling in dat dere love.

euclid · 10-04-2009, 06:40 AM

Enjoy it for now. Soon you will be at each other's throats and posting that you're thinking of breaking it off with her. Just sayin!

percussion8903 · 10-04-2009, 07:05 AM

no one gets adrenaline like i do

Ecnewyx · 10-04-2009, 07:11 AM

Age: 22

Wait, what the fuk? Sounds like you're just in love.

FunkDaddy · 10-04-2009, 07:16 AM

Lmao @ you being 22. You seriously don't know what you're feeling? This is a question I expect from an 8 year old who gets his first valentine from the prettiest girl in class.

Ecnewyx · 10-04-2009, 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by FunkDaddy

Lmao @ you being 22. You seriously don't know what you're feeling? This is a question I expect from an 8 year old who gets his first valentine from the prettiest girl in class.

I think the prettiest girl in class spat on me when I was 8... after I gave her a ninja turtle valentine.

fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

pidginduck · 10-04-2009, 08:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Ecnewyx

I think the prettiest girl in class spat on me when I was 8... after I gave her a ninja turtle valentine.

fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

life isn't fair man.. life isnt fair :'(

The_Reaper · 10-04-2009, 11:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ace_2004

Straight from wiki-

Butterflies in the stomach is a medical condition characterized by the physical sensation of a "fluttery" feeling in the stomach. This sensation can be a physical sensation related to the body's fight or flight response or it can be an ineffable experience related to the psychology of true love or nervousness.

Some believe that this is caused by the release of epinephrine (adrenaline) when one is nervous, pulling blood away from the stomach and sending it to the muscles. This reduced blood flow, in turn, causes the stomach to temporarily shut down, and possibly the reason for reduced appetite during love sickness.

Butterflies in the stomach is most often experienced prior to important events, related to nervousness and can be experienced in situations of impending danger.

It is common for one to feel butterflies in the stomach when in the early stages of a relationship. It can be caused by nervousness and fear of the unknown. Butterflies in the stomach are often seen as a positive and harmless sign of subconscious feelings for romantic interest and are caused by the release of mood altering endorphins. They are especially frequent in teenage romances and studies show that this symptom is more frequently experienced by females than males. Many adults who have experienced multiple relationships themselves tend to experience this feeling more frequently at the time of an important life event. Sometimes just sitting back, relaxing and taking deep breaths can help to relieve the feeling.

OP has a vagina

Toledous · 10-04-2009, 02:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by liamcarter

hey guys...

ive been going out with this girl now for like 3months, i love evrything about her...

i get butterflys or sumtimes my heart skips a beat wen i get like a text messege off her..or see her messege me on facebook!!??...wats that all about?..i feel a bit stupid feeling like that,
i really dont remember feeling that way about a girl before, not for a long time at least, what does it mean??

Wait another 3-4 months. The messages stop and that feeling goes away.

Sicshift · 10-04-2009, 03:01 PM

It's just infatuation man. There's a big difference between love and infatuation. But don't worry about it. You just really like her and it's a weird feeling but good right?

I say just don't worry about it.