Psychologists have noted a correletion between low self-esteem in women & promiscuity

[justins1983]

she actually said she DIDNT know she wouldnt want to have anything to do with him afterwards. simply, it DIDNT WORKOUT.

smartass, try touching up on your reading skills. your entire argument is based on your misreading of what she wrote down.

no, she knew. she owed him some booty, she wasnt actually interested in having sex with him. low and behold the sex she didnt want to have in the first place wasnt any good.

[sirengrl1106]

no, she knew. she owed him some booty, she wasnt actually interested in having sex with him. low and behold the sex she didnt want to have in the first place wasnt any good.

Why is everyone calling Tiffany out? She added her opinion to the discussion, doens't mean her sexual history needs to be hung out for everyone to know....

[justins1983]

Why is everyone calling Tiffany out? She added her opinion to the discussion, doens't mean her sexual history needs to be hung out for everyone to know....

she posted it on the internet, everyone already knows. people bring it up because it her views on womens sexual decision making lack merit. clearly shes an idiot in that respect.

[HumptyBrahh]

And yet, she's your ex? Hmmm.....

The clingy-ness got to be too much

[justanothagirl]

no, she knew. she owed him some booty, she wasnt actually interested in having sex with him. low and behold the sex she didnt want to have in the first place wasnt any good.

she probably meant that he didn't turn her on or there was no passion from her side. but she thought he could be relationship material and she wanted to give it a chance. they were already dating from what i understand, she just wanted to take it further and see whether or not it would workout, and it did not (no sexual chemistry)

[justanothagirl]

The clingy-ness got to be too much

is she the girl with the dress?

[justins1983]

she probably meant that he didn't turn her on or there was no passion from her side. but she thought he could be relationship material and she wanted to give it a chance. they were already dating from what i understand, she just wanted to take it further and see whether or not it would workout, and it did not (no sexual chemistry)

and we, as rational, intelligent adults, are all saying that she knew there was no passion or sexual chemistry before and then after the sex. she didnt give it a chance, she tossed him a bone for being an otherwise nice guy who didnt get her box wet.

[HumptyBrahh]

Lol, are you $hitting me? Seduction is about banging as many hot women as possible, not marrying one and having kids with her. It's mostly the career-oriented BETAS who jump into marriage and have kids (while the wife goes out and fuks an alpha on the side).

I see many lonely nights in your future.

In b4 you're the 42-year-old creeper trying to game on 23-year-olds in clubs. Then who's more "alpha?" You, or the guy that got married at 28, had some kids in his 30s, and now has a great marriage, a nice home, and a corner office?

Idk what's more delusional, thinking marriage is "beta" or thinking being career oriented is "beta"

[HumptyBrahh]

is she the girl with the dress?

Yep lulz

[justanothagirl]

I see many lonely nights in your future.

In b4 you're the 42-year-old creeper trying to game on 23-year-olds in clubs. Then who's more "alpha?" You, or the guy that got married at 28, had some kids in his 30s, and now has a great marriage, a nice home, and a corner office?

Idk what's more delusional, thinking marriage is "beta" or thinking being career oriented is "beta"

i agree man, i have way more respect for a guy who enjoys a meaningful relationship over one that just tries to hook up with as many whores as possible and has no respect for women and such. shows character and decency.

[The_Reaper]

I see many lonely nights in your future.

In b4 you're the 42-year-old creeper trying to game on 23-year-olds in clubs. Then who's more "alpha?" You, or the guy that got married at 28, had some kids in his 30s, and now has a great marriage, a nice home, and a corner office?

Idk what's more delusional, thinking marriage is "beta" or thinking being career oriented is "beta"

Lol. You mad cuz I can pull more hot ass?
You'll be married to some fat, frumpy sexless bitch while I'm a jacked, ripped 40 year old banging girls over 10 years younger than me.
And you can enjoy your little socially approved marriage arrangement, like the other sheep. One day you might just wake up fat and ugly and realise you've been trotting on the hamster wheel all your life.

I'm very career oriented, by the way. You can have game and have a deeply satisfying professional career.

(...my tongue is partly in cheek brah)

i agree man, i have way more respect for a guy who enjoys a meaningful relationship over one that just tries to hook up with as many whores as possible and has no respect for women and such. shows character and decency.

Sure thing sweetheart. Even though your gina tingles when you see a badass player who's surrounded by girls who are going crazy to bang him.
After he fuks you up the ass and discards you, you can go back to the guy you respect.


(Edit: fixed up lots of little typos. I'm getting lazy)

[justanothagirl]

Sure thing sweetheart. Even though your gina tingles when you see a badass player who's surrounded by girls who are going crazy to bang him.
After he fuks you up the ass and discards you, you can go back to the guy you respect.

ive never given it up to a player/one-night-stander/jerk, i wont either.

[The_Reaper]

ive never given it up to a player/one-night-stander/jerk, i wont either.

Do you count blowjobs and handjobs, or do you rationalise those away?

[justanothagirl]

Do you count blowjobs and handjobs, or do you rationalise those away?

just given those to my current bf.

edit: blowjobs, handjobs i don't really give him either.

[The_Reaper]

just given those to my current bf.

edit: blowjobs, handjobs i don't really give him either.

wat

[justanothagirl]

wat

what? ...

