so i am trying to figure out whether this chick is really into me or just sees me as friend material ..
at the moment i am just playing hot and cold..
for example - one week i give her alot of attention etc etc.. and the reverse at all other times..
this week - she has been giving me her normal attention but playing games of her own, so i am just giving her less attention
question is: say you ignore her (e.g. distance yourself to some extent), and she comes up with any excuse to talk to you or ask you how you are, is that a sign she is interested?