Yes I suffer from it and have done for almost 10 years now and thought I would share it with my R/P buddies.
I have just come out of a cycle (i'm hoping) lasting about 4 days and have just completed my first Hiit session in 10 days. Motivation to excerise is a good thing.
I have come to realise as real and concreate as things seem when I'm mid cycle that the current state is purely a transient state of perception related to a chemical imbalance in my brain. True enough this can often be brought on from social situations/life events but quite often as was this recent episode is not the case. As inexplicable as its start was its end.
I can also tell I'm heading for a bad patch when I;
1) Become massively lethargic and find it difficult to get out of bed
2) Miss my supplements
4) Dont excercise
5) Feel driven to consume alcohol excessively
6) Ignor phone calls
7) Become apathetic
8) feel a loss of control
9) feel emotional oversenitive
10) dont leave the house
The problem is the fix for it is to excerise, to stay active and remain motivated. If I can anticipate a cycle I can avoid it be acting proactively. The odd one like the last comes with no warning.
I sometimes wonder if things would be different if I had a different philosophy on life. However what has been reasoned can not be unreasoned, and my philosophy has changed in the past 10 years and my depression has got better.
So R/P what do you have to say on the topic? anybody got similar experiences? How does the faithless and faithfull deal it it?
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07-25-2009, 03:05 PM #1
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07-25-2009, 03:11 PM #2
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I've been dealing with manic depression for the better part of the past 12 years. I have never mentioned it to any of my friends or family and have pretty much been dealing with it on my own. I realize that there are so many people in this world today that are far worst off. I have food on my plate, a roof over my head, and friends and family that care for me. This is why I consider myself to be very wealthy. As far as depression goes, its just a simple reminder to me that nothing in this life is free. I hate it but I deal with it. I hate having absolutly no interest in anything. I hate having to pretend to have fun and pretend to be normal. But like I said, I don't burden anyone with my issues. Its something that I just have to deal with for the rest of my life.
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07-25-2009, 03:11 PM #3
You should continue on your route with exercise, I have read several articles that maintain that it is the best alternative to medication (and in some articles, superior).
"Numerous studies have shown that exercise can prevent or ease depression, and that activity has benefits far beyond the physical. " http://www.acsm.org/AM/Template.cfm?...ContentID=8049
In a psychology class in High School we had to read a book for a project and I chose to read one about a psychologist who had Major Depression. She was a believer and ultimately had to receive ECT to recover: depression effects the religious and nonreligious alike. Additionally, I would advocate that you not rule out seeking professional help. On a side note, you should draw up a regiment to follow to ensure that you are persisting in regards to your exercise and other daily needs. Hope this helps.
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07-25-2009, 03:14 PM #4
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07-25-2009, 03:26 PM #5
I was prone to depression as a nihilistic until I started to read and embrace existentialism. I think nihilistic thinking at it's core can be depressing since it doesn't offer anything at all and ignores the ability we have to influence our own life.
I'm not sure if this is what causes your depression, I do think that within existentialism we have more tools to perhaps if I can describe it this way, combat the mental disease of the brain that is mortality. I think that anyone who truly believes in mortality is prone to depression at some points, especially after failures as they understand there is no second chance and no higher power to comfort them. This is just the normal advancement of our mental capabilities as we come to terms with what we are as entities.
I think the reason many people who followed nihilistic thinking moved on to something else was this black hole that nihilistic thinking is prone too, and the reasoning that we can contrive meaning to our existence even if this meaning is irrelevant and serves no purpose.It's easier to be lazy than happy
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07-25-2009, 03:27 PM #6
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I've been dealing with manic depression for the better part of the past 12 years.
I don't really know what I should do. The downs I become this self destructive evil son of a bitch.I would rather die than live my life in fear.- KSE
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07-25-2009, 03:30 PM #7
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yeah I know what you saying, although often I know what triggers it and I do have some pretty fcuk up things in my head but overall I live a cosy life compared many people in the world. I have food, shelter and live in a stable democracy. But thats just it with depression it dosn't follow reason and its utterly self indulgent.