[The_Reaper]

what? ...

"Just given those to my current bf.

edit: blowjobs, handjobs i don't really give him either."

Are you saying you don't give him bjs or handjobs, but you have done so before to him?

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

she probably meant that he didn't turn her on or there was no passion from her side. but she thought he could be relationship material and she wanted to give it a chance. they were already dating from what i understand, she just wanted to take it further and see whether or not it would workout, and it did not (no sexual chemistry)

This is exactly what happened, but ...

and we, as rational, intelligent adults, are all saying that she knew there was no passion or sexual chemistry before and then after the sex. she didnt give it a chance, she tossed him a bone for being an otherwise nice guy who didnt get her box wet.

This is how the guys will see it. I can see how it looks like that, but there was no malice intended at all.

[justanothagirl]

"Just given those to my current bf.

edit: blowjobs, handjobs i don't really give him either."

Are you saying you don't give him bjs or handjobs, but you have done so before to him?

no i give him blowjobs, haven't given those to anyone else.

handjobs i haven't really ever given anyone.

[justins1983]

This is exactly what happened, but ...



This is how the guys will see it. I can see how it looks like that, but there was no malice intended at all.

not malice, selfish indifference.

[DoubtErased]

btw justanothagirl is a perfect example of a woman with LOW self esteem who wont sleep around

[The_Reaper]

This is exactly what happened, but ...



This is how the guys will see it. I can see how it looks like that, but there was no malice intended at all.

If that's true, why did you say you felt you "ought to" bang him? That "I thought he deserved it"?

If you were just dating him, why not just say "We had sex, I felt no connection, it was a mistake, now he won't get lost"?

Hmm?

I think you're trying to go back and paint yourself with a halo.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

not malice, selfish indifference.

Nope, not even that. Dating is still difficult even when you're old, shyt happens. If it was that easy we'd all be happily married wouldn't we?

Edit: I do go on dates, and since this guy, if there's no immediate sexual tension, I don't see them again. I've only had like 2 first dates since, but it's a policy I intend to continue.

[justanothagirl]

btw justanothagirl is a perfect example of a woman with LOW self esteem who wont sleep around

haha, i guess i get it from my parenting. good job to them. my sister even wanted me to give her a phone call before kissing if i ever decided to kiss a guy haha. i used that excuse on the first guy i dated. 'im not allowed to kiss, sorry, promised my sis'. i was 19.

[The_Reaper]

no i give him blowjobs, haven't given those to anyone else.

handjobs i haven't really ever given anyone.

Heh. The last girl I was with (who had a boyfriend) gave me handjobs but no blowjobs.
But anyway. Do you deny that your gina tingles when a badass player starts coming on to you, making you laugh, touching you gently, creating a connection with you, teasing you and then turning the conversation towards sexuality. All the time you know women go completely nuts for this guy.

btw justanothagirl is a perfect example of a woman with LOW self esteem who wont sleep around

That true, justanothergirl?
Are you physically attractive?

[justins1983]

If that's true, why did you say you felt you "ought to" bang him? That "I thought he deserved it"?

If you were just dating him, why not just say "We had sex, I felt no connection, it was a mistake, now he won't get lost"?

Hmm?

I think you're trying to go back paint & yourself with a halo.

because she was trying to play the fake "nice" role. she knew there was no connection but if she told him "you dont turn me on at all so this wont work" without giving him an audition shed feel guilty. so she went through the motions in order to prove he couldnt change her mind with his dick and then went and did exactly what she intended to do all along. be his platonic friend and get sex from guys who make her horny. except she didnt even bother to think her half assed plan through and didnt for-see him actually expecting their now sexual relationship to continue. so she needed advice to get him to do exactly what she wanted, pretend the sex she didnt want never happened and be her convenient friend.

[justanothagirl]

Heh. The last girl I was with (who had a boyfriend) gave me handjobs but no blowjobs.
But anyway. Do you deny that your gina tingles when a badass player starts coming on to you, making you laugh, touching you gently, creating a connection with you, teasing you and then turning the conversation towards sexuality. All the time you know women go completely nuts for this guy.

Not really

That true, justanothergirl?
Are you physically attractive?

Right now im okay. ive had times that i looked really great tho (when i was on top of my diet etc), im working on getting back to that now.

[The_Reaper]

because she was trying to play the fake "nice" role. she knew there was no connection but if she told him "you dont turn me on at all so this wont work" without giving him an audition shed feel guilty. so she went through the motions in order to prove he couldnt change her mind with his dick and then went and did exactly what she intended to do all along. be his platonic friend and get sex from guys who make her horny. except she didnt even bother to think her half assed plan through and didnt for-see him actually expecting their now sexual relationship to continue. so she needed advice to get him to do exactly what she wanted, pretend the sex she didnt want never happened and be her convenient friend.

Would you let her answer for herself please.

Edit: My bad, I thought you were a female white knighting her. I just read the post now.

[justins1983]

Would you let her answer for herself please.

no. and dont ask me again please.

[justanothagirl]

Would you let her answer for herself please.

why did your ex just give you handjobs? wouldn't you rather just have sex then? seems kinda meh to me...