A girl I am dating put her picture up, got 100 messages in 1 entire week. We made a profile with an actor guy and since I don't use the site she showed me when I was over....she had sent out 20 messages to some average women.....and a few attractive ones. All read deleted.
The guy was not THAT famous nor very well known and they were 'normal' non professional looking photos.
So to you guys thinking "why are all these women deleting me and not replying to me am I ugly?". Nope. Women on POF either are really slutty and want you to tell them 'wanna party' or are there for a guy to support their kids or like the girl I am dating, for the lols/views.
Thread: Pof is a joke.
09-10-2009, 08:29 AM #1
Pof is a joke.
09-10-2009, 08:31 AM #2
09-10-2009, 08:35 AM #3
If I were doing online dating I would only use MATCH/EHARMONY since they are the only 2 legit sites without tons of fake profiles/and people pay money because they are actually looking to date.
If I based 'how hot i am' on how many girls replied on POF, I would not be confident. And it affects lots of guys here who take it seriously cause the girls don't.
09-10-2009, 08:38 AM #4
I'm on there for the lulz. Some of the whiteknighting that goes on is hilarious.
But tons of dudes just send messages that say "hey, what's up?" or "how are you?" ... those are likely to get deleted no matter who you're emailing.
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09-10-2009, 08:41 AM #5
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09-10-2009, 08:48 AM #6
She said she wouldn't feel comfortable meeting a guy off a sleazy site like that no matter how good looking.
If I was on a paying site like Match with actual quality girls, like the ones I meet in real life then I would actually think of something to write.
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09-10-2009, 08:59 AM #7
lol here's a message from the inbox:
Girl I am dating (actor profile):
Original Message YOU sent on 9/10/2009 7:54:09 AM
No problem, but we should get to know each other some more before sex. It makes
the sex better. More tension. Don't you agree?
im not looking for someone to sleep with!
BULLSHT. Women are on a site to meet a man to date. A man you date you have sex with. These girls are whack lol.
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09-10-2009, 10:43 AM #9
this girl is decent looking but WITH 2 KIDS AT AGE 19 / NOT MARRIED / FIGHTING CUSTODY ISSUES IN COURT....
and this is what her bf she suckered in on POF writes on her profile:
comments from Marla_ favorites list
Everything you are babe, Everything you say, Keeps my heart beating fast, And gets me through my days. Your smile glows, You eyes they shine, How did I get so lucky, That I could call you mine. My love for you, It only grows, I hope you know, It's stronger by the day. I'll be your boy, I'll be your hero, And baby when you need me most, I'll be there to hold you close.
09-10-2009, 10:52 AM #10
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Lol dating sites are 100% for lols. That and/or for the single moms or people with tons of baggage. If you want to meet people get out in what we call the real world lol.
It is funny though to make some weird profile and mess with people on them. Some dude in the misc section is doing that and has like a 100 page thread about it. Funny stuff.
09-10-2009, 11:04 AM #11
I swear though the way these women think/act/talk, they're full of BS. Like if the same men were asking them out in PERSON they would NOT say no. They'd jump all over it.
I heard eharmony.com has some legit classy women, but most sites are for lols I agree.
I met a girl from hotornot last year, she was cute but MESSED UP. I only ask out women in person.
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the only success i had on POF, was when i had no pic and my profile was about sex....and basically saying i'm fresh out of a meaningful relationship (which i was) and wasn't looking for attachment just missed some of the physical aspects of things.
I would then send out my pic w/ msgs or w/ responses....i had plenty that were wanting to **** (after meeting first *sigh*), none of them were bombshells or anything. But i did meet one, she was trying to get me to go back to her place but it was uFC 100 so i had a valid excuse not to. I just don't think i can **** someone i'm not attracted to and don't care about. I literally had no desire to be w/ her.
09-10-2009, 05:00 PM #13
And I agree I have no desire to fck POF girls either.
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09-10-2009, 05:08 PM #14
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09-10-2009, 05:17 PM #15
i read on a site this 1 guy lost his self esteem cause no women replied to him....he went to eharmony and all these hot women told him he was good looking, it was a mind fck for him lol
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