What is this girls deal? Should i keep pursuing?

guitarsnroses · 09-29-2009, 10:34 PM

So i met this girl through one of my best friends and we hung out at a party and **** really flirty we eachother and she slept in my room and we made out. Let me tell you this girl is Gorgeous. So anywho she called me a day later and we talked on the phone for like 1.5 hours then the next day we went grocery shopping and she wanted to watch a movie with me later that night. so anywho i texted/called her and she didnt call back or text back. Then she texted me today that she might call me later to hang out so i really didnt think she would call me then i went to the gym and she texted me and said she walked over to my house and i didnt answer so she went home. So i called her and asked her if i could come over to watch a movie and she said yeah so i go over and she doesnt answer her fone or text and i have to walk back. Is this girl worth my time?

R3vel4tion · 09-29-2009, 10:40 PM

its gonna be tough man but ignore her calls/texts for a bit. Nobody likes a flake like this girl and ive been in the same exact situation. girls dont know what they want

guitarsnroses · 09-29-2009, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by R3vel4tion

its gonna be tough man but ignore her calls/texts for a bit. Nobody likes a flake like this girl and ive been in the same exact situation. girls dont know what they want

I hope i have enuff will power to ignore her haha

akm_202 · 09-30-2009, 01:30 AM

Shes playing you man.

Call her out, tell her shes being a flake and you're getting tired of it.
Sometimes girls like to play these games to see if you're going to sit down and beg or actually stand up for yourself.

Onisac · 09-30-2009, 01:37 AM

Yeah, looks like she's trying to mind**** you. I suggest you do the same to her.

2 D · 09-30-2009, 07:54 AM

Sounds a bit flaky, tough situation here, especially when you're attracted to her.

As others have mentioned just go on about life doing your own thing, if she contacts you or sees you then you can go from there, otherwise don't get hung up over something that may not happen.

Besides if you seem confident, busy and in charge of/living your own life this is generally a turn on to most girls cause they're curious about you.

P51 · 09-30-2009, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by 2 D

Sounds a bit flaky, tough situation here, especially when you're attracted to her.

As others have mentioned just go on about life doing your own thing, if she contacts you or sees you then you can go from there, otherwise don't get hung up over something that may not happen.

Besides if you seem confident, busy and in charge of/living your own life this is generally a turn on to most girls cause they're curious about you.

This. Follow this.

guitarsnroses · 09-30-2009, 10:52 AM

she like texted me this morning. omg im so sorry i took cough medicine and passed out i said oh ic, it happens. then i said if u wanna hang out call or text me and im just gonna not text or call her

boon9484 · 09-30-2009, 12:36 PM

I bet she willcall again, then ur back in the game

guitarsnroses · 10-01-2009, 08:10 AM

and call back she did

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InclineDBPresss · 10-01-2009, 08:15 AM

Ha, you got all paranoid over nothing.

guitarsnroses · 10-01-2009, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by InclineDBPresss

Ha, you got all paranoid over nothing.

shes not the type of girl im used to. shes way outta my league

beaucephus · 10-01-2009, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by guitarsnroses

So i met this girl through one of my best friends and we hung out at a party and **** really flirty we eachother and she slept in my room and we made out. Let me tell you this girl is Gorgeous. So anywho she called me a day later and we talked on the phone for like 1.5 hours then the next day we went grocery shopping and she wanted to watch a movie with me later that night. so anywho i texted/called her and she didnt call back or text back. Then she texted me today that she might call me later to hang out so i really didnt think she would call me then i went to the gym and she texted me and said she walked over to my house and i didnt answer so she went home. So i called her and asked her if i could come over to watch a movie and she said yeah so i go over and she doesnt answer her fone or text and i have to walk back. Is this girl worth my time?

Be a dik bro. This girl has 10-15 different guys calling her a day and probably gets them confused. This biggest a-hole is going to stick out in her head and she's going to want to pursue him the most.

Honest to God, this is what I'd say when she gets back to you. "Look, no more games. Call me whenever or if-ever you want to hang out, otherwise, have a good life."

She's either going to blow you off (highly unlikely, but has happened) or she's going to be all over ur nuts (more likely).

You said she's gorgeous, so she's got 14 white knights blowing up her phone. She doesnt need/want another one. Also, don't be beta, go for the gold (try to fuk) at every chance you get.

2 D · 10-01-2009, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by guitarsnroses

shes not the type of girl im used to. shes way outta my league

Don't let her think that, then she gains the upper hand.

Just be calm and confident and live YOUR life man. If anything this should attract her more.

But good job on playing cool and your response was nicely executed. Girls over think this stuff too.

Amb11 · 10-01-2009, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by guitarsnroses

shes not the type of girl im used to. shes way outta my league

Nobody is out of anybody's league, bro. That is, unless you convince yourself she's out of your league, then she will be.

Gl man, seems like it's going well so far. Just don't come off as clingy/needy and it sounds like it's all set. For the R/H!!