22 and just realized i have zero desire to bang randoms anymore

poolshark472 · 10-02-2009, 07:40 AM

the only thing i'm interested in is finding one right girl to settle down with and have kids with. is this completely abnormal for my age?

only problem-i'm single atm. does this mean i'm doomed to get super attached to the next girlfriend i get?

BigMacMeal · 10-02-2009, 07:41 AM

abnormal - yes

positive - yes

BTW, while i believe in multiple relationships to find out what you enjoy and don't enjoy in a partner and gaining experience based on smart choices, banging randoms is not the way to go

gjdm

sh_sh · 10-02-2009, 07:43 AM

ahhh, but how do you find the right one to settle down with???

that's right, by banging the randoms. game on.

gottalift78 · 10-02-2009, 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by poolshark472

the only thing i'm interested in is finding one right girl to settle down with and have kids with. is this completely abnormal for my age?

only problem-i'm single atm. does this mean i'm doomed to get super attached to the next girlfriend i get?

It's not abnormal at all, everyone gets burned out and wants to settle down. IDK about the kids thing just yet, maybe give it a few months and see how you feel!

I think if you want to settle down you will wait for the right one. I've been looking to settle down, still having fun tho. I refuse to settle down with someone I'm not 100% happy with, neither should you.

Kirby28 · 10-02-2009, 08:10 AM

gixxer0.6g · 10-02-2009, 08:12 AM

You're still too young. The only reason you think this way is because you're single. Give it a year with a serious relationship and then you'll know if that's what you want for sure.

WizardGlick · 10-02-2009, 09:11 AM

Nope, perfectly normal. I was getting married at your age. Nothing wrong with it, just means you're maturing more.

Danger_Close · 10-02-2009, 10:28 AM

people arnt suppose to go around banging randoms anyway. social conditioning ftl
its not strange

in b4 age 19

Wlcm2jamrck · 10-02-2009, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by gixxer0.6g

You're still too young. The only reason you think this way is because you're single. Give it a year with a serious relationship and then you'll know if that's what you want for sure.

I don't think you should just be banging everything that comes your way, but I think he may be on to something. You may feel this way now because you're single and you want someone to always be there. Not saying the next one to come along won't be the one to settle with, but make sure you do it for the right reasons.

jassa · 10-02-2009, 02:28 PM

Thats cool thats normal many have that kind of feeling and state of mind but becuase of pressure from near and dear mates they cant keep it up with as you said everyone think its abnormal but its not ...

Eh? · 10-02-2009, 02:34 PM

It's called growing up. Welcome to being mature. You've probably saved yourself exposure to several stds

oleg1227 · 10-02-2009, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Danger_Close

people arnt suppose to go around banging randoms anyway. social conditioning ftl
its not strange

in b4 age 19

Genetic composition > social conditioning. Its in a males composition to bang as many and as often as he can to spread the seed.

Danger_Close · 10-02-2009, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by oleg1227

Genetic composition > social conditioning. Its in a males composition to bang as many and as often as he can to spread the seed.

And social conditioning would tell him at 22 he needs to go out and **** way more hoes cuz at 22 its the best time of his life and he is still at his sexual peak.

oleg1227 · 10-02-2009, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Danger_Close

And social conditioning would tell him at 22 he needs to go out and **** way more hoes cuz at 22 its the best time of his life and he is still at his sexual peak.

Thats more of a genetic conditioning supported by social conducts

SirTerrythe3rd · 10-02-2009, 05:10 PM

ur growing up. No biggie. Too many paternity and STD scares out there from chicks you don`t want it from anyways. ENJOY it though.

captain_marvel · 10-02-2009, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by poolshark472

the only thing i'm interested in is finding one right girl to settle down with and have kids with. is this completely abnormal for my age?

only problem-i'm single atm. does this mean i'm doomed to get super attached to the next girlfriend i get?

It's as simple as this --

This is fine, but make sure when you settle that you settle with the right girl.

Remember a 7/10 with lasting qualities > 10/10 with nothing more.

I know a solid percentage of brahs our age that are ready to settle. The only problem I see with some of them is that they don't understand the right kind of girl to settle with and are thinking with their emotions.

jestes77 · 10-02-2009, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by poolshark472

the only thing i'm interested in is finding one right girl to settle down with and have kids with. is this completely abnormal for my age?

only problem-i'm single atm. does this mean i'm doomed to get super attached to the next girlfriend i get?

That sucks, but gl sir!

Danger_Close · 10-02-2009, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by oleg1227

Thats more of a genetic conditioning supported by social conducts

you know what im getting at. Society general beliefs are in ur early 20's ur suppose to be ****ing everything you can to "get it out of ur system" (bull****) then ur suppose to settle down late 20's. so when a young guy wants to settle down all the sudden he's looked at as strange.

Jedan01 · 10-02-2009, 05:47 PM

I'm 22 and looking to START banging randoms, because up to this point I've only dated and been in relationships.

sharktank29 · 10-02-2009, 08:30 PM

good for you man, i have been feeling the same way.

i have some new found goals for myself before i get into any relationship with the ladies.

one of my goals is to BB Benchpressing 225lbs 3x10

22yrs old FTW

OnlyCarnage · 10-04-2009, 10:40 AM

Prior to meeting my current missus, I was in a similar position ('cept I wasn't, and still not, keen on marriage/settling down). In my current job, I learn't how people really were. I'm a bouncer, and seeing people my age fuucking infuriates me, at least how they act and percieve themselves. Whenever I go out, I just look into the crowd and find I have nothing in common there. I don't miss clubbing (I'm "clubbing" every weekend, really).

This is my first relationship, and I do say it's an eye opener. I like this girl a lot, but I know to well to fall into any sort of trap. I've told her the score to what my plan will run, and if, and I capitalize the IF we choose to settle down I'll be close to 30. No children till then either.

inq · 10-06-2009, 09:40 AM

I feel the same way. I think we're just too mature for our age.

Feels bad brah because I *should want to be out there getting sh!tfaced and laid because I am only 20yo, but I just have no want. Hoping to change this lol so I can at least experience being my age before actually settling.

CRNAstylin · 10-06-2009, 09:48 AM

gj op i'm wit ya

except it took me till age 27

Squizzy · 10-06-2009, 11:18 AM

Absolutely nothing wrong with this. I was in a long-term relationship (2 years+) and banged a few randoms afterwards. Girls were better looking then my ex too, but I found out it ultimately wasn't what I wanted. So much so, that I haven't got laid in over a year. And that's by choice. I just don't need the hassle at this moment, got too much going on.

spectre86 · 10-06-2009, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Kirby28

ahahahahahahaha.

Im not into banging randoms, but not wanting to settle down. wouldnt mind some casual with a FB though

elmariachii · 10-06-2009, 12:24 PM

man im the opposite, im 23 and feel it's the best time for banging random ppl , while my other friends are getting engaged or married at early 20's !!

Manly5000 · 10-06-2009, 12:48 PM

I'm 33 and I still haven't figured out what I want to do when the divorce is finalized. I mean, I like the thought of banging me some randoms, but at the same time I don't know how far I want to take that. Nothing beats having one good woman in your life, but I've gotta have me some damn fun before I settle down with one again!

But i've always been into relationships until now, so never gave myself the chance. I'll have to rectify that! Enjoy it while you can bro.

Kiefer 2004 · 10-06-2009, 02:44 PM

I quit asking out/trying to get with women in general. I got rejected every time, so I just said screw it and am working on my career. I don't need a woman in my life.