So I'm gonna ask you a difficult question now and would appriecate a honest response but I respect it if you do not what to answer.
Is the relationship with your depression one of love/hate? I know you said you hate it but If I had a magic wand would you rather be without it?
I know from hearing from others that suffer that as much as they hate it they wouldn't won't to be without it and that the suffering is in effect is self perpetuating.
I would in part agree with this and is one of the reasons I'm am driven to drink as I now it will make things worse. I don't in enjoy it but its a choice to follow the road of self destruction
Yep pretty fcuked up
I also agree it general not a good idea to tell friends or family as they can't really do anything about it and can't understand it either. Telling a professional is probably the best thing
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there are different types of depression. I perosnally don't get the manic stage but I do show some personality traits that emphasis a manic/ocd type personality in general
Can I ask, do you ever get obsessive over something? I mean like find new hobby, be active in it with all your spare time, learn everthing you can about it. Then just drop it once you get bored.
I don't do this some much now as I have got older (I hve just got more disintreasted in general) but that is a sign of manic behaviour
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07-25-2009, 03:38 PM #11
Good thread on the topic:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...64#post3863564"The worshipers of the Most Gracious are those who tread the earth gently, and when the ignorant speak to them, they only utter peace. In the privacy of the night, they meditate on their Lord and fall prostrate."
"And they say, "Our Lord, let our spouses and children be a source of joy for us, and keep us in the forefront of the righteous." These are the ones who attain Paradise in return for their steadfastness; they are received therein with joyous greetings and peace."
(Qur'an 25:63,74-75)
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07-25-2009, 03:41 PM #12
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07-25-2009, 03:50 PM #13
Sucks bro. I've dealt with depression my whole life, and the only way I've ever been able to overcome it is just sheer mental discipline. It's probably not the answer for everyone, but if you can do it it works. I just decide how I'm going to act, regardless of how I feel, and then do it. I took several different medications, tried different psychiatrists and psychologists, diet, exercise, everything anyone ever suggested I have tried. I have found that my serious bouts are much less frequent now, and when I get them they last lots less time. I don't know why. I think it may have to do with my attitude towards dealing with them, in that I don't act like I'm depressed even when I am deeply depressed. Exercise really helps while you're in the middle of it, and stay away from alcohol.
Good luck bro. Depression sucks.A noble spirit embiggens the smallest man.
"Out of damp and gloomy days, out of solitude, out of loveless words directed at us, conclusions grow up in us like fungus: one morning they are there, we know not how, and they gaze upon us, morose and gray. Woe to the thinker who is not the gardener but only the soil of the plants that grow in him."
-Nietzsche
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07-25-2009, 03:56 PM #14
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07-25-2009, 03:57 PM #15
There are many flavors of bipolar, aka manic depression. See your internist/family doc or a psychiatrist (MD). You could be bipolar 2/hypomanic depressive. That's what I am. My "highs" are other people's normal. I never get the extreme energy or mania with binges or that sort of thing. But I am prone to extreme rage and then deep depression that can last for days. Conversations, even on the internet, can set me off into either a rage or depression. It happens at work, but my boss knows and just tries to calm me down. I'm on Wellbutrin XL, Lamictal and Klonopin. For the most part they work, but there are breakthrough periods. My rage is not as bad as it used to be though.
"Go home, have a beer and smash something. That's what I would do" - Unknown (but probably Thor).
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07-25-2009, 03:59 PM #16
I know exactly what you mean. Those lil bastards that just jump you without warning, and you don't really even realize you're depressed til you sit back and think "WTF, why am I so pissed/bummed?" Those are the worst, cause they catch you off guard and don't let you prep for them.
A noble spirit embiggens the smallest man.
