Girls that wont put out cuz they "like" you

[lord infamous]

And they dont wont u to think their a filthy whore. I mean i understand the reason behind it them seeing you as long term potential, but it kind of makes me feel like a sucker. I was talking to my ex friend (when i was trying to get back with her lol) and she told me i was the only one she made wait (I guess 2 weeks is waiting?) cuz she really like me. Anyways what do u think about this?

[Paris.]

Originally Posted by lord infamous

And they dont wont u to think their a filthy whore. I mean i understand the reason behind it them seeing you as long term potential, but it kind of makes me feel like a sucker. I was talking to my ex friend (when i was trying to get back with her lol) and she told me i was the only one she made wait (I guess 2 weeks is waiting?) cuz she really like me. Anyways what do u think about this?

ive dealt with this issue nearly every GF i've had (srs)


give it just a little time. girls will always put out, but u just gotta wait a few weeks so they dont feel like a slut.

[skier_]

I don't see why girls feel the need to announce they are waiting for two weeks?

[justanothagirl]

Originally Posted by lord infamous

And they dont wont u to think their a filthy whore. I mean i understand the reason behind it them seeing you as long term potential, but it kind of makes me feel like a sucker. I was talking to my ex friend (when i was trying to get back with her lol) and she told me i was the only one she made wait (I guess 2 weeks is waiting?) cuz she really like me. Anyways what do u think about this?

how does she think it will change your mind about her being a filthy whore when she tells u she didn't make anyone else wait.

[dickhordishay]

i was seeing a chick whose legs you couldn't spread with a hydraulic jack! she was like, oooooooohhh, i was hurt too many times before 'cause i let things happen too quickly. i don't want to make the same mistake with you.

had enough of that sh*t after a month.

[Spaghettii]

Originally Posted by lord infamous

And they dont wont u to think their a filthy whore. I mean i understand the reason behind it them seeing you as long term potential, but it kind of makes me feel like a sucker. I was talking to my ex friend (when i was trying to get back with her lol) and she told me i was the only one she made wait (I guess 2 weeks is waiting?) cuz she really like me. Anyways what do u think about this?

It's a game they play. They do it because they're insecure you'll leave them after you get what you want. You can ask janks for more detail on the shizzo

[justanothagirl]

Originally Posted by Spaghettii

It's a game they play. They do it because they're insecure you'll leave them after you get what you want. You can ask janks for more detail on the shizzo

its not a game. it's better to make sure u have selected the right guy before u give it up. takes time to see their true intentions etc.

[skier_]

Originally Posted by Spaghettii

It's a game they play. They do it because they're insecure you'll leave them after you get what you want. You can ask janks for more detail on the shizzo

I don't think it's really a game. I think it has a lot to do with being confident.

[lord infamous]

Originally Posted by justanothagirl

how does she think it will change your mind about her being a filthy whore when she tells u she didn't make anyone else wait.

lmao!

[lord infamous]

Originally Posted by justanothagirl

its not a game. it's better to make sure u have selected the right guy before u give it up. takes time to see their true intentions etc.

Im just amazed at how low females value their pussies. If pussy was stock that **** could be compared to the Great Depression. According to my ex, if she didnt really care about the dude, she would just **** cuz thats all she want from him is his cock. Nothing else. So first date ****ing is pretty easy if shes not interested in you on a emotional level.

[kineticforce]

Originally Posted by justanothagirl

its not a game. it's better to make sure u have selected the right guy before u give it up. takes time to see their true intentions etc.

- yeah Im sure every guy you've seckd has been some guy you waited 2 weeks (or longer) on...and if thats the case - have more fun **but I highly doubt that - few and far between**

Originally Posted by lord infamous

lmao!

THIS

Originally Posted by skier_

I don't think it's really a game. I think it has a lot to do with being confident.

wait wait...confident in which way - her waiting to sleep with the guy or her sleeping with the guy the same day/date/outing????

Honestly - it doesnt change my mind whether she sleeps with me the first day or the first month.... the latter is what will normally turn me off. If she is gf material - MAYBE - only if its progressing that way. Otherwise 1 week I would say is max (maybe 2 depending on distance) - attraction between two people is normally mutual and sexual chemistry is known almost from start - you know its on - its only a matter of time.

Also if she is dangling sex out there for "safety reasons" shemay have been burned recently from a guy she REALLLLY liked. Understandable, but how does that affect you... it doesnt. Do not let her use sex as a bargaining chip - her vagina does not have gold or any special powers that will change anything in your relationship.

Sex is not something you barter with - if she is doing this - ignore her, and then when you hang out again and its getting hot and heavy and she pulls it again....stand up and leave - tell her you are not going to let her use her va-jay jay in a way to keep you around - you are above these silly games.

There are plenty of other women who dont play these games.... just sayin

[skier_]

Originally Posted by kineticforce

wait wait...confident in which way - her waiting to sleep with the guy or her sleeping with the guy the same day/date/outing????

Honestly - it doesnt change my mind whether she sleeps with me the first day or the first month.... the latter is what will normally turn me off. If she is gf material - MAYBE - only if its progressing that way. Otherwise 1 week I would say is max (maybe 2 depending on distance) - attraction between two people is normally mutual and sexual chemistry is known almost from start - you know its on - its only a matter of time.

Also if she is dangling sex out there for "safety reasons" shemay have been burned recently from a guy she REALLLLY liked. Understandable, but how does that affect you... it doesnt. Do not let her use sex as a bargaining chip - her vagina does not have gold or any special powers that will change anything in your relationship.

Sex is not something you barter with - if she is doing this - ignore her, and then when you hang out again and its getting hot and heavy and she pulls it again....stand up and leave - tell her you are not going to let her use her va-jay jay in a way to keep you around - you are above these silly games.

