I realize this can be a situation type thing and vary from instance to instance, but I was working last night (club style bar) and this girl who I recognized from the gym came in and made it a point to introduce herself to me.
"Hi, I always see you at the gym" is what she said.
I introduced myself and got her name, but at that moment was unsure if she was just being friendly or was potentially interested. It is a simple approach/situation, just curious if I may be reading too much in to it.
08-02-2009, 04:02 PM #1
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08-02-2009, 04:52 PM #5
You probably already f**ked things up before you started by thinking "OMFG She's talking to me! does this mean she wants to knob me??''
I used to do all this stupid ****... now I just empty my mind and talk to girls with no hidden agendas or anything... just talk to make them feel good about themselves and have fun (and no, I am not talking about that "nice guy" nonsense, ya gotta be manly and strong).
How you feel inside reflects on your outside behavior and people pick it up... Stop trying to make **** happen... the only thing you can do is put your absolute best effort into every interaction... the results are completely outside of your realm of control. You should have an empty mind and be completely carefree and expect nothing when talking to people.
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08-02-2009, 07:39 PM #7
she doesnt have to be interested and she did introduce herself so whether she is looking to hoookup or not it is obvious that you are both interested in the same things and could become friends.... if you have no way to contact her then just wait till you see her at the gym again and try to fix things if you want tozombie survival Charlie squad
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08-02-2009, 08:05 PM #8
yea dude...you know what she looks like now...and that SHE HAS NOTICED YOU...so since you didnt seal the deal at the club..next time you see her in the gym...say hey _____, it was good to meet you the other night...she'll say yea you too yada yada...then ask her wutd she think of the place ask her was it her first time checking the place out...then after a little small talk and sh it...go for a number close and ask her to go out for drinks or dinner sometime...
****s not that hard
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