"Out of damp and gloomy days, out of solitude, out of loveless words directed at us, conclusions grow up in us like fungus: one morning they are there, we know not how, and they gaze upon us, morose and gray. Woe to the thinker who is not the gardener but only the soil of the plants that grow in him."
-Nietzsche
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I am glad I am allergic to alcohol, because I'd probably be an alcoholic. I did find myself taking the marijuana route really strong as a teen and into my adult hood. It at least made me feel better for a while, well until I sobered up then I realized i just stuffed myself with food and now that I am sober, all the problems are back.
Can I ask, do you ever get obsessive over something? I mean like find new hobby, be active in it with all your spare time, learn everthing you can about it. Then just drop it once you get bored.
Conversations, even on the internet, can set me off into either a rage or depression.
I've tried a few different anti-depressants, but they all gave me nightmares/night terrors, I couldn't sleep and not to mention E.D.Last edited by MyLastSerenade; 07-25-2009 at 04:27 PM.
I would rather die than live my life in fear.- KSE
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07-25-2009, 04:42 PM #19
I am sorry to hear that you are having a hard time. Depression is very debillitating and I can attest to that. I woould suggest that you seek some professional help first. Talk to a counselor and see what they say. Does not hurt and does not mean that there is anything wrong with you. I was seeing a counselor for PTSD a few years back and it helped a lot. If there is a chemical imbalance then they can give you something to help with that. If it is a chem imbalance then there is nothing that you will be able to do psychologically to get out of the funk that you are in. I wish you the best and you will be in my prayers.
In saying all this I hope that you are not just making up this to have a big "suprise." I became a Christian at the age of 27. After years of being an athiest. I am not saying that I am any better at all now because of it, however I am saying that I have changed and am a different person because of it. my 2Cents.Last edited by JolietKev; 07-25-2009 at 04:46 PM.
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07-25-2009, 04:42 PM #20
Depression is an illness, and all illnesses come from God - as do their cures. Usually it's a warning sign that some serious imbalance in life needs to be corrected.
The most common cause of depression is actually excessive sinfulness and infrequent repentence.
Islam and depression*** There is no one free of all need, of whom all else are in absolute need, but God ***
Pbuh: If anyone testifies that None has the right to be worshipped but God Alone Who has no partners, and that Muhammad is His Servant and His Apostle, and that Jesus is God's Servant and His Apostle and His Word which He bestowed on Mary and a Spirit created by Him, and that Paradise is true, and Hell is true, God will admit him into Paradise
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07-25-2009, 04:46 PM #21
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07-25-2009, 04:47 PM #22
Wrong.
"There is no single known cause of depression. Rather, it likely results from a combination of genetic, biochemical, environmental, and psychological factors.
Research indicates that depressive illnesses are disorders of the brain."
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publi...dex.shtml#pub5
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07-25-2009, 05:28 PM #23
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07-25-2009, 05:48 PM #24
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07-25-2009, 06:58 PM #25
Yes, often it is. There are some obvious physical reasons why people become depressed - but these are directly related to the absence of spiritual treatments. People react differently to worldly problems, trauma, stress, and catastrophe and when it comes to depression, coping strategies and overall world-view is the decisive element.
Do you also suffer from depression?*** There is no one free of all need, of whom all else are in absolute need, but God ***
Pbuh: If anyone testifies that None has the right to be worshipped but God Alone Who has no partners, and that Muhammad is His Servant and His Apostle, and that Jesus is God's Servant and His Apostle and His Word which He bestowed on Mary and a Spirit created by Him, and that Paradise is true, and Hell is true, God will admit him into Paradise
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07-25-2009, 07:02 PM #26
A Couple of Questions Please
1. What kind of supps do you take, and what are their affects on your mental state?
2. What affect does zero alcohol intake have, positive or negative?
3. Can you remember if there was a trigger for your first bout with depression? If not too personal, do you feel comfortable sharing?
4. What's the longest time between bouts? The shortest?
Thanks.