There are plenty of other women who dont play these games.... just sayin

I don't know, I mean being comfortable with yourself with him. Sex is horrible if you don't feel attractive, and feel super awkward.

[kineticforce]

Originally Posted by skier_

I don't know, I mean being comfortable with yourself with him. Sex is horrible if you don't feel attractive, and feel super awkward.

this type of sex normally happens after break ups - the revenge f--ks - AMIRITE?

Of course if he/she is attracted to their partner it makes it more intense and fun -

[skier_]

Originally Posted by kineticforce

this type of sex normally happens after break ups - the revenge f--ks - AMIRITE?

Of course if he/she is attracted to their partner it makes it more intense and fun -

Lol, I can be attracted to him and still be so awkward it's horrible. Luckily this hasn't happened in a long time. THIS is why I wait a couple weeks now.

[stevenz1g]

Originally Posted by kineticforce

this type of sex normally happens after break ups - the revenge f--ks - AMIRITE?

Of course if he/she is attracted to their partner it makes it more intense and fun -

It all depends on your goals. If you're looking for a long term relationship, and she doesn't use her vagina as " i want it this way " tool, then I'd prefer the girl to wait a couple of weeks. Shows she's not a complete slut and isn't willing to just give it in one night. If you're looking for a quick fuck, don't wait -- take it. ( JK ). Leave, and find another.

[justanothagirl]

Originally Posted by kineticforce

- yeah Im sure every guy you've seckd has been some guy you waited 2 weeks (or longer) on...and if thats the case - have more fun **but I highly doubt that - few and far between**

not my current boyfriend (tho we had been close friends during senior yr a few yrs back, so its not like i just met him) but if we happen to breakup at some point, next time ill be so much more careful...let my first bf wait a bit, that all ended on a good note. just been with those two.

[kineticforce]

Originally Posted by stevenz1g

It all depends on your goals. If you're looking for a long term relationship, and she doesn't use her vagina as " i want it this way " tool, then I'd prefer the girl to wait a couple of weeks. Shows she's not a complete slut and isn't willing to just give it in one night. If you're looking for a quick fuck, don't wait -- take it. ( JK ). Leave, and find another.

I do agree on "goals" but in the whole picture it doesnt matter....lots of people have f*cked the first night and have turned it into something serious - they keep talking and then it gets more intense and then they are exclusive and then dating seriously...

There is no one set pattern - and I know this is gonna sound somewhat lame - but at 20 bro its a whole different realm that you have seen - than what I have seen. Girls are funny and so are guys... you are putting a double standard on something that doesnt even matter.

If she wants to f*ck and leave you - so be it. If you want to f--k and leave so be it. If you want to keep it open to see what happens SO be it - whether its next day or next week...your level of attraction isnt gonna change for her when you sleep with her (maybe a month - could get frustrated friendzone or not right?) - It doesnt make her a slut - get that mentality out of your mind.

Women enjoy sex as much as men do and just because they can get it easier than some guys does not make them sluts. Change your mentality about women and you will see that its no big deal - dont judge a woman on her past and she wont judge you. You will fine more women to be more open to more sexual things when you do not judge them.

[lord infamous]

bump

[Patrick-Bateman]

Originally Posted by lord infamous

And they dont wont u to think their a filthy whore. I mean i understand the reason behind it them seeing you as long term potential, but it kind of makes me feel like a sucker. I was talking to my ex friend (when i was trying to get back with her lol) and she told me i was the only one she made wait (I guess 2 weeks is waiting?) cuz she really like me. Anyways what do u think about this?

I could survive two weeks

[killermike]

Originally Posted by lord infamous

And they dont wont u to think their a filthy whore. I mean i understand the reason behind it them seeing you as long term potential, but it kind of makes me feel like a sucker. I was talking to my ex friend (when i was trying to get back with her lol) and she told me i was the only one she made wait (I guess 2 weeks is waiting?) cuz she really like me. Anyways what do u think about this?

wow 2 whole weeks...

[Riceboi]

Originally Posted by lord infamous

And they dont wont u to think their a filthy whore. I mean i understand the reason behind it them seeing you as long term potential, but it kind of makes me feel like a sucker. I was talking to my ex friend (when i was trying to get back with her lol) and she told me i was the only one she made wait (I guess 2 weeks is waiting?) cuz she really like me. Anyways what do u think about this?

Because sex can ruin things, if stuff doesn't work out. And dude waiting 2 weeks is NOTHING lol. That's quick imo.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

I find this whole idea of waiting a specific time to be a bit silly. I can understand what Skier said about waiting until you're comfortable with someone, but surely that's relative. Making a guy wait just because you can isn't going to do either of you any good. I know the thinking behind it - to make sure he isn't only after sex - but in the end, all guys are only after sex so the whole thing is pointless. If you want to do it, just do it.

[spectre86]

Originally Posted by Tiffany Wantsmore

I find this whole idea of waiting a specific time to be a bit silly. I can understand what Skier said about waiting until you're comfortable with someone, but surely that's relative. Making a guy wait just because you can isn't going to do either of you any good. I know the thinking behind it - to make sure he isn't only after sex - but in the end, all guys are only after sex so the whole thing is pointless. If you want to do it, just do it.

x2. I waited 2 months with my last one because she was 26 and only had selp with 1 guy. i really cared and didnt want to try and ruin things.


its completely stupid though. if all the guy wants is sex and a woman makes him wait 2-3 weeks, he will just nail something else on the side for those 2-3 weeks.

*shrugs* guess if people were just upfront and didnt play games, it would be alot easier for both parties.