hey, misc. I'm going to make this story short. I opened my mom's email today, and found oput she cheatiung on my dad via msn and ********. By the looks of it, the bastard shes cheating with is married aswell. I'm just 15, and i don't know what to do. I feel like ****, and wanna ****ing die. I don't know who else i can ask for advice than the misc. I just want everything to go back to normal. It seems like my mom also feels guilty sometimes, as she cries sometimes for "no reason". I tried to hack the ****er's email to send her a fake message saying hes done with her, but i cant hack it. My mom's not a bad person, and she loves my dad very much, i just don't know what is happening with her. I don't want our amily to split up or anything. Please misc, give me some advice, i dont know what the hell to do.
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07-31-2009, 03:55 PM #1Registered Brah
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Just Found Out My mom is cheating on my dad (serious)
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07-31-2009, 03:56 PM #2Start Weight: 108lbs
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tell her stop it completly or your gonna tell your dad
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07-31-2009, 03:56 PM #3Registered User
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yea confront her...
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07-31-2009, 03:57 PM #4Ascending.
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tell your dad
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07-31-2009, 03:57 PM #5☆☆ Platinum Account ☆☆
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Keylogger + Screenshots + Send to the guy's family
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07-31-2009, 03:57 PM #6Registered User
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she cant cheat if hes dead.....just saying
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07-31-2009, 03:57 PM #7iFilm
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pics of said mom.
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07-31-2009, 03:57 PM #8ϟϟBMBCϟϟ
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in. tell both families, but tell your dad first, since if shes cheating hopefully he wont lose a lot of money her
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07-31-2009, 03:57 PM #9Registered User
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Print that **** out and keep copies of it.Originally Posted by simbaguy2
Blackmail her. Get free ****.
In all seriousness, if I was in your shoes. I'd tell my mom that I would tell my dad if she didn't.
Either way, my dad would eventually find out.
EDIT: Forget what I said. Tell your dad and get him to move all his property to a brother or something so he doesn't lose **** when he divorces your mom.
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07-31-2009, 03:58 PM #10OG of Blades
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Let us see said message. Why did you go on your moms account, were you getting suspicious of her actions etc ? I would say confront her about it, or tell your dad.
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07-31-2009, 03:59 PM #11Registered User
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Listen to this guy. ruin his life, confront your old man about it your suspicions.Originally Posted by P4yn3
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07-31-2009, 03:59 PM #12Registered Brah
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if i do, then their ****ing gonna fight or something. I dont think i can get the courage to say something to him, he loves my mom and me and my sister so much, i don't wanna make him feel bad.Originally Posted by Rhotovmt
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07-31-2009, 03:59 PM #13Man out of Time
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blackmail her for all kinds of good ****
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07-31-2009, 03:59 PM #14Registered User
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gather evidence, make sure your dad finds out and make sure she doesn't get **** from the divorce!
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07-31-2009, 04:00 PM #15smile
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ouch man tough position. first thing I would do is go into her e-mail and take screenshots of EVERYTHING. save those screenshots on a flashdrive or cd or something.
Do you have any other family who you trust to help you out in this position? Any grandparents or aunts/uncles that would handle this well? In all honesty it would be better if someone older who isn't in the immediate family handle this situation.
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07-31-2009, 04:00 PM #16Registered User
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Show the proof to your dad. No one deserves to be in the dark about being cheated on.
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07-31-2009, 04:00 PM #17Registered User
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Originally Posted by simbaguy2
Time to kick some ass (the guys) or let your Dad know. Good luck bud hope everything works out for you.
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07-31-2009, 04:00 PM #18Registered User
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you wanna die because your moms cheating?
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07-31-2009, 04:01 PM #19
I would talk to your mom about it. Force her to come out about it.
Real sorry to hear about this man. I hate when families get torn apart. Hopefully yours doesnt.:MiscMarioBrahs:.
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07-31-2009, 04:01 PM #20Registered Brah
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i would but i dont even know the email of his family or anything, and if i send him a message telling him to stop, hell probaby tell my mom and then its ****ing game over for my family.Originally Posted by greg_84
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07-31-2009, 04:01 PM #21Registered User
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if serious, then confront her. you'll have the burden of keeping the secret, but it would keep the family together perhaps. only confront her though if you're prepared to keep the secret *if* she says it'll never happen again. If she says she needs to tell your dad etc, then your family could split anyway.
but, definitely get some **** on record and prepare for battle, cos he may need sorted out, especially if he's a prick who doesn't want to let go.We've all been raised in the misc. to believe that one day we'd get repped by BPP, and misc. mods, and misc. stars. But we won't. And we're slowly learning that fact. And we're very, very pissed off.
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07-31-2009, 04:01 PM #22Registered Bro
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Your dad will respect the fact that your manning up and telling him. Wouldn't you want to know if your old lady was getting some on the side?Originally Posted by simbaguy2
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07-31-2009, 04:02 PM #23Registered User
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No she doesn't. Save your dad.Originally Posted by simbaguy2
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07-31-2009, 04:03 PM #24Gorilla Muscle
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Regardless you need to confront your mom, who know whats behind it.
By scaring off the dude, she may just find another one.
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07-31-2009, 04:03 PM #25Registered Brah
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but i don't want there to be a divorce.Originally Posted by flabtoabs
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07-31-2009, 04:03 PM #26Registered User
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you came in here advice and the misc is giving it you yet you are saying that you are too scared to do something. honestly the best thing is to tell your dad so he doesnt get screwed
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07-31-2009, 04:03 PM #27GO CUBS
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tell her to buy you a car or your telling your dad. then tell your dad anyways.
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07-31-2009, 04:04 PM #28Banned
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Stay out of it. It has nothing to do with you.
Besides, it's really not that big of a deal.
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07-31-2009, 04:04 PM #29Registered User
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tell your father.
Print evidence to back your claims.
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07-31-2009, 04:04 PM #30Fade into Bolivian.......
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Sorry op, i think you should tell your Father. Just make sure your there when he confronts your Mom.
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