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07-25-2009, 07:28 PM #27
Strongly recommend two things. First, lay off supps and alcohol. Even protein and NO2 can make me a bit off balance and I tried those back when I ate anything. Second, do a lot of cardio, and include with that walking in public. While qalking iin public, keep in mind you are not alone in any of your struggles. Walk for at least an hour and people watch in a way.
In time, create new habits in your life and seek a Higher Peace than what the secular mind can provide.
I've had my highs and lows and I'm sure I'm manic also...had some serious consequences. My advice works best for me...keep seeking what's best for you...you'll find it if you seek it...what matters is that you walk towards change and not self sedtruction.
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07-25-2009, 07:34 PM #28
I've had neurotransmitter problems for over 20 years. I see them for exactly what they are--neurotransmitter problems.
People give depression too much power. Depression is mostly physiological.
No big pharma, no pity party...just lifestyle changes and discipline.
And at the end of the day, Darwinism is still alive and kicking.
A guy who can't make it is still just a guy who can't make it.Live Laugh Love,
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07-25-2009, 07:40 PM #29
I can't claim to have depression like many on here do. I was never clinically diagnosed, but there was a stretch in my life recently where for almost 2 years where I felt depressed (I am 23). I had a good number of symptoms like self loathing, withdrawal from social life, social anxiety, and even suicidal thoughts.
I thought I would share my experience though in hopes that maybe it may help some other people.
I would get into these thought loops of how worthless I thought I was (which wasn't true), and it just built on itself. To make it worse, I internalized it all, and it began to affect other facets of my life. I started to hate being around other people and the act of socializing with others began causing me to feel anxiety when previously I was somewhat extroverted. The suicidal thoughts came at the lowest point, and was triggered by a snide comment made by one of my sisters that made me feel so horrible that I just had these thoughts involuntarily pop into my head that it would be better if I just killed myself.
That point was pivotal because it scarred me so much that two helpful things happened to help bring me out of this state. One was that I started to open up to people more about how I felt, rather than internalize all the time. I have two very good friends who were willing to listen to me, (more on that later).
The second thing was that I began a journey of introspection. Instead of stewing on how horrible I felt, I tried to find the reasons why I believed these things, and why I was feeling this way. Once I began figuring out some of these things, the very act of knowing why my mind acted in certain ways completely negated the effects the thoughts had on me. Even better I found that all the negative thoughts and feelings I was having were disappearing, and I began acting differently (in a positive way).
Towards the end of it, I started reading about neuro-linguistic programing and discovered that previously I had unwittingly been using NLP techniques to help me start to feel better. Of course now I know how to use a lot of those tools to greater effect, and it has helped me deal with or completely rid myself of many negative feelings and mindsets. (Not that I am advocating NLP over seeing a professional psychiatrist, or taking meds, but it can definitely help).
Now comes in one of my two good friends who will lend an ear. One of them is very highly emotionally aware and also unwittingly uses NLP techniques even though he doesn't know about it. This guy has been developing these skills for years through sheer emotional awareness. He is an awesome communicator, which helped me to elicit some of the reasons why I was feeling the way I do, he just asked to right questions.
Today I no longer feel depressed, although I don't feel as "up" as I did before feeling depressed, but as time goes on I feel things are improving. I also feel like I am more emotionally aware, as well as better equipped to handle emotional stress.
Again, I can't claim that I had clinical depression, so I may be talking out my ass, but I found NLP to be a wonderful tool to help me overcome the way I felt, and I would recommend it to anyone who is feeling depressed. Only as a supplement to other measures that address depression though, (remember not advocating NLP over a psychiatrist).
Finally, to all those who do have depression, I wish you all the best in dealing with it. Take care.To crush your enemies, drive them before you, and to listen to the lamentations of their women. This is what is good in life.
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07-25-2009, 08:34 PM #30
...your about as credible as Tom Cruise on chemical imbalances
this was a pretty close minded answer, friend
didn't he say he was juicin?
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